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Why are there so many single women in their 50s now?

I dance with several single sisters. They are all in their 50s. I have discussed with them why they would rather be single proudly than be humble in love. In fact, there are several categories of people. I will use A, B, C and D to classify them for the time being:

Sister A has a family of children and grandchildren. Her husband died of illness a few years ago. Her family is well off and she has a pension. , she has several houses and shops for rent in Chengdu, with an annual income of nearly 200,000 yuan. She is beautiful and elegantly dressed. She initially wanted to find a boyfriend, but with better conditions and similar age, they wanted to find a younger man. She couldn't find someone who was much older than her. When she met someone who was younger than her, the conditions were worse, and her children were afraid that they were liars. So, for several years, she lived with her son. Because the conditions are good, her daughter-in-law does not dislike her, and everyone is in peace.

Sister B is thin, wears glasses, speaks softly, and has a polite appearance. When she was young, her husband disliked her daughter and never wanted to see her. Eventually, she divorced and married another woman. She raised her daughter, who is married and has children. She has been living with her daughter and has a pension, but she still chose to work and come to dance in her free time. She does not believe in men, cannot let go in her mind, and is prejudiced against men. She is always alone. She thinks that a person can be too simple and devote himself to raising his grandson. She wonders if there will be such a man in the future who understands her, pities her and loves her. I hope there will be.

Sister C, her husband died a few years ago and she has a pension. Now she helps other people take care of their dolls with a salary of 3,000 a month. She has been taking care of them for several years. She loves her doll so much that she brought her to dance with us. I have come here to dance, and she is a very good girl. This sister is short, not even 1.5 meters tall. She wears half-high heels every time she comes to dance. She is not pretty, but she has a smiling face. We all like her. , she had a son who couldn’t get along with her daughter-in-law. She said it would be better to find a man to take care of him. In the end, it would be better to take care of someone else’s baby. Her education level was low, so she said it very directly, but I think she said It also makes sense.

Sister Ding, 50 years old, has just retired. Her daughter gives her several thousand yuan every month. She does not go to work, is in good health, walks with wind, is divorced, and raises her eldest daughter by herself. Her thoughts Unlike the previous sisters, she usually likes to read books, write calligraphy, play the harmonica, dance, and travel. She is looking forward to a beautiful relationship, but she does not want others to introduce her. In other words, she is introduced by others. I don’t like it, but she wants to see the right one. She has been single for several years, and she lives happily every day. She is not impatient or impatient. She carries a portable stereo and dances in the park every day with a smile like a flower. At first, she danced alone. , now she leads a group of people to dance, does not charge a penny, charges the speakers, and carries the speakers for everyone. She is cheerful every day, as if she has never been troubled. Perhaps, she has long been accustomed to loneliness, or perhaps, she has long been indifferent. life.

In conclusion, it is actually very good for a woman to be single!

Because the standards are high, we will not compromise. Take myself for example. I am 69 years old and have been single for 20 years. I have a job that can support me and my daughter. I have no problem with food and clothing.

Over the years, there have been introductions from relatives and friends, but none of them are suitable. Even when I was young, I couldn’t make do with it, and even more so when I am old. My friends say that I am too demanding, maybe.

First of all, this person needs to have a stable job in a public institution. I don’t like a man who lies flat at home, no matter how rich he is. I think a man must have his own career to be attractive. I like the feeling of two people working together. The appearance is old, but the heart is still as romantic as when I was young. I can't change it, there is nothing I can do.

Secondly, this person must be knowledgeable and have a higher level of education than me. I care very much about spiritual life and will never accept anything we can't talk about together. In our small county, not many people were admitted to technical secondary schools or above in those days. There were very few highly educated men. Which woman would give up on divorce? Therefore, I am destined to be single for the rest of my life.

Ten years ago, I was introduced to a doctor by a good friend. He graduated from medical school and was a physician in a local hospital. His appearance was acceptable.

