Why are dragon girls unhappy in marriage and why do dragon girls get married late?

Why is the marriage between dragon and girl unhappy?

Love is single-minded. Before marriage, you must be chaste.

Ceng Shiqiang Journal

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Bing Xin, a writer of children's literature, once said:

If there were no women in the world, I really don't know what the world would be like! What I can imagine is that if there were no women in the world, the world would lose at least five tenths of truth, six tenths of goodness and seven tenths of beauty.

It is true that everything in the world is harmonious and indispensable. Women are daughters, wives, mothers and daughters-in-law. ...

All these identities exude unique beauty. Daughter is a cotton-padded jacket, wife is a lifelong companion, mother is the glory of children, and daughter-in-law is the bond of family.

However, it is not easy for a woman to live a good life.

Love, marriage, family, children, workplace, etc. , is a bright spot in the field.

We often say that we should be cautious from beginning to end. For women, to live a happy life, mate selection, love and marriage often play a key role. One false move may lose the game.

Let's share these three aspects today. I hope every female friend can step on the pit less and firmly harvest her happy life.

Choosing a spouse: What kind of talents are reliable?

Many people are always touching each other, especially girls. If they are right, they will be happy, but if they are wrong, they will be unlucky.

But life should not be a gamble. Time goes by and it is impossible to start all over again.

Therefore, if you think clearly in advance, you will be more sure of happiness step by step. So how do you find someone?

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Measure your own conditions first.

Only when a person knows himself first can he make a reasonable choice. So we should first look at our own conditions:

What kind of people I look for by looks, what kind of people I look for by education, what kind of people I look for by ability, and what kind of people I look for by family background.

Choosing a spouse is not to find a better one, but to find a suitable one that matches you.

People in China often talk about whether two people are "husband and wife". Besides appearance, it means more that their conditions don't match.

You like me and I like you, which is suitable in all aspects and good for both men and women.

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Look at the matching index between each other and yourself.

It is an important indicator to measure whether two people are well matched. In other words, the family strength of the two sides is relatively close, and their status is basically the same.

Think about it, families with similar backgrounds bring up children, and their living environment is similar since childhood, and their thinking mode and knowledge level are basically the same in the future. It is more convenient to communicate with each other, and there will be more languages.

In other words, it depends on two people's values, outlook on money, outlook on life and how high the matching index is.

The higher the index, the greater the chance of happiness in the future, otherwise it may not be felt at first, and it will drift away after a long time.

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We can't ignore each other's personalities.

Especially for girls, when choosing men, don't take identity, status and economic income as one of the basis, because these will change at any time.

What does that depend on?

One is to see if he has a sense of responsibility.

A responsible person can be trusted. The more successful a person is, the easier it is to abandon the other half gently.

With a sense of responsibility, let's see if his mind is big, his vision is far and his ideal is high.

A narrow-minded person can't afford to be responsible. A short-sighted person can't go far at all. A person who has no ideal at all is just muddling along.

Test his ideal, mind and vision, and finally see if he has execution.

If there is no execution at all, it is just verbal talk. Not if you talk too much. That's very bad.

Grasping these three key points, we can know whether this man is worthy of being a lifelong partner.

Love: What kind of love is worth talking about?

Generally speaking, girls are more likely to fall into the whirlpool of love than boys, so they are more vulnerable to emotional damage.

Therefore, we must be quite rational, some things must be done, and some things must be cautious.

The following three points are our suggestions to you.

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To pursue the feeling of concentric circles

If men and women in love are regarded as two circles, the relationship between them will be concentric, intersecting or separated.

One is concentric.

When two people agree, two circles will overlap and become a concentric circle, which is what we often say. Congratulations on this love. It is easy to be happy in the future.

Second, intersection.

It means that two people have different ideas, a little different, but there is always some intersection, which can still be discussed without causing too much problem.

Third, separation.

You are the one who misses you, and I miss me. Two people are completely separated, and even getting married in the future is a dream. You should plan ahead in this situation.

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Don't look at your mouth, see if he has you in his heart.

