What kind of experience is a girlfriend's high emotional intelligence?

It is the experience of feeling that I can learn a lot from her.

When I was a sophomore, I met her because of Hanfu. We all like Hanfu and traditional culture, which makes our friendship have a very good start. At that time, as college students, we organized Hanfu activities together, and she often wrote activity plans. After the activity, I wrote a summary of the activity and sent wonderful pictures and texts to Weibo or a post bar to let everyone know about Hanfu and appreciate its beauty. Looking back now, what we did was a bit bloody.

Every traditional festival, we will hold activities, carefully prepare traditional food, and spend good time with a group of people who also like Hanfu and love traditional culture. Later, she founded Hanfu Club, and she served as the president. Remember that you need to take photos to promote the establishment of a club. My best friend is beautiful and has a lot of beautiful Chinese clothes, so local photographers like to take pictures with her. She invited the photographer to the school and gave the photographer more Hanfu models, which solved the problem that we didn't have a photographer to shoot Hanfu.

At that time, I thought she was really good at using resources and sharing them generously. Without her, the photography level of our Hanfu Club at that time would not be so high. Every time the photographer makes an appointment, she is very cooperative and expressive, which makes the photographer's creative passion soar. Even if we go out to take pictures now, Lu Yu, an "old mage" who doesn't know photography but likes it, is generous enough to let people take pictures and won't show any disgust at others' "taking pictures".

Why does she have photographer resources? In addition to being beautiful, she is good at chatting and takes the shooting work seriously. When she doesn't want to go out to take photos, she will politely refuse on WeChat and arrange a better scene to take photos next time. She promised to put on makeup and comb a suitable and beautiful hairstyle, which is very professional. I won't worry the photographer any more. Being girlfriends with a girl with high emotional intelligence can not only get in touch with the resources she has, but also learn her attitude of getting along with people. It's great.