Brother doesn't read books and watch videos for his brother.

Since the country opened the second child policy, many families have given birth to a second child, and the original child has grown up. In the face of "sudden" brothers or sisters, some are extremely resistant, some will love them in every way, while others are unique and make the best use of them.

About the correct usage of brothers and sisters? My college brother stays in bed and doesn't attend online classes. My primary school brother helps me.

A while ago, a video was on the Internet, and it was another day driven crazy by the epidemic. Because the notice of starting school on April 7 was just announced two days ago, this year's primary school students, middle school students and college students still can't escape the clutches of online classes. Some online classes need to show your face, so you have to do it yourself, but some online classes don't need to show your face, as long as someone stares at them, but this brother in the video is a very thoughtful child. Actually, I asked my brother, a pupil, to help him with his online class, and he was sleeping beside him. Many netizens said that they didn't know how he managed to get his younger brother to help him with his class. The following is a collection of comments from netizens:

"What the hell is going on? Was it bribed with pocket money? Or promised to help him rank king? "

"When school starts, you will find that you are the only one who didn't listen to the online class."

"Whenever I have a younger brother and sister, I don't have to sleep and listen."

"I will be miserable. I will not only watch online classes and write my own homework, but also accompany my brother to watch his online classes and help him with his homework. "

It can be seen that every family has a difficult experience. Whether it is a one-child family or a two-child family, each family has its own emotions and lives in various ways.

When there are two children at home, especially when the age gap between the two children is relatively large, how should we live in peace?

0 1 First of all, don't be partial to one of the children.

In many Bauer families, parents will unconsciously favor one of the children, especially when the two children are older and younger, parents will give more care to the younger child, which will make the older child sad and jealous. Parents love one child, but also think about the other child that comes out of your belly. He is not a decoration at home, nor is he a helper to help you with your second child. He is also a growing child. He also needs your love and care. You can't make a bowl of water level spiritually, at least it should be fair materially, instead of "Ma Bao made jiaozi out of shrimp, gave her five sons and two daughters, and tried to be fair".

Secondly, don't deprive children of their rights.

I believe many people had this experience when they were young. Their beloved clothes and toys are easily given to others by their parents, and there is no room for resistance except crying. This seemingly insignificant thing has always been rooted in their own hearts and has become a lifelong childhood shadow. In fact, every child has the right to own and control his own things. It is entirely advisable for parents to buy their favorite clothes and toys for their children when economic conditions permit. This is also a way to respect children. When children's belongings are always plundered by others, children will lose their sense of security and distrust their parents. Only when children have a "sense of security" about their belongings will they begin to be willing to share.

Don't interfere too much when two children are in conflict, but guide them.

Some children are fragile at heart. When they play with a child with a strong heart, they often feel bullied. At this time, many parents will make their children apologize indiscriminately, but in fact, children have their own way of getting along. Parents can give appropriate guidance when children are in conflict, but don't be a "referee" to interfere excessively.