The boy pressed all the buttons before getting out of the elevator and was slapped. what do you think?

It didn't happen recently. It happened in Xi 'an, 20 14. A 17-year-old boy lives on the second floor, but he moves from the third floor to the 27th floor. He waited seven minutes before hitting a man.

The story goes like this:1October 3 14 around 9: 50 pm, 17-year-old Xiao Du went home with his mother, Ms. He, and took the elevator to the second floor. "I was just curious. Before getting out of the elevator, I lit the buttons from the third floor to the 27th floor. " Xiao Du said. At that time, there were only Xiao Du and his mother in the elevator. After seeing her son's "prank", Ms. He went home and criticized: "You have to think that people upstairs have to wait a long time to get on the elevator. You 17 years old, you can't do anything that harms the interests of others. "

"At about 10: 20 in the evening, someone suddenly knocked at the door." Ms. He said: "It is community security. They said there was something about finding a child, but they didn't say what it was. " Ms. He accompanied Xiao Du and followed the security guard to the community monitoring room. She described what happened next like this: "A middle-aged man in a leather jacket sat in front of the monitor, pointed to the elevator monitor and asked if my son was you. As soon as my son said it was me, the man directly slapped the child in the left face. At the scene, a number of uniformed security guards began to count our mother and son. "

The person in charge of the community security team said that the person who slapped Xiao Du was not a property worker. "It is the owner of the same building. The owner didn't see the elevator for a long time and found that the elevator had to stop on every floor. Then he ran to the monitoring room to check the monitoring and found that a resident on the second floor had mischievously pressed the buttons on all floors. Later, the security guard came forward and called the child to the monitoring room. I was going to criticize and educate the child face to face, but the master gave him a slap in the face as soon as he came up.

Need to explain, it takes seven or eight minutes to stop from the third floor to the twenty-seventh floor.

Comment: This child really deserves a lesson. He 17 years old. Still like this, it shows that family education is lacking. When he did this, as a mother, he didn't punish him, but made a verbal criticism, indicating that the mother had serious problems in educating her children. Can you keep others waiting for seven or eight minutes without getting angry? It's me. I don't need others to hit me. I can clean up the doll myself and let him remember it for a long time. The child is still 17 years old. The mother failed in education. Well, if you don't educate, naturally someone will educate you and discipline your children for you. This time, it was just a slap in the face, which was light. If you don't get education, you may be bleeding and going to jail. If you don't get a good education, you should be happy and gratified that others will educate you. Otherwise, there will still be your children in prison. This time, the man slapped him in the face to let him learn a lesson. I guess he won't dare in the future.

And a 17-year-old child installed a 24-story elevator, which kept the owner waiting for 8 minutes. Any master will be angry. It's light to hit your son. If it is serious, the consequences are unimaginable.

Let's talk about our children again: our children over 5 years old sometimes want to press another floor when taking the elevator, but I stopped them on the spot and gave him a reason. Once, they pressed to another floor, and there was someone in the elevator, but they didn't clean him up on the spot. After getting out of the elevator, they punched directly in a corner (missed the vital part). From then on, be a good boy and make a speech. Let him remember it for a long time, or he will make mistakes in the future. This doll 17 years old, actually pressed 23 floors in front of her mother. As a mother, indulge him to keep pressing. It can be seen that this mother has failed in doing things and educating her children. No wonder such a mother raised such a son.

My daughter came back from kindergarten this afternoon and went in by elevator. After pressing our floor, she said, Mom, what if I press all the floors?

I said, it's gonna be okay. Most uncles and aunts will say, whose child is this? It's disgusting. It's time to criticize his adult!

My daughter shrank back at once because she was afraid of her mother's criticism and didn't like being treated as a nuisance.

My daughter has a strong sense of boundaries. I told her several times before she spoke. This is not her own business. You can't touch it without someone else's permission.

Then she really remembered. Since childhood, she has been outside, never arguing about stealing other people's toys; Sometimes she is so humble that she doesn't know how to get her things back when others take them.

Thinking of The Story of Yan Xi Palace, Wei is a vengeful person. Once she is wronged or bullied by others, she will try her best to get it back. When I watched this drama last summer vacation, it was really cool to fight monsters all the way.

The reason why this play is so popular is that it conforms to everyone's expectation: what goes around comes around!

In life, there are many people who owe their mouths. Some people will submit to humiliation and make concessions, while others will submit to humiliation.

A boy of 17, when taking the elevator with his mother, pressed the buttons on all floors and kept the owner downstairs waiting for seven or eight minutes. I went to the property to check the surveillance. When I found the boy, my master slapped him in the face.

Some people say that playing well, playing well, parents have not educated their children well, and they will be punished when they grow up to be Xiong Haizi; Some people say that children belong to others, even Xiong Haizi, and it is not your turn to educate them.

I'm thinking, the child 17 years old, if he doesn't receive education, what might happen after going to college?

People who have no sense of boundaries and fear in their hearts seem to be free, but in fact they are different from the rules and will eventually be punished.

