Why can't a good wife meet a good mother-in-law and a good mother-in-law meet a good wife?

"Your menstruation was driven out by your daughter-in-law. Come and comfort her! "

When I got a call from my mother, I hurried there.

Crying during menstruation. The reason why I was driven out of the house was because my wife and husband quarreled and my husband slammed the door. After criticizing my son, I went to comfort my daughter-in-law during menstruation, saying that if I went out to work for fun, I might quarrel less. The daughter-in-law felt that her mother-in-law hated not going to work and was angry, so she told her mother-in-law to get out. ...

I'll go! The name of the daughter-in-law, the name of the car buyer, the name of the menstrual child, is fully responsible for the child's tuition and childcare expenses. After the daughter-in-law gets married, she neither takes the children nor goes to work. She either cuts her hand on a treasure every day or goes out to buy it at buy buy. She is so spoiled by her husband's family that she dares to kick her mother-in-law out. How arrogant!

Why did you let such an excellent daughter-in-law go? There should be a tearing war right away, if I divorce her right away! I am heartbroken! Why don't I have such a good life! )

Now that the ratio between men and women is out of balance, it is not easy to find a daughter-in-law for my son! Menstruation shakes his head again and again. My mother also glared at me, saying that our daughter-in-law here is spoiled.

Yes, not only is the proportion out of balance, but the cost of getting married is also high. Can ordinary families not cherish the daughter-in-law they bought with great difficulty?

But if you marry an unreliable daughter-in-law, should you let her be unreasonable and domineering?

The children are all in primary school, and they haven't attended a day's class or done a housework since they got married. The children just slapped her on the stomach, but didn't take it away. How confident and capable you are to be so disrespectful to your mother-in-law!

2.

I saw a 2-year-old child reciting an ancient poem when I was playing in the Children's Paradise. I thought it was interesting to recite 666. I talked to the child's mother.

The child's mother is gentle, knowledgeable and looks very educated. I asked her curiously what she did.

Mother's eyes suddenly dimmed and she said with a wry smile that she had no job.

It turns out that she is a department manager of a company. When her career was booming, she gave birth to a child. Her mother-in-law loves to play and refuses to help with the children. She had to quit her job and go home to be a full-time mother.

I comforted her that it is normal for some mothers-in-law to be tired for most of their lives and still want to be at leisure and not have children.

However, this is not the case. Her parents-in-law love to play. One likes gambling, the other likes playing cards. Neither of them does anything and asks them for money. It is said that rural people are kind, but from their in-laws, they can't see any advantages. Get married, buy a house, have children, raise children, even if you don't pay a penny, even if you want money, you don't want to bring children. How can people not be angry!

But she took care of her husband's face and endured it all the time. She never quarreled with her mother-in-law. Smile when you meet, and give your mother-in-law a red envelope to buy a gift during the Chinese New Year holiday.

If I were you, I would argue with my mother-in-law anyway, otherwise I would be so fucking wronged. I express my indignation!

The mother of the child said that it was not in line with her personality, and she was used to it!

I feel particularly embarrassed when I think about my daughter-in-law, like menstruation. She must look the same, be capable and have a bad temper, while I, menstruation, treat her as an uncle and tolerate her everywhere. The mother of this child whom I met by chance is willing to work hard and take care of the child, and her personality is also very gentle. Why not be cherished by her mother-in-law? Life, what dog blood!

3.

Why can't a good wife meet a good mother-in-law and a good mother-in-law meet a good wife?

In fact, the mother-in-law in story one and the daughter-in-law in story two have one thing in common-they are too tolerant and have no bottom line.

Many times, it is a habit that "bad" people become more and more "bad". Because his bad behavior didn't get any punishment!

On second thought, I think my daughter-in-law's menstruation is right, too. Her menstruation is all wet. If she didn't arrange everything, if she didn't accommodate her daughter-in-law, how could her daughter-in-law be so domineering?

At the beginning, the daughter-in-law had to make a choice, either going to work, taking care of the children or not giving financial support. Will the daughter-in-law become more and more selfish and lazy, and even drive her mother-in-law out of the house?

People are good at being bullied, and some people just push their noses and faces again and again, making it worse.

If the daughter-in-law in the second story can be humble to her mother-in-law, deduct some from her mother-in-law's living expenses or not, can her mother-in-law still be stubborn enough to only care about eating, drinking and having fun?

Some people are not good to you, which you are used to: some people are not good to you, but you are too good!

Not everyone deserves you.

If your kindness is based on your own pain, then I advise you to be a "bad guy".