Can't children get on the young connection?

Children must be associated with young children. If you can't read, learn pinyin and math, the child can't keep up with primary school.

When my baby was in the first grade, his classmates just didn't take part in the young connection, and the kindergarten didn't learn any culture classes. They just play, resulting in children knowing nothing at school. In the first grade, the teacher won't teach you a pinyin and a math problem bit by bit, and the school is very fast. If you don't know Pinyin, it's very difficult to read texts and words, let alone read math problems yourself. A lot of content is just passed by the teacher and will not be discussed in detail. When he comes home, the children won't have many problems, and writing new words will also be a problem. In the long run, the child will be tired of learning, because he has no foundation for young convergence, and he will be confused and don't understand what the teacher says.

Therefore, children must be young and connected.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

Although my child is only in a small class, I am already understanding this problem.

I have consulted the parents of children who have been in contact with me since childhood, consulted those who have not, and consulted teachers.

Based on their opinions, I think I will let the children contact each other. My child goes to a public kindergarten, and the school does not advocate learning any knowledge. Happy growth is what they admire. In this way, without too much professional contact, children will not adapt to work and rest, to class discipline, including cultural knowledge, and their acceptance will be very low.

The first-grade teacher told me that most of the children now go from infancy to elementary school, and they have taken classes in the first half of the first grade or even the whole year of the first grade. Therefore, most teachers will pass by in class and will not explain in depth. Children who have never been to school may be confused and spend more time studying after school. In addition, the homework assigned by the school will seriously affect their rest time. Children who have participated in young convergence have more confidence in what the teacher said than those who have not, because they may know all the questions asked by the teacher.

Of course, there will be negative effects. Children who have had contact with young children will think that I have learned everything the teacher said, and I will be distracted in class, so I can't develop the good habit of listening to the class. If I don't have a correct learning attitude in the second day of junior high school, it may also affect my children's future grades. After all, only the first grade content was handed in by teenagers.

If you plan to send your child to preschool, you'd better choose a transfer institution for your child. After many children go to kindergarten, the teacher does not seriously correct the child's pen-holding posture or class attitude, which will affect the child's future primary school life.

I hope my answer is helpful to you.

We went to a big class instead of a particularly young bridging class. Only English has been studied in an institution for more than a year. I don't know many words, just let him play games on the literacy app to recognize a little words. I didn't deliberately teach to read or write Chinese characters. When I saw him writing his name in kindergarten, I taught him the order of writing his name. I have hardly touched pinyin. I'm going to learn a little pinyin next semester. In fact, I don't want to learn Pinyin so early. I just heard that it is faster to teach Pinyin in the first grade in public schools. After listening to the opinions of my predecessors, I decided to learn a little to avoid being too flustered when I was in primary school. I am a poor math student, and I am not very helpful to my baby's math enlightenment. He has to break his fingers for a long time before he can add or subtract within 10. Seeing how many pages a child of the same age can add and subtract in a day, I am still envious. So I'm going to take a few math thinking classes next semester, or learn Go or something to expand my thinking and logic.

Children can't go to the Youth League, it depends on their own situation. If time and economic conditions permit, it is better to suggest a suitable point. If parents are awesome and can teach by themselves, it doesn't matter whether they go to school or not. After all, education now is to fight for the strength and ability of parents. If the child has no foundation at all, it may be difficult to go to primary school for the time being, or it may have a little impact on his self-confidence.

Whether children should contact with young people depends on the actual situation. Let me give you my opinion.

First of all, many children, like my children, attend public kindergartens. After three years, children basically don't get much knowledge, and teachers also make it clear that kindergartens only cultivate children's behavior habits and prepare for primary schools. The superior leaders don't let the kindergarten become a primary school, for fear that the pronunciation is not standard during counseling, which will affect the children's learning Chinese. So my family went to a kindergarten teacher to learn pinyin, and the teacher in the remedial class was also very responsible. With this month's preparation, it will be much easier for children to learn pinyin in the first grade. If your children's situation is similar to mine, it is good for them to have a young connection.

Secondly, public kindergartens do not allow primary schools, but it cannot prevent private kindergartens from teaching in advance. The neighbor's children go to a private kindergarten in Shanghai. The child who lives in his home said that when he was in the big class, he had already learned all the knowledge here in the first grade, and all of them knew it. If so, I don't think it is necessary to give the child a young connection, because he doesn't need it.

Let's talk about the advantages and disadvantages of young connections first. There are many kinds of remedial classes outside the school, and the level is uneven. Some remedial classes pursue quantity, and they want to spend a month teaching the knowledge of grade one in the summer vacation, but the progress is too fast and they don't agree. Young convergence is still based on learning pinyin. Learn pinyin well, and there will be no big problem in the first grade Chinese. I have said all the benefits, which are beneficial to children's first-grade study and can help children keep up with the progress of teachers' classes faster.

The bad thing is that I am afraid that some children think that they can learn well in class, which will affect the formation of study habits. Therefore, joining the young is mainly the children of their own families. Even if not, it may be difficult for children to learn at first, but as long as they listen carefully in class, they will soon be able to make up.