I watch the news online. This happened on 20 14. I think it is necessary to know the whole thing clearly before expressing my opinion. 65438+1October 3 1 9: 50 pm, 17-year-old Xiao Du went home with his mother, Ms. He, and took the elevator to the second floor. "I was just curious. Before getting out of the elevator, I lit the buttons from the third floor to the 27th floor. "

Cause of the accident:

The child pressed all the buttons before getting out of the elevator. It turned out that he was just curious. However, in the eyes of others, his behavior is not curiosity, but a prank, which is immoral. Because it will make people who need to take the elevator wait for a long time.

Lead to consequences:

Subsequently, a security guard found the lady and asked them to follow him to the monitoring room of the community. A middle-aged man in a leather jacket sat in front of the monitor. Knowing that my son did it, the man slapped the child on the left face. At the scene, some uniformed security guards began to criticize our mother and son. It wasn't the security guard who hit people, it was the owner.

A child of 17 years old is no longer a child in the eyes of many people. However, if you can't say 17 years old, students won't make mistakes. Even adults make mistakes. At that time, the child said that he was just curious. There was no one else in the elevator, only him and his mother. He thought it wouldn't affect others. Children's mistakes can only be said to be caused by ignorance, not subjective malice.

What's more, after the incident, the mother has educated her children and the children have realized their mistakes. However, in the security room, an owner slapped the child in front of everyone, which was inappropriate. If a child makes a mistake, he can be educated in a way that respects him. It is very impolite to hit children in front of everyone. In school, when students make mistakes, teachers are not allowed to punish children physically or in disguised form. It's all about respecting children. Children also have self-esteem, let alone 17-year-old children. Moreover, adolescent children have strong self-esteem, and some children may make some excessive behaviors because they can't stand being insulted by others.

After the incident, the lady wanted to find the owner through the property, but the property refused to provide information. She just wants the owner to come out and apologize to the child. Adults can slap their children when they do something wrong. Then, do adults want to be slapped after doing something wrong? Why are you so reluctant to admit your mistake? Do you also consider self-esteem?

Whether the boy described by the subject is a prank or a deliberate prank, there is nothing wrong with being beaten anyway.

I feel that not only children do such things, but also adults and even white-collar workers in suits and ties do these things. Tell me about such wonderful things that I have encountered:

June 20 18, went to Shanghai Bund for business. Because I made an appointment with my friends, I was worried that there would be too many stations on the 32nd floor, so I quickly caught up with an elevator that was about to close.

As soon as I went in, I was secretly happy. Only two fashionable little white-collar workers. It seems that they should work in the building. I think they should fall soon.

But the next scene stunned me. These two grandchildren pressed all the floors above the eighth floor, and I stared at them in disgust. After all, civilized people don't like to be rough, and the two grandchildren are smart enough to go downstairs from the seventh floor.

When I was proud, I suddenly saw the elevator light flashing and six or seven people came from the eighth floor. When they saw that all the floors were crushed, they left me with suspicion and contempt, whispering to each other, as if to say that my quality was low.

At that time, I felt that there was yellow mud in my crotch, not shit, but shit, so I had to submit to humiliation and go downstairs from the ninth floor.

Every time I get on the elevator, I always stay alert to see if anyone deliberately makes trouble and wants to seize a good exit.

Well played! The education of children is unreasonable, they can't rationally analyze and accept the truth, and they need disciplinary corporal punishment. This is also because he understands that there are many rules in society that should be observed. I once saw a child aged 15 hit his grandmother, but the old man didn't resist. I grabbed the child and threw it across the street. He cried. He won't dare to beat grandma again. As soon as I saw him, I asked, are there any more beatings? He immediately said: no, no! When the child crosses the line, you can't forgive his mistake. To forgive them is to hurt him.

It's a beating! Once in my building, a teenage boy from a moving company became mean, got off the elevator, pulled it with his hand, pressed all ten floors, and smoked in the elevator! I called the property directly, and the property closed the garden gate and buckled the car! Then the manager apologized and let them go! Such children without tutors must be dealt with, or they will get into big trouble sooner or later!

This was a few years ago. 20 14 years, around 10 in the afternoon, 17-year-old komori went home with his mother. They live on the second floor. On the way home by elevator, Xiao Du pressed the button on every floor in the elevator. It happened that an owner upstairs was going downstairs and waited for seven or eight minutes. The owner found the security guard, checked the surveillance and found the Komori family. After finding Xiao Du, the shopkeeper gave Xiao Du a slap in the face without saying anything.

Mom Xiao Du quit and asked the shopkeeper to apologize, saying Xiao Du was just a child and curious. If the owner doesn't apologize, Xiao Du Ma will call the police.

This is a typical "if you don't educate your child, society will educate him for you". Komori himself is already doing bad things. Does Komori's mother expect each other to be gentle and polite to Komori? If you want to do bad things, you have to bear the responsibility of doing bad things. Why are fewer people doing bad things? It is not that everyone is virtuous, but must be punished.