The most taboo in love is to blindly believe in sweet words, especially the phrase "I love you", which may just be deceptive honey.

What we in China care about most is whether we have ourselves in each other's hearts. If you don't have it in your heart, what's the use of saying 10 thousand I love you?

Don't look at your mouth, trust your heart. Accept each other's hearts. You have me in your heart, and I have you in my heart. This is true love.

As long as two people are soul mates, even if they are far apart, they will love each other, care for each other and never give up. This is the love we should pursue.

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Before marriage, both parties should be chaste.

As men and women become more and more free to socialize, many people fall in love out of curiosity about the opposite sex, and don't really want to find someone to talk about marriage.

If you want a happy marriage in the future, you should stay away from such people.

Because he is curious about you today and will be curious about others tomorrow.

If your lover is passionate about you and ambiguous about others, you should think twice before you act.

Love is single-minded. Before marriage, you must be chaste.

If two people hit it off, they will continue to communicate and gradually talk about marriage; If you can't get along, go your own way, and go your own way while you can.

Marriage: What kind of marriage will last?

It is not easy for two people to enter the marriage hall through mate selection and love.

Moreover, the quality of marriage will directly affect the happiness of life, so if you master a certain way to get along, love and marriage will last long.

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There is a certain safe distance.

People always have their own feelings and things.

Everyone has something they don't want to say, and they don't want others to interfere, even husband and wife.

Therefore, there should be a safe distance between husband and wife, instead of knowing everything and telling each other everything since they are husband and wife.

It is not good for two people to be separated for a long time, and it is easy for two people to be together all day.

People in China often say that "it is better to get married than to leave", that is, when couples leave once in a while and get together again, there will be a lot of freshness and new topics. It is said that distance produces beauty.

So even if we meet every day, we should give each other time to be alone, do what we like and stick together all day, which makes everyone very annoyed.

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Ask more of yourself and less of each other.

Before you get married, you must keep your eyes open, observe carefully, ask around in many ways, and see clearly the conditions of the other half.

You should turn a blind eye after marriage.

Turn a blind eye to see the similarities between the other half and yourself, like-minded and cooperate with each other; Only by closing one eye can we respect the different styles of the other half, each with his own strengths and loves.

China people often say to treat each other with courtesy, and there is another meaning, that is, respect.

You should respect your other half, and your other half will respect you. Only by respecting each other can we have dignity. We all love and respect ourselves.

Think about it, we are very kind to our guests, colleagues and friends, even if we are simple, direct and even barbaric to our other half. How long can this last?

Love their similarities, respect their differences, respect and appreciate each other, and ask more of themselves and less of each other, so that marriage will be full of vitality.

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Don't have the idea of divorce.

It's normal for couples to quarrel.

But some people argue as much as possible, and some people argue until they get divorced. It can be seen that the quarrel between husband and wife is a university question.

Smart people know how to put emotional management first, and then try to solve the problem.

So two people can agree that when there is a contradiction and quarrel, one person's voice is louder and the other person's voice is lower. Does he have the courage to continue? It must be smaller, too.

In this way, the mood will gradually decline, and it will be more acceptable to reason again.

Has this trick always worked? Not really, but at least it can solve many things.

Give everyone a trump card for quarreling: don't divorce easily.

I finally fell in love, got married and even had children. There is no reason for divorce.

As long as the husband and wife don't have the concept of divorce, they won't have the worry of quarreling until the end, and they can argue with confidence. After all, sometimes quarreling is also an emotion.

In short, from the beginning of choosing a partner, women should be very cautious, so that their future life can be smoother.

Because life is a link, the previous choice will directly affect the later result.

God helps those who help themselves, God helps those who help themselves, and being responsible for themselves is the right way.

I wish every female friend can find her own life path and become a real "goddess".

Content of this article: Kundao collected by Professor Zeng.

The above is about why women who belong to the dragon are unhappy in marriage, and it is about the sharing of marriage. After reading why girls who belong to the dragon get married late, I hope this will help everyone!