Is it reasonable to say that you can't work in a relative's house or buy or sell in an acquaintance's shop? what do you think?

It makes sense not to work in relatives' homes or do business in acquaintances' shops.

/kloc-send relatives back to Shanxi to send coke 0/0 years ago. The day before, it was agreed to be a month 1000. But I didn't tell me 800 yuan a month until I got on the bus the next morning. I also want to forget it. After all, this relative is not an outsider, so let's do it. After working for half a year, my relatives opened a coke powder processing factory at home and asked me to go back to his factory to continue my work. At that time, it was agreed that the monthly basic salary would be 2000 yuan, and there would be bonuses at the end of the year. In the first three years, we worked really hard, from day to night, sometimes for two days, but we were all our own, and there was nothing to say. The benefits in the first three years were really good, and relatives also made a lot of money, and his promise was fulfilled.

But not for the next few years. It's not that he doesn't make money It's that I have money in my hand and my mentality has changed. I always feel that I am on top, my waist is too thick, and I always go looking for trouble. I barely worked for another two years after seeing such a scene. Finally, it broke up in discord. Rich people always think you are inferior to him. He has to let her do anything in order to say anything, and he will be happy with support.

In addition, you can't buy or sell shops of acquaintances. This is not absolute. It depends on his personality. An acquaintance shop has the advantage of acquaintances. Under normal circumstances, you don't lie to acquaintances. You want to be a close neighbor and a frequent visitor. In order to attract repeat customers, it must be affordable and acceptable in quality. If you cheat him twice or three times, can he still buy yours? Your reputation will be ruined. It is generally believed that acquaintances are not good at bargaining, and they do have this experience. But I'm still used to buying things in familiar stores, as long as the prices are not much different!

Up to now, I still agree with the view that "I don't go to relatives' homes for work and acquaintances' shops for business".

1. My partner is a real example.

I opened a restaurant for his granddaughter in a first-tier city. I was very busy after the store moved. I changed jobs in the army and happened to be at home, so I asked him for help. He went in August 10, and drove there almost every afternoon after one o'clock, which is a bit far away. He works until 12 o'clock in the evening, sometimes at one o'clock, and the earliest time to get off work is around eleven o'clock. Many times, I let the morning pass. Go to the barbecue and stand by the fire all the time. It's very hot in summer, so stick to it. I have been standing for almost 8-9 hours. But I didn't get paid until 9- 13. He told me that I had paid 3500 yuan. After listening, I was happy. Still so close relatives, so hard for him, but also give him three days less salary. Not only barbecue, but also clean up after work.

Before, my partner found a part-time job delivering beer near our home, which cost more than 5000 yuan a month. Send beer if you want, don't just sit and play. Gifts will also be given during festivals. Arrive at eight in the morning, rest for an hour and a half at noon, and get off work at five or six in the afternoon. I feel much better than helping relatives. At least my partner said he wasn't tired.

It's not 65438+10.8, so it won't be there if something happens. Today is 12, and the salary has not been paid yet. I'm sorry to ask for it. Their family earns less than 6000 yuan a day, so they give my partner 3500 yuan a month. I really don't want to work for my relatives anymore. To put it bluntly, it is too picky.

2. I didn't go to an acquaintance's shop to buy or sell. I've experienced it myself.

(1) In my senior year, my partner found an acquaintance and bought me a brand-new notebook. When writing a thesis after graduation, there is a blue screen. I haven't bought it for a month. I'm speechless. At that time, the dormitory was revising the paper and it really collapsed. Later, I went to the so-called acquaintances and updated the system. After less than three months, it failed, and I spent money to update it again. Later, I spent money to update the system two or three times. It is really these "acquaintances" who are lying to us.

(2) Looking for an acquaintance to buy a mobile phone charging treasure. It has been used for several months and the effect is not good. I bought it online, 79, and it has been used for more than two years, and there is no problem. Most importantly, I read the purchase price she said, which is more expensive than Taobao. The headphones I bought from her are the same. It broke down in a few days, but the price was not flattering.

You still have to have a long snack in the future. Don't forget that your relatives can help you. Don't try to touch other people's spikes with your heart. It is always you who get hurt. Go shopping with acquaintances just to buy a cheaper one. Please always remember, greedy for small advantages, eating big losses, the same truth.

