The 65-year-old rural mother-in-law made her granddaughter cry: I like her grandson, but I can't help it. Is she happy because she prefers boys to girls?

The 65-year-old mother-in-law is extremely patriarchal. The food on the dining table only shed tears for the grievances of her little grandson and daughter DC. What should I do?

During the Spring Festival, my husband and I went back to our hometown for the Spring Festival. To tell you the truth, I didn't want to come back, because my mother-in-law has an old concept of preferring sons to daughters, and she has never been kind to me since I gave birth to my daughter.

Usually I try to make up for my relationship with her. I didn't buy less clothes and supplements, but our relationship never eased. My brother-in-law's wife just gave her two hundred dollars, and she praised everyone. It's really unfair.

What happened this year made me feel even more chilling. Everyone agreed to go back together for the New Year, and naturally the brother-in-law's family also went back. At the New Year's Eve, I personally cooked a pot of chicken legs, which was very delicious. Everyone likes it very much, which makes me feel a little satisfied.

But things started because of this pot of chicken legs. When there was only the last drumstick left in the pot, our daughter and brother-in-law's son wanted to eat it, so we were a little puzzled.

I wanted my daughter to feed her brother (my brother-in-law's son is older than me), but looking at her daughter's wronged and eager eyes, I couldn't hold on, and my brother-in-law's son had already eaten three chicken legs, and my daughter only ate one.

Just when everyone felt a little embarrassed, the mother-in-law stood up and gave the drumstick to her little grandson, and said, Boys should eat more, grow up and be strong. ?

The daughter's wronged tears swirled in her eyes and firmly said to her grandmother: Grandma, my brother ate three, and I only ate one. This chicken leg should be mine. ?

Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law replied: Why do girls eat so much meat? Eat more vegetables, and you will grow beautiful in the future! ?

The voice just fell, daughter? Wow? I cried loudly: I don't like grandma anymore! ? Then he left his seat and ran out.

I gave everyone a embarrassed look. My husband was a little dissatisfied with her mother-in-law's practice and said, Mom, you are too eccentric. What do you want the children to think? ?

However, her mother-in-law was unmoved and answered confidently:? Do you have a reason to have a girl? I like my grandson, I can't help it! ? After that, he turned his head, looked at his grandson lovingly and muttered, Good grandson, eat slowly and don't choke. ?

Alas, I sighed in my heart and chased my daughter out. I found her sitting on the floor of the room, holding her legs and crying. My heart feels like a needle. When has my daughter ever been so wronged? # Marriage and family #

I went over and hugged my daughter gently, comforted her in a low voice, and promised her to go home and make chicken legs, only for her to eat, and no one was allowed to rob her. Now she is slowly becoming happy.

When I go to bed at night, I tell my husband to go back to my parents' house to pay a New Year call the next day, because my daughter is not suitable to stay here. Fortunately, my husband is a reasonable person, agreed to my request, and went back to her family together the next day.

Author's comments

The world is full of wonders, and it is really speechless. It's been 202 1 year, and there are still people who are so seriously patriarchal. Don't care too much. To put it mildly, the old man is old, after all, he has to live on his own.

Just don't leave a shadow on the child's psychology because of this similar thing, which has a great influence on her.