But after getting along for a few months, I couldn't stand his slovenliness and unreasonableness... Let's forget it. Why should I wrong myself at such an old age? If you could bear it, how much better it would have been if you had not divorced and tolerated your ex-husband!

Perhaps, my personality is destined to keep me single for the rest of my life! I can't help it, I'm just so stubborn on this matter. I think being single is pretty good, you are free and you don’t have to cater to anyone. Now, I have lived the way I want: writing articles, listening to music, hiking and mountain climbing... With 28 months to retire, I will pack up my bags and go on the poor travel and pastoral life I have longed for.

Without a suitable umbrella, I would rather get caught in the rain!

Not to mention old ladies in their 50s, even middle-aged women in their thirties and forties don’t want to be single all day long.

If a man gets divorced, he is likely to get married again. Women are different. After a divorce, time goes by and they are never in a hurry to renew their relationship.

Tell the truth! The partners of first marriages are usually carefully selected, and they can always find some attractive advantages. If you want to remarry, look at the middle-aged and older men with fat heads and big bellies around you. How can you act if your heart doesn't move?

Sister Liu is 54 this year. When she was in her early 30s and still enjoying her beauty, she was kicked by her husband for no apparent reason. The reason was that a female doctor had cheated on Sister Liu, and she wanted to occupy the magpie's nest.

After learning from the painful experience, Sister Liu realized that she had no power and was just a hard-working laid-off worker in a state-owned factory. In the end, he left the house without even getting custody of his son.

Her parents wanted her to talk about remarrying. Alas, she can't even control her own man. What courage does Sister Liu have to think about other men?

At the age of over 30, she does not like old men, but how can there be so many suitable people of the same age waiting in line for her? Being too high to be too low was not a common problem among remarried women in that era.

Remarriage is like negotiating a business. Only when your job, house, car, children, and parents are in line with your wishes can the negotiation continue. Everyone wants to take advantage and pick up a ready-made watermelon to eat. Everyone is not a fool, and they fall apart after talking over and over again.

It’s not like talking about marriage when you were young, there is still a trace of impulsiveness in it.

Later, Sister Liu found that living alone was easy and comfortable.

No need to get up early to cook, no need to worry about children studying, no need to rush home after get off work. Life suddenly became calm and calm.

Isn’t this the best time in a person’s life when he has classes, money, filial parents, gatherings with friends, and time to have fun and let himself go?

Lao Yao is the eldest princess in "Little Shede". She was born well and married well.

The reason for the divorce was that her husband's career was too successful, and his mistresses came one after another, and they were all charming and beautiful. Finally, a woman who was as beautiful as her, but younger than her, squeezed her away.

My son and Lao Yao, my husband pays 30,000 yuan a month in child support. During the divorce, she was given two apartments and 800,000 in cash. How could an ordinary man like Lao Yao fall into her eyes?

Besides, her husband still misses her old relationship and often goes to change her furniture, buy her a mink, and give her some jewelry. It is natural to live a life without lacking anything.

Colleagues joked privately that Lao Yao had been reduced from the first wife to the mistress, and her husband was even more fond of her.

Asked Lao Yao if she had ever thought about getting married again, she said that only fools get married! Let go of your free life and get entangled in the messy remarriage relationship.

No woman in the world who has a job and money is willing to remarry, because she does not need to calculate who can gain wealth. Likewise, she doesn't want to fall into the trap of other people's love.

Life is simple and happy!

Today, the more women resist aging, the more narcissistic they become. If you are in a bad mood, buy some clothes, look in the mirror, and immediately resurrect with full health and run out for a date with Chunfeng.

1. The times are different. There is no man to support the family, but women still live a prosperous life. You don’t have to put in the effort yourself, you can have food and drinks delivered to your home.

2. Today’s women have jobs, income, retirement security, and more reliable money than men. Who would fall into self-torture in an uncertain marriage?

3. Be free and worry-free. There are no family chores to get in the way, no marital responsibilities to worry about, the sound of silk and bamboo is enough to disturb the ears, and the picturesque scenery is soothing to the eyes.