My daughter is in the first grade this year, and she has some experience about not being able to participate in young convergence. The direct feeling of the daughter and the children around her is that it is necessary to cultivate some abilities for the children, but it is not necessary to go to a small class without going to a large class.

I believe this is Ma Bao's most concerned issue in Daban recently. At this time last year, I hesitated, but finally I didn't report my young contact to my children and tell us the choice at that time.

1, transfer from kindergarten to small, new environment, new teachers, new classmates need children to adapt.

Children have adapted to kindergarten life for more than two years, the environment is familiar with teachers, and there are more small partners. The child lives happily. If the young contact is removed, the teacher will concentrate on teaching and may not pay too much attention to the psychological changes of the children.

Children aged 5-6 in large classes will be afraid, anxious and uneasy when they suddenly enter a new environment. Accepting the new environment also needs a process, and separation is painful for children aged 5-6.

2, young convergence, children are tired.

Nowadays, in order to get ahead and let parents see their achievements, young cram schools in society have to finish the first grade courses in six months and more than half the second grade courses in one year. The children in the big class are currently in the stage of concrete thinking. For example, when a child calculates 5+3, he will present 5 and then 3 in his mind, and meditate on 6, 7, 8 and so on. Addition and subtraction except ten are calculated mechanically by remembering the composition of numbers.

First-grade children can analyze, compare and reason, and their way of thinking changes from concrete thinking to abstract thinking. After learning arithmetic, they have a better sense of the times and can understand the meaning of mathematics and really understand and absorb it.

From the development of children's thinking, it can be seen that children in kindergarten classes learn mathematics, and teachers teach mechanical memory, and children are very tired. At the same time, there is still a lot of knowledge to recite and homework to write. Children aged 5-6 are developing hand bones, and writing too much every day is easy to get bored.

3, the knowledge of the first grade is repeated, and children will easily lose concentration in class, resulting in the phenomenon of the third grade.

My daughter is now finishing the first semester of Grade One. She learned addition and subtraction within 20 in one semester. First, she introduced numbers to let children establish mathematical thinking, and then taught them addition and subtraction within 10. Teachers should talk about these basics for several months, and the key point is to let children really understand mathematics, cultivate their sense of numbers and cultivate their logical thinking. This is the basis of mathematics learning and it is also very important.

However, children have learned these contents when they are young, and they may not pay much attention to them in class. They have the foundation of young convergence in the first and second grades. When the difficulty of the third grade course increases, the problems will be exposed, the attention will not be concentrated, and the teacher will not be able to keep up with the lecture, which will lead to difficulties in homework and decline in grades. For most children, learning too deeply is not conducive to their long-term development.

4. A child's childhood is only once.

Last year, we chose to let our daughter live in a familiar kindergarten. They are the oldest children in the garden. They are familiar with the environment, play with close friends, live together and play games every day. They are very happy. Childhood is only once. I hope that children's memories of childhood are sweet, and childhood is really unrepeatable.

5. It is impossible for kindergarten not to study at all.

Do the right thing at the right time. It is not recommended to let children learn too much too early, but it is impossible not to learn. At present, the first grade Chinese, 16 weeks to complete 8 units, Pinyin more than a month to complete, completely 0-based, children will be a little tired.

In addition, primary schools attach great importance to reading. If children don't start reading enlightenment in kindergarten and don't master certain Chinese characters, they will be very tired to read. In addition, because I can't understand mathematics, I can't understand the meaning of the questions, and I can't do many questions.

Therefore, it is not recommended to study too deeply, and it is not recommended to enter the school on the basis of 0. We can cultivate children's skills in kindergarten.

1, cultivate reading habits.

I met a treasure mother in the big class the day before yesterday and asked me what to prepare for my children in the first grade. First of all, it is suggested to cultivate children's reading habits. At that time, Ma Bao replied to me and said, "It's hard to study every day." . It is really helpless, boring and annoying to think that we are tired from our day's work and read a picture book repeatedly every day.

But children's reading habits are really cultivated by our persistence day after day. At the beginning, we read to our children, and gradually children remember and read more words, and children will read to us in turn. In kindergarten, we mainly use hand-sliding reading to keep children's hand-eye coordination, and the process of reading is also a process of literacy.

Regarding the nature of reading and how to read, I once wrote, "Young people can't keep up, it's difficult to have a basic knowledge, and they are afraid of the third grade curse?" It is important to cultivate four abilities. This article has a detailed introduction. Friends in need can go and have a look. There are too many words, so I won't go into details here ~

2. Teach children to know some words.

Literacy is also necessary for first-grade children, because children's literacy has increased, and they will understand and do math problems quickly when reading and reading. It is very important to cultivate children's autonomy in learning in primary schools. In order to avoid doing homework in primary schools, it is necessary for us to consciously teach children some Chinese characters in kindergartens.

You can use the usual billboards, literacy cards, picture books or literacy software. At that time, my daughter preferred Wukong's literacy. She learns five new words and reviews five old words on average every day. She can master 65,438+0,000 common words a year in a large class.

