What is the secret of facial expressions?

The secret of facial expressions (clicks: 4155)

I am very, very afraid of the dark 2005-03-08 00:19:59 Published on Focus Chongqing Real Estate Network - Talking about Housing and Market -Junyi Jiangnan Forum

Human faces can show thousands of countless and very subtle expressions, and the expressions change very quickly, quickly and meticulously, and can reflect truly and accurately Emotion, conveying information. The various emotions shown on the face are the best way to attract the other person's attention. Before you even speak, the other person has gotten certain information from your facial expressions and has an understanding of your temperament, emotions, personality, attitude, etc. So there is a saying that goes well, first look at a person’s face. Face is the appearance of a person’s value and character. The so-called face not only refers to a person’s appearance, but mainly refers to facial expressions.

A blush on the face is usually a sign of shyness or excitement. In sexual situations, people often blush, which is a signal of human virginity. A blue and white face is a sign of being angry, angry, or frightened and extremely nervous. The eyebrows, eyes, nose and mouth on the face can express extremely rich, detailed and subtle and changeable expressions. Frowning means disagreement, annoyance, or even anger; raising eyebrows means excitement, solemnity and other emotions; eyebrow flashing means welcoming or strengthening the tone; frowning is slower than flashing, and the eyebrows are raised for a short time and then lowered , expressing surprise or sadness.

Human eyes can best reveal the secrets and passions of a person's heart. As a little poem says: "The eyes are the windows to the soul. They can neither conceal nor lie. Anger sparks, sadness pours tears, and it adds a bright flash to laughter." The diameter of the eye is about 2.5 The centimeter is not only the smallest organ in the human body, but also the one with the least growth and change. However, its expression is extremely complex and subtle, and sometimes it is difficult to describe it in words, so it has always been said that the eyes can speak. Generally speaking, looking straight up means solemnity, looking up means thinking, squinting means contempt, and looking down means shyness. But it has a distinctive feature: when you see people or things you like, your pupils will expand abnormally; when you see people or things you don't like, your pupils will shrink, even to the size of a pinhole. When a normal man sees an image of a naked woman, his eyes will open twice as big as usual. Some card players know that their opponent has a good hand when he notices his opponent's pupils dilating. Because pupils don't lie, smart gamblers always place small bets first and then pay close attention to the dealer's eye reaction. The banker loses money repeatedly without knowing how the secret got out. This kind of situation shows that people have long noticed the relationship between psychological activities and eyes and pupils. Ancient and modern writers love to use eyes to describe people's emotions, such as smiling pupils and greedy eyes, which all reflect the particularly close relationship between eyes and the soul.

Scientific research shows that pupil changes best reflect changes in the inner world. Whenever there is strong interest or motivation, the pupils will dilate rapidly. It is said that when jewelry merchants in ancient Persia sold jewelry, they always asked for prices based on the size of the customers' pupils. If the sparkle of a diamond ring can make a customer's pupils dilate, the merchant will charge more for it.

The delicious food presented in front of you will also dilate people's pupils. The pupils of hungry people will dilate even more. If you add the action of swallowing, it will form what people often call " "Glutious". In addition to visual stimulation, stimulation received by other senses can also cause changes in the pupils. When people listen to their favorite music or taste delicious food with their tongues, their pupils will also dilate in response to fear, tension, anger, love, and pain. Pupils will shrink when you are disgusted, tired, or annoyed. It can be seen that pupils are closely related to psychology.

In short, we can use the rules of pupil changes to determine a person's interest, hobbies, motivations for certain things, and his or her admiration for the opposite sex and other psychological changes. The dilation or contraction of pupils is completely unconscious and difficult to conceal, so the eyes reveal inner secrets. When lovers see each other's deep pool of black and shining light, they will intuitively feel that their love is reciprocated, or that the other party is courting; if they see their pupils shrinking like needlepoints, they will feel that there is something wrong with their relationship. question.

This characteristic of the eyes leads to the second characteristic, which is that the most intense eyes are very different from ordinary eyes. There are two types of strongest jealousy: one is when enemies meet, and they are extremely jealous; the other is when lovers meet, and they are extremely excited.