This sentence is very reasonable. I did business when I was young, which I know very well. Relatives are not suitable for doing business together, especially couples.

I was selling daily necessities in the largest wholesale market in our city. Next door to me is a lovers' shop. They sell small department stores such as needles, thread and brains. The couples I see on weekdays are humorous, cheerful and considerate. But because I am very close to them, I see the other side-the couple will quarrel once every half month! And it's the kind that needs to be done.

It is often women who scold men for their lack of vision, while men say that women know nothing. In order to sell goods, the two often scold each other red-faced. . .

Actually, they are nothing. I had a big fight with my wife. Really do it! The goods were smashed to pieces in the warehouse. I really want a divorce. It is because the idea of buying and selling goods is different, and each has its own aesthetics and ideas. However, the defects of personality are easily triggered by interests. One side is impatient, and the other side is proud. Doing business together can easily lead to civil war.

I remember that the only reason my mother was angry with me and shed tears was because of business. At that time, I had a shop idle in other places. My mother had nothing to do, and she was heartbroken about the cost of the shop, so she had to sell goods in the past. As a result, it was sold at the wrong price several times. After a few days, instead of recovering any expenses, I lost some money. I couldn't help saying a few words to her. As a result, the old man shed tears . . . . .

After that, I sold the store with her. More money is more money, so don't ask again.

Another year, I worked in a friend's company. Because of my friends' concern, my work is relatively easy and envied by many employees in the company. People laugh and ridicule every day. Later, my friend asked me to manage the warehouse. As soon as I saw the careless accounts in the warehouse and the fact that the warehouse was often unlocked, I resolutely resigned. This responsibility is too great. Once the goods are lost or the accounts are unclear, neither I nor his friends can.

Later, after I entered the securities industry. I never let my family interfere in my work. Everything has affection, and friends are very troublesome. It's hard to handle, even if you make money, it's easy to hurt your feelings.

It is reasonable not to work in relatives' homes or buy or sell shops of acquaintances. The old saying is that people sum up experiences and lessons in their daily lives. The cousin of Shanghai aunt's family is an entrepreneur, and the son of rural aunt's family comes to work in Shanghai cousin's unit. After a long time, he makes irresponsible remarks. He was embarrassed to say that, much less to fire him. People on both sides said that what they did was unreasonable. There are also shops that can't buy or sell acquaintances. I have a deep understanding. When I return to my hometown in the New Year, I need to burn paper money for my ancestors. I went to an acquaintance's shop to buy paper money. Five books in other people's stores are all more than 60 yuan. I want to open a shop in the village and do some business for her. Everyone is a villager. I bought five bank notes in the shop, which means everyone has one. A * * * five, I was embarrassed to ask the price, took out one hundred yuan for her, and waited for her to give me my change. By the way, she said that it was finished, and it was twenty yuan for one hundred yuan for five. I thought to myself at that time, I will never buy it again. Originally, my brother said not to buy it in the past, because it is cheaper elsewhere. I still don't believe it. Now I finally understand what it means to buy and sell an acquaintance shop.

I couldn't agree more! Tell me about your experience!

My friend's father knows something about herbs. On that occasion, he said that he was in poor health. He said to give me some medicine to see if it worked. I asked him how much it was. I think it would be nice if we agreed first. As a result, he said that these few dollars were free, because I only gave his children 300 dollars, so I didn't give money to honest and frank. Hammer took five bags to eat, and the result was not very good. He said keep eating, I said you don't want money, I'll get you some. Let me know if it's not enough. I gave 500 yuan, and he said the former one was free, and the latter one asked you to pay. It happened that my health suddenly deteriorated in those days, and the doctor prescribed many other medicines and could not take mine, so I told him the situation. As a result, he took my deposit and didn't even answer the phone. But what should I do with my friends? I just learned my lesson. Don't do business with acquaintances, or you really can't say something!

Like my brother, although he has benefited from the work of his relatives, he has gained a job and a skill, but in the eyes of his relatives, he feels that he has given you enough, and he always feels that my brother has always owed them. My brother worked in a relative's factory for seven or eight years, and basically his best youth is here. Not that his relatives gave him money for nothing, but it was also a hard work and an income.

When he just graduated, his relatives really helped him.

But there are some exceptions, such as my cousin.

