Just say it.

I don't know when it started, and more and more people around me are saying a similar sentence: I am straightforward, so don't mind!

Please. You are hurting others by saying that! Do you want to try to cover up the fact of hurting each other with straightforward signs?

"I am such a person with a knife mouth and a heart."

"I am outspoken. I have no bad heart. "

Sorry, everyone is not a fool. This kind of communication can only prove that you are mosaic the communication methods that you can't handle well or communicate well with others.

This sentence is really amazing!

On the one hand, I tell you this because I am direct, and I am not the kind of person who hides anything. On the other hand, subconsciously let everyone accept what you call a nice person who doesn't beat around the bush.

In fact, people who often say this sentence, he (she) considers not others, but their own feelings. It's over if you say it yourself, no matter whether others are happy or not. To put it bluntly, this is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, self-centeredness and selfishness!

People with a clear head can still treat these words rationally. But most of us have not cultivated such a strong heart. We don't want to hear these sincere words that flaunt that we are very direct and hurtful, and we don't want to hear them. Because, it really doesn't listen!

Some people say, don't be narrow-minded, they just talk, there is not much malice, don't take it to heart, they are still very nice people.

Yes! The speaker didn't think much, and his mouth became addicted. But as soon as I hear people, my heart is on tenterhooks and I feel terrible. It will take a long time to digest the result of your "unintentional" saying the wrong thing.

As the saying goes, the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional.

If you want others to accept and listen to your suggestions, you must be strong before you can convince others. Then it is to find the breakthrough point of the event, really help others and solve problems.

If you don't have such conditions and don't consider each other's situation, then you can't expect others to have a good impression on you, and you can't expect others to accept your so-called views.

We have been taught since childhood that advice when we are unhappy is beneficial. Historical stories tell us that although unpleasant words are unpleasant, they are really for your own good and consideration.

However, in today's era, if you still speak casually, casually, regardless of occasions, and don't care about other people's feelings, then I want to congratulate you. Congratulations to your friends who are getting farther and farther away from you in the future, so far that others are unwilling to associate with people like you. This is not an alarmist!

Zongsa Rinpoche said:

Many times, people who flaunt their frankness just don't want to consider each other's feelings.

Speaking straight is actually unwilling to put yourself in the other person's shoes. What you say is what you are!

So, relax! Not everyone can say this sentence, and not everyone will mind after hearing it. If you want to learn how to communicate with people better, you must start from yourself.

Speaking is an art, let us know how to respect others and not embarrass them. Let's not talk about learning those speech skills for the time being, but still experience the charm of speech from life and work.

People naturally like to make friends with people with smiles and gentle voices. Such a person will naturally feel intimate when talking with him.

The world is too big for your warm words. May you and I both become people who can listen to other people's inner language!

So, if someone tells you that I am straightforward in the future, don't mind, you can reply loudly: I'm sorry, I mind!