These two kinds of long-term eye-to-eye gaze and sparking eye contact only occur when there is strong love or hate. In ordinary relationships and ordinary situations, most people are not used to being looked directly at for a long time, and they are not used to being looked at directly for a long time. If you don't look directly at the other person for a long time, you will feel uncomfortable looking away over time. Therefore, in ordinary conversations, the eyes should be friendly and natural: you can neither look at the other person nor stare at the other person's eyes; you can neither look away from here or there nor attract the other person's attention. When a person is giving a speech, he must be good at using his eyes to attract the audience's attention.

If your eyes are wrong, it will inevitably affect interpersonal communication. There is a very honest person who is often doubted by others because he is too reserved and shy. When he explains something to others, his eyes always look left and right instead of looking at the face of the person listening to his statement. As a result, people became suspicious of him and thought what he said was false. This shows that when you talk to others, you should look at the other person's face; ignoring this point or having bad habits will make it difficult for people to trust you.

In terms of facial expressions, the role of the mouth cannot be underestimated.

Closing the lips means harmony, tranquility, dignity and nature;

Half-opening the lips means questioning, strangeness, and a little surprise; if the lips are fully open, it means horror;

Upward lips indicate goodwill, politeness, and joy;

Downward lips indicate pain, sadness, and helplessness;

Pouty lips indicate anger and dissatisfaction;

< p>Tightened lips indicate anger, confrontation or determination.

The expression of the mouth generally conveys meaning. It is worth noting that most people know that the eyes can speak well, but they despise the role of the mouth. In order to study the role of comparing eye and mouth expressions, an American psychologist cross-cut many photos showing certain emotions and then combined them to replicate them. For example, he paired eyes showing pain with a mouth showing happiness. As a result of the experiment, he found that people who viewed photos were far more affected by the expression of the mouth than the eyes. In other words, the mouth can express more emotions than the eyes. The question is not whether the mouth or the eyes are more expressive. It lies in the fact that our mouths can "speak" without making any sound. It can be seen how complex and subtle information facial expressions can convey.

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I am very, very afraid of the dark 2005 -03-08 00:21:03 Published on Focus Chongqing Real Estate Network - Talking about Houses and Market - Junyi Jiangnan Forum

People who always say "I know" are obviously rejecting you on purpose. Opinion.

It is probably rare in the world to have a person who knows one thing after hearing it. During a conversation, if the other person pretends to know everything and always says, "I know," you should be careful that the other person may not be interested in listening to you at all. At this time, you should treat him as someone who doesn't know much and explain your arguments in more detail and more convincingly.

If the other person is disrespectful or even behaves rudely, it means that he may be uneasy or weak.

Sometimes, it is necessary to argue head-on with the opponent in terms of rhetoric, but each other still needs to have a sense of proportion, and ordinary etiquette still cannot be dispensed with. However, if the other person is disrespectful or even rude when you first meet or start a conversation, it means that the other person is mentally uneasy. Another possibility is that he deliberately made such a move to disturb your spirit and mood. ideas. Therefore, you must be calm and don't get angry to avoid being fooled by the other party.

If the other person is trying to understand your weaknesses, he or she will ask endless questions about your private life even if it is the first time you meet. For someone who asks you unceremoniously about your personal life when you first meet, don’t simply think that he has a crush on you. You should sound the alarm to yourself: Maybe he is exploring my weaknesses so that he can use them as weapons in his conversation. .

Be careful when talking to someone who is expressionless.

The other party speaks like a barrage of words without taking a moment to take a breath. The purpose is to seal your mouth and prevent you from speaking, or at least prevent you from saying more, in an attempt to gain the upper hand in one go.

The other person kept putting his hands into his trouser pockets to show that he was relieving his tension. Pockets are one of the parts closest to your body. Putting your hands in them to increase your "closeness" to yourself is a way to relieve tension. Therefore, people who are nervous often put their hands into their pockets unconsciously. This is a small result studied by psychologists and is worth your reference.

The purpose of the other party's arrogant words that even hurt your self-esteem is to anger you and make you lose your mind.

