My son is a freshman now, and some girls like him. How can I stop my son from puppy love?

Parents should first make it clear that junior high school and senior high school are the peak of "rebellious psychology" and the critical period for the formation of world outlook and values. At this time, great changes have taken place in ideas. While protecting their children's growth, parents should pay more attention to their mental health and guide them to form a correct world outlook and values.

Secondly, in high school, it is not puppy love. If you really love each other, parents should also have an understanding attitude. During this period, two people * * * encouraged * * to make progress together, and there were not a few cases in which they finally entered the family marriage after taking part in the work.

Then back to this question, how to prevent children from puppy love. At this time, you need to establish a good interactive relationship with your children, learn to accept and understand their ideas (although they are not very mature, you should try to understand them), and don't simply preach to arouse their rebellious psychology. After that, you need to teach your child the following knowledge:

1. Correct sexual knowledge and relationships. This is extremely important, so don't avoid it. Generally, boys are more likely to be taught by their fathers, while girls are more likely to be taught by their mothers. There are many strategies on the Internet, so I won't go into details here.

2. The difference between love and goodwill. In the embryonic stage of youth, people often mistake the appreciation of the excellent opposite sex and the simple appearance of the excellent opposite sex for love. This is a short-term impulsive emotion, not a long-term strong emotion.

3. As a normal person, you need to bear the responsibilities, including the responsibility of being a child, a boyfriend, a lover, a parent and so on. Don't shirk your responsibilities. Escaping will only bring deeper harm to yourself and others.

4. Life choices, everyone has the right to make decisions at critical moments in life, but children must be clear that everyone must also bear the consequences of choices, including foreseeable and unpredictable.

Finally, I want to say that it is impossible for parents to make decisions instead of their children. You can only teach him how to make the right decision at the right time, and the final choice is still in the hands of the child. Otherwise, even if he is forced to make a decision against his will, he will be deeply traumatized. If you teach him these principles of being a man, he is also a thoughtful and self-motivated child. I believe that he will make the right choice in the end and benefit for life in the future.