4. Occasionally, I am lucky enough to meet a good match. After in-depth communication, I will go and avoid meeting again. What's wrong with being able to come and go as you please and stay as you please?

Having said all that, as a woman, do you still mind being single in your 50s?

Everywhere I go, I feel that there are a lot of old ladies in their 50s to 70s. They go to the morning market in the morning, go to the park during the day, and sometimes participate in activities, sell health medical equipment, do moxibustion, etc. Eighty percent of them are old ladies. Where have all the old men gone? Is it really because old men have short life spans and did not pay attention to taking care of their bodies when they were young, drinking and smoking? A male classmate of mine died in his 50s due to high blood pressure and heart disease. He liked to drink and smoke when he was young. He had a myocardial infarction and died at the age of 52. His children were not married yet. What a pity. People should cherish themselves and their lives. My neighbor has a sister who is 60 years old. The old man wants to divorce her. The old man always goes to the ballroom to dance. He met a woman in her 50s and they fell in love. The old man divorced the old lady and asked her for money. If you want a house, the old lady won't give it to you. If you want to leave, you won't give her a cent. You can't even think about the house. The old man will beat the old lady when he doesn't give it. He even knocked out his front teeth and didn't give it to you. But the old lady said I'm leaving you, so you He left alone. The old man left after seeing that he was not given anything. After the divorce, the girl who danced with him got married not long after. The next year, the old man went to Beacon Mountain to cast a net for fishing and when a big wave caught him, he was dunked into the sea and did not come out. When he dies, another man is gone, so it is true that men cherish and take good care of their home and live a peaceful and happy old age.

First, because old ladies now know how to keep themselves clean, and are afraid that some old men will be unclean.

Second, today’s old ladies have the ability to survive on their own. I don't want to find another bad old man to serve me. [cover face][cover face][cover face][cover face][cover face]

What I said may be too straightforward and may hurt some people.

Just tell the truth. Please forgive me. [Prayer][Prayer][Prayer]

According to international standards, 45-65 years old is a middle-aged person, and 50-year-old is an old lady? All the women you have seen around 50 years old are old ladies? First of all You have bad eyesight. You are at least in your 70s, right? [Face-covering][Face-covering][Face-covering]

Nowadays, old ladies in their 50s are indeed very popular. It can be said that if some people dress up, they are really like little aunties, and everyone follows them. of.

Some people say that if a man gets divorced, he will get married later. But women are different. After divorce, they always remember the past. Some even hope that one day they can remarry and live with their ex-husband again. This is the difference between women and men regarding marriage.

But now the old ladies in their 50s really want to be single, because they have been bound by marriage for a lifetime and really want to live in their own space.

Another reason is that old ladies in their 50s are very picky now. If they remarry or find another partner, they are particularly picky. They are like Looking for their first love is like an ordinary choice, but when they see the oily middle-aged and elderly men around them, how can they act without moving their hearts.

Let me just talk about an old lady I met in the main square. She also asked me to introduce a younger person to Zhang Luo.

She is Sister Ma in our community. She is 51 years old this year. She separated from her husband when she was 40 years old. The reason was that her husband cheated on her. It was very unpleasant at the time.

Every time she mentioned her marriage back then, Sister Ma always looked melancholy, because she didn’t know how she got to this point and why she was inexplicably passed over by her husband.

She said that she was a flower in the community back then, and had always had a stable job. She worked in obscurity in a small state-owned enterprise until now. Her final marriage ended like this, and she was very unwilling to do so.

In fact, I see Sister Ma very chic and fashionable every day. When I walk in front of her, she smells of perfume.

It is understood that Sister Ma’s parents are still alive. They are also worried about their daughter’s marriage, and are also talking to the neighbors about introducing a partner to their daughter.

But I admire Sister Ma for being single for 11 years. If ordinary women really can't help it. They are probably already married.