Judging from the situation of my brother and my cousin, we will find that they are very different. One belongs to peer-to-peer and the other belongs to wanting to help. The same relatives, the treatment is obviously different.

"If you can't work in a relative's house, you can't buy or sell in an acquaintance's shop" does have some truth, but it is not absolute. It depends on how close you are to your relatives. If the relationship is normal, don't look for someone else. You can talk to them if you have a good relationship. In fact, you can see that some people are angry with their relatives, but others are prosperous with their relatives, so they are not absolute, but need themselves.

It really makes sense to work instead of going to relatives' homes. I used to work in my aunt's sister's house. Her name was Xiao Yan. Her home is a restaurant. After I went, I tried my best to do it, but I still couldn't. I have worked there for more than three years without any complaints. After I left, my middle friends often came to see me. After they left, they made a sarcastic remark, which meant that they were not allowed to come here in the future because it was not easy to find someone. The basic young people in the hotel don't want to do it. I'm going to buy clothes, but I have to control buying some. I studied hard early and went to college. At that time, there were not many mobile phones, so I felt very happy when I bought a mobile phone. When qq becomes popular, it will shake and remind me that someone is online. My aunt didn't understand, so she thought I was chatting, didn't love myself and wouldn't let me use my mobile phone. I threw my mobile phone into the sewage bucket in a rage. In short, I worked in a hotel for several years. At night, I just pile up the stools and sleep, with no rest time. Later, I didn't want to do it, and I didn't let go. I was so ugly that I finally ran away! I haven't been in touch since. Now that things have passed, I have begun to contact! Therefore, I really don't recommend working in a relative's house. No matter how well you do, everyone takes it for granted. She still feels very caring for you, as if you would starve to death if you left them!

Exactly. Many years ago, my husband worked in the company of relatives from other provinces. One employee just left, and my husband asked me to take the top job. So we can get close. The salary is the same as that of the previous employees, but things are assigned to me more. After working for more than half a year, just after the Chinese New Year, I feel that work is charity. Years later, I left my job and went to another company, and my salary doubled. There are six-hour weekends every day, and all holidays are legal. When my boss and his wife come back from business trips, they both bring gifts to our office, and sometimes they bring special products back to share with my husband. During the Chinese New Year, I sealed a big red envelope and distributed the company's gift package to everyone. In recent years, I opened a grocery store in my hometown. When relatives and friends come to buy things, I always give them preferential prices, but my husband often doesn't charge them or undercharges the purchase price. To tell you the truth, I don't want to accept money or do anything at a loss. I think relatives and friends are relatives and friends, and business is business. My husband said that I don't understand people's accidents, and I'm not convinced.

It makes sense to say "you can't work in a relative's house". My colleague's sister-in-law opened a small factory in Shenzhen very early. At first, my colleague's husband and my sister-in-law's son both worked in that factory. Once, my nephew saw the payday and didn't see the money, so he asked the partner why he didn't pay. The partner said that your salary is 800 yuan, and I gave it to your aunt the other day. She hasn't given it to you yet? The nephew heard something was wrong: why did my aunt keep telling herself that she only had a salary of 600 yuan? I resigned that night. Everyone in the factory said that her sister-in-law was too cruel, and her nephew cheated him of 200 yuan a month when he worked with her.

Now, my sister-in-law has a million dollars. Every New Year, she goes back to her hometown to see her mother and cook and buy vegetable oil. When she leaves, she will take it back to her home. Too stingy.

I personally agree with this view.

A relative sells chickens in the vegetable market. He has been in business for more than ten years. I have never been there. Once I passed by, she saw it and was very enthusiastic. She insisted on giving me a chicken. I said no, and I ran. I'm afraid to go to that market in the future and try to avoid such a thing. Because people are talking business and want to make money, this kind of human gift makes me uneasy. If you buy from her, you will be more cautious and dare not bargain ... In short, you feel a little uncomfortable.

The same is true of working in a relative's house. I'm afraid that the work relationship will hurt each other's feelings and even my relatives can't do it.

Always believe that there is still a proper distance between people. Keeping a certain distance can produce intimacy and comfort. If you get too close, people will inevitably see too many shortcomings of each other and despise each other. Over time, the previous mutual affection disappeared. Therefore, best friends should try to be less colleagues. Between husband and wife, try not to be in the same unit.