Irene Wan teaches three tricks to solve marriage and children.

Irene Wan, 44, was buried in film work before, married her husband He Zuguang for ten years, and missed the big plan of giving birth. Earlier, she adopted an abandoned baby boy in the Mainland. Just one month later, it has made Irene Wan pregnant. She threatened to do everything first, and she was satisfied with swimming together. She didn't want to shoot a film and didn't want to go out, just waiting for the first call "Mom"!

Irene Wan and her husband, He Zuguang, a financial genius, adopted a baby boy who was abandoned in a railway station in Jiangsu in July, and changed his name to Xavier. Earlier, they even spent 2, yuan to wish their adopted son his first birthday in China. Some marriages will become bad because of the appearance of children, and some marriages will be broken because of the absence of children. There is always a tangled relationship between marriage and children. The following three tips can make marriage sweeter even if you have children. (Women's private words sifanghua)

Skill 1: Hint method

As a woman, after the birth of a child, you, as a new mother, can't help but devote a considerable part of your feelings and energy to the child. This is the glory of maternal love, which should be commendable. However, while loving their children, many women unconsciously ignore their husbands around them, which eventually leads to their husbands' subconscious discontent, which is a very common mode in which children bring crisis to their marriage life. To this end, the sky is always blue. I suggest that you might as well adopt a technique I provided, that is, the suggestion method.

Hinting is to hint your husband with details in words and actions in a euphemistic and more convincing way. In fact, you still love him very much, and there is no contradiction between loving him and loving children.

The specific operation points are as follows. For example, when you feed your child with milk powder, you can say to your child while feeding it: Hurry up, baby. Is this milk powder delicious? This is your favorite ternary milk powder that your father bought for you with the money earned by working overtime. Smile quickly and thank your father! ..... Ha ha, good boy! (sifanghua, a woman's private conversation)

Skill 2: Heart-to-heart method

Heart-to-heart method is to frankly tell her husband the importance of children to herself and her family, and listen to his opinions, and make timely adjustments if they are inappropriate.

The specific operation points are as follows: No matter how busy and not in the mood you are, you should try your best to give your husband the warmth of a woman when he comes home from work, report to him about yourself and your children in the past day, and learn about his work if he wants. One of the most important things is to take a certain amount of time every day, even if it is a ten-minute walk, to concentrate on communicating with him, share the happiness of children's growth with him, listen to his opinions more, and discuss ways to cultivate children.

Tip 3: Ambiguous method

Many women are like a new person after the birth of their children. Not only do they have no time and energy to spend with their husbands, but they are not particular about their clothes and dresses. They wear pajamas full of the smell of children's urine all day long and their hair is combed. Obviously, in this case, although men don't talk about it, they are definitely not satisfied in their hearts. From the perspective of empathy, it is unpleasant to see that the woman who has always been glamorous in her mind has turned into a sloppy woman in a short time. Although they will understand from the bottom of their hearts, your image has been destroyed in his subconscious, and the person who destroyed it is your child.

Ambiguous method is the kind of flattery and coquetry that women often take in love to guide men's emotions in this special period, so that he can always focus on himself. (sifanghua, a woman's private talk)

Specific operation points: Give a part of maternal love to your husband. In fact, every man has the potential of a child in his heart. For example, when breast-feeding your child, you can jokingly say to the child, "You little guy, you are stronger than your father when sucking milk!" " Obviously, your words are obviously ambiguous between husband and wife, which is also an expression of love. Also, when the husband and wife are making out together, you can ask him shyly, "Do you still love me as before you had children?" Am I more feminine? I am also very tired now, and I have two children to take care of! " These ambiguous words, if you can talk about them in time, are quite beneficial to the feelings between husband and wife. Of course, the most important thing is that you have to pay attention to your own image. Men can be perspective animals at any time. Only by paying attention to your own dress can these ambiguous words bloom more beautiful love sparks at the right time.