But Sister Ma’s requirements for getting married now are not low. Only when her job, house, car, children, and parents are in line with her wishes can the relationship continue. If you are not satisfied with these points, you will never get married. At most, it will just be a meeting and a meal.

Sometimes I feel that Sister Ma’s search for a partner is just like the first time, with many requirements and high standards.

I introduced three people to them and all of them failed. The main reason is that Sister Ma’s requirements are very high and the conditions are not low. The bride price scared many people away.

The most important thing is that her marriage requirements are the same as her first marriage, and no one of the 16 cars is missing. And the first car must be worth more than one million.

Sometimes I laugh when I hear this condition, but Sister Ma is single due to her ability, so her condition is really a big problem. But it's very realistic.

I myself feel that old ladies in their 50s are indeed very popular. They have their own savings, their own income, and their own stable residence. No matter what time they are, they can dress themselves up neatly, and they often put on makeup when going out. A person's life is indeed full of life

From Sister Ma's body, I also After analyzing the reasons why there are so many single women in their 50s now, I have my own opinions. First, I think times have changed, and the ideas and concepts of old ladies have also changed. They believe that women can live as well as men. Second, the old ladies in their 50s now have their own jobs, their own incomes, and their own security now and in the future. As long as they have money, it really doesn't matter whether they find a man or not. Third, they think openly and feel that there are not so many things to do alone, there are less thoughts and worries, and there will be no quarrels over trivial family matters. Freedom is most important. Fourth, they feel that the main thing when interacting with men now is to look at the person. If they meet someone who is suitable, they will talk for a while, and when they meet someone who is not suitable, they will turn away and leave. Fifth, in my 50s, I have experienced a lot of things, and I have looked down on many things. I have become independent and strong, and I can handle everything in life and at home. Sixth, I feel that I am getting older and I don’t have so much energy and time to run in with men anymore, and I am a little unable to do what I want, so it is good to be alone.

Am I right? What do you think?

There are several reasons why many women in their fifties are single

First, many single women in their fifties are now affected by some poisonous chicken soup. , when they choose a remarriage partner, they do not consider the shortcomings of their own age, and blindly put forward some excessive demands to middle-aged and elderly men, such as asking for family financial rights from men, asking for so-called betrothal gifts from men, etc. Some even asked middle-aged and elderly men to add their names to the original properties. These unreasonable conditions made the middle-aged and elderly men truly understand that these women in their fifties were not looking for wives at all!

Secondly, there are some women with relatively high personal qualities and cultural accomplishments. Due to their high quality, they will naturally have much higher vision than ordinary people when choosing a partner again. However, at present, various Middle-aged men with relatively good conditions rarely choose older women. Most of these good men will make friends with younger women, which leaves those excellent and high-quality women in their fifties to have no choice but to get married. Living a lonely life of being single!

In addition, the fact that women in their fifties are single is also related to their high or low standards for choosing a mate. Men with good conditions, even if they are in their fifties or sixties, will not worry about finding a relatively young man. , it’s the same money, who wouldn’t want to choose something better!

It’s not that single women in their 50s don’t want to start a family, but it’s really difficult to meet someone who is compatible with them in all aspects.

53-year-old Sister Zhao is a primary school teacher. More than ten years ago, her lover, a police officer, died in the line of duty. In order for her daughter to grow up healthily, she has never remarried. Her daughter lived up to her upbringing and applied to study at a French university.

Without her children by her side, she would inevitably live a lonely life. With the persuasion of her relatives and friends, she decided to find a like-minded person to spend the rest of her life. The elder sister who danced square dance with her introduced her to a 60-year-old Brother Li.

Brother Li is a retired cadre of the government, with a monthly pension of seven to eight thousand yuan. They have a son and a daughter, both of whom are married. Brother Li's parents are still alive. They live with Brother Li, and there is a nanny to take care of them at home.

The two met at Brother Li’s house.

