Why do people who always talk with a smile are all smart people?

A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June.

When people communicate with each other, they must speak. If you keep silent, others will really treat you as a mute.

Some things, if you don't explain them clearly, what will others think of you? Default? It will hurt you more.

However, how should you speak? Speaking is a science, which embodies a person's wisdom and character.

As the saying goes:? Reach out and not hit the smiling face. ? A really smart person knows how to talk with a smile and give others a good face. They can say anything as long as the atmosphere is pleasant.

Talking to others with a smile, no matter right or wrong, will not offend people, because your smile warms others' hearts and reflects your sincerity.

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Speaking with a smile is a respect for others and can understand each other.

The afternoon before yesterday, I visited my old classmate, Lao Hu. Tiger power bureau project, responsible for line maintenance and transformation.

As soon as I entered the office building of the electric power bureau, I heard someone calling names loudly.

I walked into khufu's office, and khufu motioned me to sit down and wait.

It turned out that the curse was an old lady in her sixties, standing in front of khufu's desk. The old lady thinks that the telephone pole at the door is blocking her window and needs to move out as soon as possible, otherwise she will go to the higher authorities to make trouble.

Old nonsense:? Grandma, I understand what you said, and so do the problems you reflected. I'll send someone to the scene tomorrow. If it is really like what you said, I will definitely try to move the telephone pole. ?

The old lady didn't believe what khufu said, but said more loudly: You officials are all fooling people. Last year, I went to the village to reflect this matter, and the village party secretary also said the same thing, but one year later, things were not handled well. ?

Khufu poured the old woman a cup of tea and asked her to sit down and talk slowly. Every once in a while, khufu said, Grandma, it's getting late today. Let me send a car to take you home. ?

Although the old woman is still angry, she is obviously much better. She said:? Hey, I won't embarrass you either. I will wait for you at home tomorrow. ?

Looking at the back of the old woman leaving, I really admire khufu's patience. From beginning to end, he laughed and didn't argue with the old woman.

When people interact with each other, you respect others, and others will respect you. Talking with a smile shows that your words are sincere and warm. Maybe your words are not convincing, but your attitude will leave a good impression on others, and you can always turn your enemy into your friend.

Communicating and talking between people is like quarreling. No one can convince anyone, and finally they can only break up in discord. Perhaps, because two people talked once, they have nothing to say anymore.

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Laugh and criticize others, so as not to offend others.

It is human nature to make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes, which is not very strange, but there are always people who hold on to others' mistakes and don't give others a chance to correct them.

If other people's mistakes are related to you, you will be very angry. You are afraid that others will get you into trouble, and you always want to put the wrong responsibility out as soon as possible.

If you are the leader of a unit, the mistakes of subordinates will affect your work, so it's strange that you are not angry.

A smart person will smile and criticize others when they make mistakes, and spend some time listening to his explanation. As the saying goes:? You have to forgive others and forgive others. ? If you give others a chance to make corrections, others will remember your goodness and may help you in the future.

Laugh and criticize others, while leaving face for others, but also leaving a way out for yourself. Think about it. What if the person in front of you becomes your leader in the future, or his career is better than yours?

By my side, there is an example of laughing and criticizing people. Five years ago, my classmate Wei Wei was an ordinary cadre in a township. At the end of the year, he made a mistake in a report. Liu Xiangchang invited him to the office, pointed out his mistakes and patiently told him how to correct them.

Now, Wei Wei has been transferred to the county office, but he still remembers Liu Xiangchang's help and tries to help Liu Xiangchang in his work. It can be seen that Liu Xiangchang's method of criticizing people at that time was so intimate.

It is easy to offend a person, and a chilling word is enough; It is not easy to get a friend. Maybe it's no use saying a hundred words.

The communication between people is sincere. Nobody can blame anyone, but help each other. Qi Xin made concerted efforts to get things done.

Aggressive criticism is putting yourself above others, showing that you have no quality and blocking the back road.

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Smile and accept criticism and suggestions from others, showing a good tolerance.

"History? Jun Chen wrote:? It is helpful to have forbearance; Tolerance makes virtue great. ? This sentence means that people have to learn to be patient before they have a chance to succeed; It is noble to have a broad mind and virtue.

The wider your mind is, the less you will care about others. Being a man, learning to tolerate everything, then there will be no troubles, and you can also find happiness from troubles.

When others criticize you and give you advice, they are helping you. Don't talk back to others, and don't give them a hard time. As the saying goes:? Modesty makes people progress. ? You bow your head and listen to others with a smile. Even if others say something unpleasant, you don't refute it. It's not that you lost, but that you showed your wisdom and tolerance.

People who are sad every day are not unhappy, but care too much about others and like to haggle too much. If all the unpleasant things are put aside, his face will look good.

People who smile every day are not without troubles, but remember the good of others, find their own advantages and put aside all their troubles.

It's not that difficult to learn to smile and speak. The key is that you should be tolerant. Accept the shortcomings of others and see the advantages of others, and you will face others with a smile; Accept your own shortcomings, accept other people's suggestions, and you can smile at yourself.

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Laughter is a good medicine for curing diseases. A story is told: A 49-year-old man is terminally ill, and the chance of recovery is only 1/500. The doctor concluded that he would not live for a few months. He left the hospital decisively, without taking medicine or injections, and faced his illness with a smile. Later, when a man suffered a massive myocardial infarction, he also smiled. Finally, he lived to be 75 years old.

Learning to laugh will make you feel unexpected happiness and cure your ills; Learning to smile and talk will make you know many friends and cure your bad mood.