"I told myself not to cry." How much pressure do modern people feel?

In today's society, everyone's life is under great pressure, especially boys. They need to go out to work and make money just to provide a better life for their families. It's not easy for people nowadays. Some mortgage loans, car loans, etc. are all weighing on them. They can't breathe. The money they earn is not enough to pay what they owe, so they can only live frugally. I believe that some strong people will shed tears when facing the difficult side of life, but there will always be some people who tell themselves not to cry. Such people are under great pressure. Let me talk about it next!

1. Family and Parents

When we go out, no matter how good or bad we are, when we communicate with our family members on the phone, we always tell them how we are doing. We are doing well. In fact, only we know how we are doing, but we cannot let our family members worry. Many migrant workers have a very hard life. They work hard and earn little money. They send their own money home, eat steamed buns and bad vegetables, and drink Erguotou when they are in a bad mood. They tell themselves No matter what, I can't cry. I still have a wife, children and parents to support, so I mustn't give up.

2. Comparison

From my point of view, the serious imagination of comparison in society has also caused a lot of pressure on modern people. Everyone is very particular about their own face, even if If you have nothing, you can't let others look down on you. In the end, when all the money is spent, you have to be responsible for your own actions. In fact, I think such behavior is not necessary at all. Everyone can just live their own life. After all, everyone is different. If you want to compare with others, there will always be someone better than you.

3. Psychological pressure

In addition to the above, I would like to focus on psychological pressure. Nowadays, psychological problems in society are gradually becoming more serious. Many people’s patience Although my strength is very good, I am unwilling to go to the doctor. In fact, this approach is wrong.