Grandparents come to take care of their grandchildren and sleep in the living room. Let's judge. . .

I don't know what to say about you. I feel sorry for your parents. Are you used to being bullied at your husband's house? You can stand the way they treat your parents. Don't fight for yourself, but also think about your elderly parents and fight for them. Are they nannies? Even the nanny has a room to sleep in. The treatment of nannies should not be very good now. In your family, it should be your mother-in-law, living with her parents-in-law, even husband and wife. You can imagine how you usually live. To put it bluntly, you are an outsider. If I don't tell you who, you just have to put up with it. I'm used to being a docile little wife like you. They don't respect you, so they won't respect your parents. How to let the in-laws take care of their grandchildren and let them sleep in the living room? Do they have basic hospitality? All right. Your mother-in-law is an elder, so you can't argue with her directly. But what about your husband? Does he take it for granted, what's more, he doesn't even have the most basic consciousness of respecting his elders? Does he think it is right for your parents to take care of his son in the past? Your parents owe you! ! ! Why? ! !

For now, let your parents stay at her sister-in-law's house. You won't buy a new one unless your mother-in-law looks for a quilt cover. You have no time to buy it. Let your husband buy it. If your mother doesn't live, let them stay in your room and you can stay in your sister-in-law's room. Your mother thought of your daughter because of her maternal love. Now that you are a mother, you know it's not easy to be a mother. Your mother raised you to sleep in the living room and take care of the children. Do you have the heart? If your mother refuses to move her sister-in-law's room, you and your husband can sleep in the living room.

So is your mother. Can't you see that you are being bullied?

Don't choose to be a baiwenhang for your so-called better life in the future. With such a family and your personality, you will be oppressed by their family for life.

I don't know if you are stupid or naive. You should know best what your parents are like. As long as they are normal parents, they will not go to their daughter-in-law to drive her out and live in it. You think your mother-in-law promised to give up the room, and you'll be fine? Who is this family? You have been here for so long, don't you understand? I don't believe that letting your parents live in your room and living in the living room will have any impact on your future life. When your mother-in-law asked, she said, "My parents are old. It is difficult to take care of their children during the day, but they need a good rest at night. We are young and healthy, sleeping everywhere. " If your mother refuses again, let your parents go home as soon as possible and take care of the children themselves. Nowadays, many people take care of their children themselves. You can hire a part-time person to wash clothes and cook.

Besides, are you so willing to be a slave to this big family?

Whether the conditions at home are good or not is secondary. The most important thing is where you put yourself. Because your family conditions are not as good as others, you feel that you have climbed very high, put your position very low, and sincerely look down on yourself. How can I make others respect you? It is really irresponsible to let children become a member of a single-parent family because of their weakness. Besides divorce, there are many ways you can improve this situation. First of all, we should put a correct attitude and don't put pressure on ourselves just because their family conditions are good. Your husband is the key. Communicate with him often and let him know your thoughts and requirements. Let him learn to respect you first. You can take this matter of your parents as an opportunity to talk to him. When the children are older, you can find your own career or interest, instead of focusing on their families all day and treating yourself as a nanny.