Brother Li asked Sister Zhao and the introducer to sit down, and then went into the kitchen to make lunch. Looking at the clumsy Brother Zhao, he was in a hurry. Sister Zhao took the initiative to help and cooked a rich meal.

Brother Li is tall and strong, with wisdom hidden between his brows. Sister Zhao felt that she was not worthy of others at all. Unexpectedly, Brother Li said that he was very satisfied with Sister Zhao.

Brother Li said: "At our age, unlike young people, we still need to fall in love for a few years. If we have no objections to each other, we hope to get married sooner."

Brother Li's thoughts on the future I have made a plan for my life, "You keep your salary for yourself. I will bear the living expenses. I have to use part of the money every month to help the children pay the mortgage. If we get married, the nanny will not be needed, so Life can be more comfortable."

Sister Zhao understood that Brother Li was not looking for a wife. He was just looking for a free nanny to help him take care of his parents. A colleague introduced her to a skilled worker one year younger than herself, Master Shang.

Colleagues said that although Master Shang is a worker, his monthly salary is more than 5,000, and he occasionally does some private work to earn extra money.

When looking for a wife at this age, the focus is on the quality of life. Sister Zhao doesn't really mind what her profession is. Sister Zhao has some concerns. Nowadays, middle-aged men want to find a "small" woman. What's more, this man's income is pretty good, so how can he find a "big" woman?

Colleagues said that the other party is a person who cares about appearance and not age.

At a colleague's house, Sister Zhao met Master Shang. His strong figure and dark and healthy complexion made Master Shang look much younger than his actual age.

Master Shang said frankly: "My wife got terminally ill a few years ago. In order to treat her illness, I changed the big house into a small one, and borrowed a lot of foreign debts. I spent a lot of money, but there was no money." Keep people." When he talked about the emotional part, his eyes filled with tears. Sister Zhao was deeply moved by Master Shang's affection.

"After several years of hard work, the foreign debt has been paid off. Now I want to find a good woman with a house to live the rest of my life."

Master Shang said with some embarrassment, "My son now He has a girlfriend and has already discussed marriage. He currently cannot afford to buy a house for his son, so he hopes to find a woman who owns a house, move out by himself, and free up the house for his son to get married. ”

The eldest brother has repeatedly said that after getting married, he will take care of all the housework.

"My child needs money to get married. I still have a little money saved. If you can help me a little, after my son gets married, I will give you my salary card and I will listen to you in my future life." "

Sister Zhao understood that it was not about her as a person, but about her house. A neighbor recommended his distant cousin to her, a farmer in his early sixties. ,

The neighbor said, "Although my cousin is from a rural area, his family is very well-off. The family has a cattle farm, several acres of orchards, and several greenhouses. He can earn more than 200,000 yuan a year." Both sons are married and have no financial burden."

Sister Zhao followed her neighbor on a one-day trip to the farmyard. The life of my cousin's family is indeed prosperous. There are three families living in the small western-style house, and the facilities in the house are no worse than those in the city.

During the meal, the whole family of grandson and daughter were very lively.

Sister Zhao usually eats alone. For the first time, she felt the joy of having her children and grandchildren around her knees.

My cousin is a very down-to-earth person. He took the initiative to say: "We are very destined. If we can become a family, I am willing to give you 5,000 yuan every month as living expenses for the two of us." "My cousin took a sip of wine and continued: "I am getting older and can no longer do farm work. Let my sons take care of the house work. I can buy a house in the city as our home. "

Sister Zhao feels that although her cousin is from a rural area, she understands the ways of the world.

My cousin hesitated and discussed with Sister Zhao: "My son and daughter-in-law are usually very busy and cannot take care of the children. After we get married, we want to bring our four grandchildren to live in the city."

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My cousin gave his own reason, "My education is not high, and I have delayed my two sons. I want my grandchildren to become promising people. The schools in the city are good, and you are a teacher. The child should be fine, right?"

Sister Zhao is not ready to be a grandma for four children. Taking a taxi, I met the single driver Master Qi.