Although the owner's behavior may be inappropriate. This mistake is aimed at the owner, because it may violate the regulations on public security management (I am a good citizen, I don't know if it will happen) and get myself into trouble for no reason. This mistake is not directed at Xiao Du. Even if you don't meet the owner, you may meet passers-by and will reach out and teach him a lesson. Or if the bad things get worse, the law will punish him.

I got goose bumps when I saw Xiao Du's mother say Xiao Du was a child. 17 years old, tall and burly, completely an adult. Huo Qubing 17 years old went to the Huns, led 800 troops and killed more than 2,000 enemies, and won the championship.

A mother does not reflect on her child's mistakes first, but does not scratch others, making her child more fearless. Xiao Du's problem is neither out of curiosity, nor can he be corrected at the age of 18, because he has a mother who will wipe his ass and take care of all this.

Li Tianyi's parents are even worse. After the rape case in Li Tianyi came out, his mother Meng Ge said in an interview that Li Tianyi is a kind and loyal child by nature, but he is not yet 18 years old and his mind is incomplete. Unfortunately, the judge did not accept this "child" statement and sentenced him to 10 years.

A Xiong Haizi and Komori did the same thing two days ago to see how his parents educated him. The child is 9 years old. He wrote an open letter of apology and hung it in the elevator. It says: Dear neighbor, I made a big mistake this time, and I sincerely apologize to you. ...

This is the correct way of education. Children will make mistakes, but it is parents' choice whether to condone or criticize after making mistakes.

My grandson is six years old. He told me that the kindergarten teacher taught them not to press the elevator indiscriminately. Take the elevator politely. Protect your own safety, so I usually don't pay much attention to this aspect, but boys are curious and press more. I will remind him of his mistake. The combination of social education and family education can cultivate the quality of the next generation, and adults beat children. Wrong. But the parents of the children can take the initiative to apologize to everyone who gets on the elevator. My children are not sensible, and it is also my fault that I didn't take good care of them. This may be understood by everyone.

Before the boy got out of the elevator, he lit all the buttons on the elevator floor, which caused other owners to delay the time. After being discovered, he was beaten.

This happened on 20 14, and now it has been turned out by netizens. I think that for five years, the reason why netizens are emotionally interested in this matter and are willing to turn it out is because this matter has its wonders.

(1) Let's talk about the behavior of the parties first, but if you live on the second floor, you have to take the elevator, so don't talk about it. After all, many people don't want to leave. However, the client Xiao Du is 17 years old and his mother is still around. Really speechless, 17-year-old children still do such things. I first met this child when I was seven years old. To tell the truth, if it is a seven-year-old child, we can still understand.

(2) From the 3rd floor to the 27th floor, there are 25 buttons. Press them with both hands for about 10 to 20 seconds. Why didn't his mother stop them during this time? If the child is dragged away, he can't press all the buttons. We can imagine such a picture: after the elevator stops, they get out of the elevator, the children are not walking inside, all the buttons are on, and the mother is beside them. Is this picture ridiculous?

(3) Because the child pressed the elevator at will, the owner waited for seven or eight minutes, then looked for the property management office to check and monitor, and then the whole incident was known to the public. The owner was really angry, otherwise he wouldn't have gone to the monitor, and it took so much effort to find the reason. It can be seen that sometimes our casual or joking actions will have a great influence on others.

This behavior of children can only be said to be the result of parents' doting. Usually he is a child, surrounded by five or six adults at home, watching his temper. Just self-centered, lacking the concept of right and wrong. I don't know which behaviors are appropriate and which behaviors will have a great impact on others.

If there are emergency patients or college entrance examination candidates who need to take the elevator in an emergency today, who can bear the consequences?

Children aged 65,438+07 were married in ancient times and are still children now. It is really the lack of education and social responsibility.

For the owners who hit people, although they disapprove of this practice, everyone feels very happy after reading it. The owner may be really angry, and something important may have been delayed, but in any case, it is wrong to hit people, because such a slap in the face will lead to other events, which will be justified and unclear.

Children still need education. Parents have the obligation to tell their children what behavior is reasonable and what behavior is not allowed by society, and they cannot break social rules for their own convenience and fun. Like this mother, until the end, she was still defending her fault, arguing that going home for education, there is no education on the spot, how can she go home for education?

The problem of children's education will eventually come back. If the family doesn't educate, the society will educate you. Today, it is a good thing that children make mistakes and fight next to each other.

If this slap can awaken the family's misconceptions, put children's education on the right track and guide them on the right track, then this slap is valuable.

I remember that I was sensible when I was 0/7 years old, and I was about to graduate from high school. The child is 17 years old instead of 7 years old. Maybe he will be 18 years old in a few months. It is obvious that such a big child does such a thing that harms others and does not benefit himself. A slap in the face may make him remember deeply, and he won't do such an abominable thing again. So I think this slap is just right.