Which is more important, the baby or the mother during confinement?

? Are you surprised to see this topic? In fact, this is a very serious issue for mothers who are in confinement. I remember when I just gave birth to little Taozi, the doctor said to go home and have a good confinement period. , I originally thought that I could have a quiet and comfortable "long vacation", but I never thought that there would be a series of brain-burning problems that would make you dizzy and have no solution in a short time. (Actually, I originally planned to hire a confinement nanny, but I gave up after seeing how good the confinement nanny was and how difficult it was to hire a confinement nanny. We will not consider the confinement center)

? Let’s talk about Xiaobao first. He has been going through various dramas since he was born. This kind of plot amazed everyone. It really echoed the old saying "Children who eat, sleep and eat belong to other people's families." Xiao Taozi is the kind of energetic child who never sleeps for more than two hours during the day. Even after a few hours, you won’t be full at the same time even if you breastfeed. It’s like babies are born with them. Grandma, husband and mother-in-law will take turns taking care of them. (Actually, grandma is mainly responsible for taking care of them.) I am only responsible for breastfeeding during the day and night feeding at night. It also takes three or four times, sometimes even five or six times, and there are often stools that need to be dealt with at night. At this time, the importance of the baby's father can be reflected. At the beginning, the baby's father was not suitable to argue with me about who should change it, and he changed it. I suffered from insomnia once. Later, my father adapted and took on all the tasks of changing diapers at night. He could put them in and out freely, and fell asleep after changing. Even so, I could not withstand the pressure of my weak body and became very grumpy and in a bad mood.

? Then there is the confinement diet. Except for the foods that cannot be eaten during confinement, you must eat something you like. Before giving birth, we specially made confinement meal recipes based on our own dietary preferences. My husband said don’t worry. When the time comes, he will be able to stew the soup in it (I’m really just talking). In the end, all the meals were cooked by my mother. During the confinement period, I had a big fight with my husband, saying that he lied to me. We agreed before the birth. Nothing was done. In fact, I found out later that he really couldn't do it, but mothers often feel bad after giving birth. The most important thing is a series of problems caused by physical reasons.

? We also had a lot of problems during the entire confinement period. As a mother, you should learn to communicate with your family. If your baby is breastfed, as long as he is full, he can actually take more care of his family (it is recommended to breastfeed the baby) feeding) and allow yourself enough time to rest and recuperate.

In fact, it is hard to say who is more important, the baby or the mother. The birth of a baby is a very important thing for a family, but sometimes we ignore the importance of the mother. In fact, it should be that the mother is in a good mood. Once your body is well-conditioned, you will have more energy to take care of your baby. Newborn babies are very fragile and need not only the mother's care, but also a happy and warm environment. For a first-time mother, confinement is not something that she can enjoy. , is actually a very high challenge and requires the understanding and love of your husband and family in order to have a happy confinement and a happy baby.

? I hope that all new mothers will learn to share unnecessary work with their families so that they can have a good body and a good mood. I hope that my father will learn and grow together like my mother on the way to raising my baby.

? Later, I will share some precautions for babies and mothers during confinement, as well as some diet and mood adjustment.