3. Writing skills.

Children are not advised to write too much in kindergarten. There is a little reminder that children must pay attention to their posture when they take a pen, and they will not buckle their wrists or fingers. Once a child has developed a bad writing habit, it will be very difficult to correct it later. So, find a correct video when they take a pen online, and tell them that it is correct when they just take a pen. Very important ~ ~

In addition, if conditions permit, you can find a good hard-pen calligraphy enlightenment class when you are in the big class, teach your children some basic strokes, and it is correct to start writing. If you write well, your child will be very confident. Don't write too much at a time, as long as the children can accept it.

4. Simply teach mathematics.

Our experience, children's mathematics, the first grade teacher taught us very carefully, so in the first grade, we followed the teacher's pace, cultivated children's sense of number and space, distinguished right from left, had a solid foundation and good habits, and the children would follow. It is enough for kindergarten to simply teach children addition and subtraction within 10.

5, the cultivation of concentration.

Concentration and self-control are the key points that we should help children cultivate in kindergarten. Focus, can sit and live, the effect of class will be better, and you can study with your child when he is young; Accompany them to concentrate on illustration; Accompany the child to complete a painting; We can also calm down and listen to our children's thoughts and talk about our heart-to-heart communication with them when we were young. Sometimes, it is better to put down your mobile phone and participate in the children.

I want to give my children a happy childhood, so I didn't go to kindergarten, but cultivated reading, literacy, pinyin, shorthand and concentration in advance. During the holiday, I spent a month experiencing the rhythm of primary school, and the children adapted well in the first grade. Therefore, according to our actual situation, it is really necessary to help children make choices seriously.

I have shared it with you several times recently. I sincerely hope that my daughter's personal experience can help you. I just hope you are less confused and give your baby a correct choice. Primary school can keep up and have a happy childhood. I will let the baby taste both fish and bear's paw ~ ~

1. According to my experience, I think we should have a young connection. Children are young to go to kindergarten now. When they start to go, they just ask the teacher to look after them … when they really learn knowledge, they will be in the middle class and the big class. Now kindergartens are also divided into public and private ones to prevent children from learning too much, so some schools focus on developing intelligence to prevent you from learning too much …

2. But now, when you enter primary school, you still have to take an exam. How to take the exam without learning some knowledge in kindergarten? Maybe it's better to underline now. If you want to go to a private primary school, you must pass the exam.

It was different in primary school. In the new school, children adapt to different environments. Primary school teachers teach faster. Some children are receptive and learn quickly. Some children can't accept it, so they can't. It would be much better if you studied in advance.

4. There are also parents' reactions. If children study in advance and study in primary school, they will feel that they will, but they will not attend classes, which is counterproductive.

Anyway, according to their children, come on.

Personally, I don't think it is necessary to attend classes, but I still need to be familiar with the knowledge in advance. I can bring my own. If I can't bring it myself, I can go to class. My baby just started primary one in September this year, and I didn't think it was necessary to learn before. My baby has a preliminary understanding of pinyin initials and finals in kindergarten, which should be enough on the whole. But when I really started school, I found that most children could spell, and the school finished learning Pinyin in less than a month, so I had to be proficient in spelling. Children can't keep up with a few letters a day, especially when spelling in tones. . . Therefore, I told my sister and cousin that children must know whether to enroll in classes or teach themselves, but they must be familiar with them in advance, and at the same time, literacy should be accumulated in advance, and children's literacy can't keep up. Therefore, you should read more books and accumulate more new words. In addition, whether you can sit still in class, you should also infiltrate in advance and lose your concentration. First-year-olds are common, but they should be adjusted as much as possible. . . I hope it helps you. My child just entered primary school this year. If he has any questions, he can communicate again.

I am struggling with this problem because I can't keep up with young people. In the middle class of my children's kindergarten, the teacher also teaches some simple addition and subtraction within 10, and requires that the little red book of 0- 10 should write four pages a week. The children are confused about addition and subtraction, and they are tired of writing a few numbers. The rest are coaxed by adults until they are finished. This process is completely unnecessary.

Parents with children in the first grade. The child's grades in the first grade are not very satisfactory, which causes her to be anxious every day and blames herself for not giving the children a youth league. Therefore, she feels that the second child in the kindergarten middle class must join the youth league one year in advance and strongly invites me to join the youth league together.

At first, it was for the good of children, and I felt it necessary to know about it. But I heard that I will finish everything in the first grade ahead of time, and some even learn a little in the second grade. What will children learn after the first grade of primary school? Knowing everything about learning new content will reduce your enthusiasm, right? Speaking of what he can't understand, it should be the second grade. After a year of positive feelings, can he still study actively?

So, I am hesitant about this, but I still think at what age I should learn something. I don't want to pull out the seedlings in advance. I am afraid that learning will have an impact on his primary school career, and I am afraid that he will lose his enthusiasm and initiative in learning new knowledge. Therefore, I suggest you think twice before you act. If you really want to study in advance, you can buy some related books and learn a little while playing with him. You don't have to learn all of them. Don't say that. This can also increase his learning motivation and improve his self-confidence in the process of attending primary school.