Why is there a phenomenon of separated generation relatives?

Parents are not around, so they are closer to grandparents. Grandparents love their grandchildren, so there is a phenomenon of "separation of parents", which is becoming more and more common in modern life.

The primary reason is that grandparents' days are numbered, and their lives continue on the visible next generation, which is the expression of life wishes. Secondly, there are the following reasons: with the growth of age, intelligence and psychology will be naive and closer to the next generation; The control over children is weakened, the same language is also reduced, and the expression of love for the younger generation is easier to realize in the grandchildren. The so-called love for grandchildren is the same.

Grandchildren's intimate relationship with grandparents after being caressed by them will soothe their loneliness. Children represent the future and hope of a family. What the old people like and want to see most is hope. People have no energy to pursue life in their twilight years, and they will leave their hopes to the next generation, hoping that the next generation at home can grow sturdily. As they grow older, they will naturally pay special attention to and care for the next generation of children.

For them, the next generation is not only the children of their own children, but also the continuation of the blood of this family, their life and spirit. The traditional phenomenon of "distant relatives" in China will face more and more challenges, and the traditional family relationship may also be changed. Some sociologists believe that China must do two things well to build a well-off society in the next 20 years. First, we should solve the problem of social security for the elderly; The second is to help them do the arduous work of educating the next generation of children.