If the other person's voice is trembling when speaking and his eyes are afraid to look at you, such as looking at the ceiling or a certain point in the sky, it means that he is nervous or timid.

In the middle of a conversation, you can guess what the other person is thinking by suddenly stopping what you are saying and letting the other person continue.

The interpretation of incomplete shapes or half-sentences can reveal a person's character and his inner state. The psychological experiment done using this method is called "projection method". There is a test that uses the "projection method" called the "article completion method" (similar to couplets or sentence construction). For example, the examinee is given a question similar to the following incomplete sentence: "When I was a child, I..." or "My father is...", the ellipsis part is filled in by the examinee into a complete sentence, and the complete sentence is analyzed. You can detect the other party's mental state, which is the purpose of the projection method. For an opponent whose words are careful and prevent you from seeing through his mind, you can use this trick to test his attitude.

For example, like the example below, you deliberately stop mid-sentence and let him continue: "So, what you mean is..." "So, this argument..." "According to What you said, it means..." When you use this "projection method" to induce the other party to reveal their thoughts, the other party will most likely put it in without thinking as this method requires. Finish the sentence according to his meaning, which is tantamount to increasing your understanding of him. You don't have to interrupt him to change the subject. If you let him continue talking, you will know what his intentions are.

There are usually three situations when you change the subject: the first situation is when you change the subject accidentally; the second situation is when you suddenly think of something and you change the subject; the third situation is when you change the topic intentionally Take the topic in another direction.

No matter what the situation is, the other party's attention is focused on the topic he deviated from. You can let him talk without interrupting. After letting him talk for a while, you can judge the other person's intentions according to the following methods.

If it is the first situation, the other party will soon realize that he has gone off topic, so he will show an embarrassed expression; if it is the second situation, once he realizes it, he will quickly reply. Return to the original topic; if it is the third situation, he will keep talking in the branched direction without any sign of returning to the original topic, so you can know that his intention is to change the direction of the conversation.

When you are confused about the next move, you might as well deliberately digress and talk about some irrelevant "gossip". If the other person is also chatting with you happily, it means that he has the intention to accept your point of view. If he doesn't participate in your "gossip", you have to find another way to convince him.

When the other person is thoughtful, you might as well ask him directly: "What are you thinking about?" You can understand his psychological trends from his answer.

When there are ambiguous words and ambiguous meanings in the conversation, you must ask clearly again and again to understand the true intention behind the other party's vague language. Regarding this point, the following incident is an excellent example:

Psychologist A is the host of the "Life Problems" program of a Japanese TV station. It is not easy to provide reasonable answers to various questions raised by the audience on the spot. But this psychologist is very good at "catching the other party's true intentions." His key is: "If there is ambiguity, you have to ask questions repeatedly.

For example, a married woman M mentioned her troubles to him, "My husband comes home late every day. It seems that there is something romantic going on outside. I don't know what to do?" "She first listed all the suspicions that her husband might be messing around with women outside, and finally she said, "Only my husband can do this outside. It's really irritating. I can never forgive him..." A immediately caught this sentence , asked her, "What exactly do you mean by the sentence 'only husband' you just said?" ", Mrs. M replied, "I mean, everyone says that being romantic is a man's nature. I think this is a past concept. Having a romantic affair without telling me is a betrayal of love..." A then asked, "You said that was the concept of the past. According to you, do you mean that modern women can also be romantic? "Mrs. M immediately defended, "That's not what I meant. I mean, it's not a question of whether it's right or wrong to be romantic. It's about forcing me to be romantic outside. This is what makes people angry. A stared closely and asked, "So, as long as I don't hide it from you and am blatantly romantic, can you allow it?" This means that as long as both parties are honest with each other, both parties can have a romantic relationship? To put it more clearly, you mean that since a husband can be romantic, a wife can also be romantic, right? "

Mrs. M had to reluctantly admit that she had this intention. The first words she blurted out accidentally revealed a desire deep in her heart - if possible, she also wanted to be romantic. The brilliance of A's art of speaking is that he cleverly draws out Mrs. M's latent desires from the words "only husband". From this, we can see how effective repeated investigation is.