Do your children have to kiss and hug you every day?

Xin 'er relies on her mother to kiss and hug almost every day during the intermission of practicing the piano, and saliva makes her face paste. Then he asked to pick her up, follow her instructions, circle around the house, and finally put her on the piano stool.

Don't look at this daily hug. It's very exercise. Although it's not as good as Lu Zhishen and others, it's much better than Xin Dad. Xin dad picked up Xin's son and grinned, and kept screaming exaggeratedly, "It's so heavy! Dad can't even hold it. "

The day before yesterday, Xin 'er and I finished class just in time for a heavy rain. In an instant, the road was flooded with golden mountains, and Xin 'er and I stood on the side of the road looking at the ocean and sighing. Back to the community, the water in the courtyard was deeper, and Xin Er stood on the side of the road hesitant to lift her feet. Well, it's time for mom to show the results of her usual exercise. Let Xin-er hold an umbrella, and I carried her through half a community before I went to a place with less water to put it down. Wow, my arm is so sore. I said to Xiner, "It seems that hugging every day is still useful, otherwise you can swim home by yourself today." Xin-er leaned over sticky. "Of course, mom hugs me every day, as long as she doesn't think I'm heavy." I feel that girls are a little grown up and will be spoiled.

coquetry really only comes when you grow up, but you didn't understand it when you were a child. When a child needs your hug, he will stick to you with open arms, out of instinctive conditioned reflex. And the younger the child, the more adults love to kiss and hug. I want to hug and kiss when I see that meaty little meatball, and I don't think people spit all over your face.

As children grow taller and stronger inside, my feeling is that children are becoming more and more assertive, and they used to be able to listen to some suggestions. Now you basically say that they are going to the west.

Xin 'er has her own ideas whether she is playing, studying, practicing the piano or dancing. Doing math homework, she came to me and asked me, and I told her how to do it. Sometimes she did as I said, but sometimes she didn't believe me, saying, "Mom, I'll still do it, and I'll see the teacher tomorrow."

Then I started to feel a little alienated from my parents. She always came to ask you for a kiss and hug for a reason. Xin 'er was tired of her homework and did something that her mother didn't allow. The school and her classmates did something that she thought might be criticized. . . I will come and stick to you, and some of them I think are afraid of being criticized, so I will do it first, stick to my mother first, and make my mother less angry when she is angry, so as not to get burned.

Another thing is to subconsciously find a dependence. In children's eyes, mom and dad are small bullies who can't reach each other. No matter what happens, they can find a way. Therefore, every time Xin 'er clings to people, you should know what needs your help, and there will be no stuffing cakes in the sky for no reason.

So when she's having fun, watching TV obsessively, and playing games in full swing, she won't come for a hug, let alone a kiss, and she won't pay any attention to you when you talk to her.

compared with when we were young, we were single-minded. The more we got the impression that we had done bad things, the farther away we were from our mother. We didn't dare to hang around in front of the tiger at all. How dare we hug and kiss? Isn't that a tiger's teeth pulled out?

I think most of us seldom use physical contact with our parents to express our feelings.

the standard expression of our feelings with mom and dad is noisy-noisy-noisy. Originally, I thought I should talk well, but as I spoke, my voice rose by an octave involuntarily. Then we say that mom and dad are wrong, we can't think like this, we can't do this; It's wrong to do this, and it's wrong to do that. It's a bit like when mom and dad taught us a lesson when we were young, and our parents wouldn't refute us, just like when we were not very good at refuting our parents. Our status has been replaced, we are parents in those days, and parents are us in those days.

This education is really labeled, and it won't go out of shape, although we strongly oppose that we are like our parents and try our best to show that we are different from our parents. In fact, the gene is so powerful that you are helpless.

But today's children are much smarter than us. He will know when to show weakness. He knows that his parents are most afraid of his soft kisses and hugs. Then we, as parents, will change the situation and talk well. Change the way we always collapse, and make our hearts soft.

the important thing is to improve quality, improve quality, improve quality. Xin Dad said to Xin Er, "Your mother is impatient, and the fire will catch fire." In fact, it's too embarrassing for me, or my self-cultivation is not enough.

No matter what the reason is, we are still very happy that Xiner has been able to keep a close hug and kiss with us, and we have to pretend that we don't know Xiner's little tricks all the time.