The two siblings went to the garage to mop the floor on weekends. This is the correct way to raise a child from a poor family.

“A good boy, well-behaved, great, really sensible, and will be promising when he grows up!

In an underground parking lot in Guiyang, the capital of Guizhou Province, two children appear every weekend. Small figures. Her almost seven-year-old first-grade brother and ten-year-old fourth-grade sister were mopping the floor vigorously with a large one-meter-wide mop.

It turned out that her mother was in the parking lot. Working as cleaners, the siblings felt that their mother was working too hard, so they came to help.

Because nowadays, there are too few children who know how to mop the floor, not to mention that the parking lot is so big. The area is just a few hundred square meters of land at home; let alone a seven-year-old or ten-year-old child, even a teenager or twenty-year-old, as long as there are parents or elderly people, let alone mopping the floor, even if the broom falls over, they may not be too lazy to do it. Give me a hand.

Because everyone believes that children should put learning as their first priority. Basic survival skills such as mopping the floor, washing the house, and cooking must be put aside. Sometimes children take the initiative to help. We will also say: "Go, go, go, go read a book and do your homework!" ”

And today’s children are the treasures in our hands. The elderly at home are used to them. Many children live a life of opening their mouths for food and reaching for clothes. Some children are already in the third or fourth grade. They don't even know how to wear clothes or tie their shoes. Of course, they don't know how to mop the floor with a Big Mac mop like the siblings in Guiyang. Even during the school hygiene day, some parents are worried that their children can't clean. , and worried that some accidents would happen while cleaning the classroom, so they reached out and took it over themselves, and some even asked part-time workers to clean the school.

There is no harm without comparison. Look at other people’s children, Xiaoxiao. At such a young age, they are so considerate of their parents. My father works on a construction site and has no time to accompany them. My mother has to haul such a large garage by herself, so the siblings become her little helpers every weekend. p>

Where do our children spend their weekends?

Children in the city spend their weekends in various training classes and interest classes. For example, my friend’s daughter takes English and other classes. There are five classes in mathematics, painting, dance, and swimming. During the free time, I have to sit down in a cafe and write the homework assigned by the teacher.

On weekends, rural children spend time on TV and on their mobile phones. The TV receiver on the pot cover is powerful and can receive dozens of TV stations. The cartoons will not stop even after you sing and I will appear. The children will sit in front of the TV while eating and play games and watch Douyin Kuaishou. I was so happy and laughed so much.

My cousin’s two daughters were like this. One weekend last year, we took our children back to the countryside to experience life. We went to pick wild fruits and mushrooms. , catching crabs...

The eight-year-old of them was watching the TV, and the ten-year-old was holding the mobile phone. Grandma asked them to go out to play with us. She called them several times, but she was extremely impatient. I got angry at grandma.

Grandma said: "There is nothing I can do. They won't listen to anything I ask them to do!" Even when their parents come back, they don't obey, as if TV and mobile phones are their life! ”

My grandfather passed away, and his son and daughter-in-law were working on the construction site. Grandma was at home alone, planting fields for the whole family of five, feeding five pigs and dozens of chickens and ducks, and was very busy all day long. , but the two granddaughters did not help.

Thinking about when we were young, we had to carry small backpacks and cut pig grass on weekends. Weeding with my mother. Everyone would help the family with the farm work. After dinner, they would light the kerosene lamp and do their homework.

But I remember those two little girls when I came here a few years ago. , but they are diligent.

At that time, one was six years old and had just entered the first grade, and the other was four years old and was in the middle class of kindergarten. The two little ones helped their grandma peel the young corn (corn), first peeling, then threshing, and then again. Grind them with a stone mill to make delicious corn cakes. After peeling them, we tied the purple corn silk into beautiful braids and played a braid-pulling game. I teased him, and he teased you again, and he laughed happily.

Grandma smiled bitterly and said, "Yes, I was pretty good when I was little.

Later, when the daughter-in-law came back and saw the baby working, she had an objection. It is said that no matter how hard it is, it cannot be hard on the children. Girls want to be rich and raised. ”

“In my opinion, today’s children are all raised like rich people, and they are better off than the young masters and ladies of landlords’ families in the past! "

Grandma said: "Every child in the village has a mobile phone all day long. They also said that they were born in the countryside and couldn't even distinguish wheat from leeks. How can they work? When those of us in our 60s and 70s can no longer do anything, our fields will all be left uncultivated. ”

Before grandma could do anything, their fields were deserted. Because their eldest daughter went to junior high school this year, both children moved to the town to study. They rented a house near the school and grandma accompanied her to study.

Since most rural children have no one to guide them and are addicted to mobile phones, the current learning situation of students in township schools is worrying.

But learning is the next step. Although they were born in rural areas, they are not diligent and do not know what to eat. Some of them lack the ability to take care of themselves because they are accompanied by the elderly at home.

If they lack the ability to take care of themselves, even they are "prodigies". , is a "student master", which may also become a stumbling block on his road to success.

Hunan "prodigy" Wei Yongkang, who knew a thousand words at the age of 2, entered the county's key middle school at the age of 8, and passed the exam with high scores at the age of 13. Entered a key university, and at the age of 17, he was admitted to the Institute of High Energy Physics, Chinese Academy of Sciences, where he studied for a Ph.D. and Master's degree.

What an outstanding child this is. If their children can be so successful, then the parents will really do everything they can to make a difference. Ma is willing.

Wei Yongkang’s mother thought the same way. She stayed with him from his birth to his undergraduate studies. In order for his son to study peacefully, she took care of everything in his life, not only cooking. He did laundry, washed his face, hair and feet, and even fed him in high school to save time for studying.

When Wei Yongkang entered the graduate school, his mother no longer stayed with him. The maid seemed to take care of him, but he had no way to arrange his study and life. He didn't even know how to put on clothes when it was cold. He wore short-sleeved shirts and slippers to visit Tiananmen Square in the winter, and his return rate was 100%.

Before he even graduated with a master's degree, he was persuaded to quit by the Institute of High Energy Physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

A child prodigy, a genius, and a future physicist were both created and destroyed by his mother.

Therefore, no matter what their academic performance is (for children who understand this well, their grades will not be too bad) when they go to the parking lot to help their mother mop the floor on weekends, they know the hardships of their parents, and they also feel the same. They are not afraid of hardship or tiredness. When they grow up, they will be able to support themselves, their parents, and their children.

Isn’t our country supported by these ordinary hard-working people?