After marriage, the husband manages his own money, but he is reluctant to spend it on his wife with children at home. What should I do?

I think you two need to communicate more about the cost and reach an agreement on this issue.

After marriage, because two people's lives have been tied together, this means that two people need to have the same life goals and compromise on various issues. Especially on economic issues, if a man always does not spend money for his wife, but makes her bear a lot of family responsibilities, this behavior is inappropriate in itself and is not conducive to the emotional life of two people.

First of all, you two need to communicate further about the cost.

I don't know how you two share the so-called expenses. In most cases, if the woman takes care of the children at home, she needs to get basic family funds when dealing with various expenses in life. If a man is reluctant to spend money on his wife, this behavior is selfish. You need to tell your husband the truth.

Second, you should express your demands as much as possible.

A stable marriage requires two people to give and understand each other, and also needs two people to support each other. When you take care of the children at home, you have made great sacrifices for this family. Your husband needs to understand this and fully support you. I think you need to further express your demands to your husband, and at the same time, you need to explicitly ask yourself to get the corresponding housework expenses every month.

Third, you two need to have the same goal in life.

Although economic problems seem trivial, if you two can't solve the most basic economic problems, it will seriously affect your emotional contact, and it will also cause you two to quarrel over various trivial matters. In marriage, you two don't need to worry too much about the economy. As long as you don't waste it, it doesn't really matter who will take care of the money. You don't need to put your husband in charge of the money at all.