What does it mean to have children at home and grow up?

Having children at home means having children who have just grown up at home.

This sentence comes from Bai Juyi's Song of Eternal Sorrow. The original sentence was: "Until a child of the Yang family grew up in the inner room, almost before she grew up, no one knew her." The Yang family has a daughter, who has just grown up and is very delicate and charming. She is kept in a boudoir and is unknown to outsiders.

Song of Eternal Sorrow is a long narrative poem by Bai Juyi, a poet in the Tang Dynasty. The whole poem vividly describes the love tragedy between Xuanzong of Tang Dynasty and Yang Guifei. With the help of historical figures and legends, poets have created tactfully moving stories, and through their artistic images, they have reproduced the truth of real life and infected readers for thousands of years. The theme of this poem is "long hatred". This poem has had a far-reaching influence on many literary works in later generations.

The ideological connotation of Song of Eternal Sorrow;

Bai Juyi classified his poems into four categories: allegory, sentimentality, leisure and miscellaneous methods, while Song of Eternal Sorrow was classified as sentimental. The poet once said proudly: "A long hatred has amorous feelings, and ten Qin sounds are close to the right." (I made up fifteen volumes of my own poems, and gave Yuan, Jiu, Li and Twenty as plays at the end of the title volume) In his view, Song of Eternal Sorrow is a song of "amorous feelings" different from the fable poem Ten. Some people interpret "amorous feelings" as "amorous feelings of children", which is not the original intention.

In this couplet, "amorous feelings" and "accent" are dual, "amorous feelings" refers to people's feelings, and "accent" refers to elegant and upright voice. Therefore, it is against the objective content of the work to reduce the theme of Song of Eternal Sorrow to an allegory that satirizes Ming Di's ignorance of color.