One night, after having dinner with her friends, Sister Zhao suddenly felt a severe pain in her stomach while taking a taxi home. The driver, Master Qi, sent her directly to the hospital without saying a word.

Sister Zhao has acute appendicitis and needs surgery. Master Qi took the initiative to pay for the medical expenses and waited outside the operating room until Sister Zhao's brother arrived before leaving silently.

Sister Zhao found Master Qi based on the phone number he left in the hospital. In order to express her gratitude, Sister Zhao invited him to have a meal.

Sister Zhao learned that Master Qi had no parents or children. He divorced his wife because of his cheating in his early years, and later he never had a girlfriend. The two chatted very well and became friends over time.

Slowly, the relationship between the two people heated up. Master Qi began to pursue Sister Zhao, and the two lonely people cherished each other.

When discussing marriage, Master Qi proposed to go to the hospital for a physical examination. Sister Zhao didn't think too much and went through the physical examination according to the items selected by Master Qi.

"I like children. Can you give me a child? The physical examination proves that we can still have children." Master Qi said with the physical examination report.

Sister Zhao felt that having children at such an old age was risky, so she refused Master Qi's request, and the two broke up. Several failed blind dates did not dispel Sister Zhao's desire to have a family. So, Sister Zhao signed up to participate in the elderly blind date program organized by the TV station.

The matchmaker on the TV station was also very enthusiastic and first introduced the eldest sister to three male guests with fairly comparable conditions. The first male guest is 60 years old. He has just retired. He has good conditions. He loves reading and traveling, which coincides with Sister Zhao’s hobbies.

After meeting, the eldest brother spoke frankly. Appreciation for Sister Zhao. The two of them went straight to the topic without saying a few words and talked about life after marriage.

The eldest brother proposed the idea of ??AA system for living expenses. He believes that when two people get married, they are one family, and the living expenses should be borne jointly. It's not that Sister Zhao can't afford half of the living expenses, but she feels like something's wrong? The second male guest is one year older than Sister Zhao.

Although this eldest brother looks ordinary, he manages to be presentable. He directly said what was in his heart. He felt that Sister Zhao was old and older. His ideal partner should be about 5 years younger than himself.

After hearing the matchmaker's introduction that Sister Zhao's salary was five to six thousand yuan per month, the man immediately began to praise Sister Zhao for her good temperament and culture.

It turns out that this eldest brother only has a monthly labor insurance of 1,344 yuan, and does not have his own house. He is currently sharing a house with others. He hopes to move to Sister Zhao's house immediately. The third male guest is a 70-year-old retired cadre. Although this eldest brother is older, he looks energetic and capable.

He made a lot of promises to Sister Zhao. He would spend 3,000 yuan every month for living expenses, which she could use freely. He would also deposit another 2,000 yuan to her every month as a security deposit.

He also said that he could take Sister Zhao to live in the south in winter and return to the north in summer. If your physical condition permits, you can take Sister Zhao to travel abroad every year.

He said confidently. His living ability is relatively poor. After getting married, Sister Zhao has to do all the housework such as washing, cooking, and cleaning the house. He needs Sister Zhao to serve him.

He wants to sign a contract with Sister Zhao. The money he deposits for Sister Zhao cannot be withdrawn until after his death. It cannot be touched before that. If Sister Zhao cannot serve him until death, then Sister Zhao will not get a cent of the money he saved.

Sister Zhao simply wanted to have a family and have a companion in life so that she would not be too lonely. Unexpectedly, this place concealed pitfalls of various conditions.

Now, Sister Zhao has given up the idea of ??remarriage. She feels that she cannot cope with the various additional conditions in remarriage. She decided that when she could walk, she would join various elderly groups, and when she could no longer walk, she would spend her remaining years in a nursing home.

Most women in their fifties today cannot be said to be old ladies. They are educated, well-maintained, rich and well-dressed, and are no worse than those in their thirties. If you are single at fifty and find a grandpa to take care of you, you must have not understood life yet.