Can I go back to my parents' home for the New Year in my first year of marriage?

1. It is taboo to go back to your parents' home for the New Year.

This custom says that when a married girl goes back to her parents' house, the husband and wife can only sleep in separate rooms. Not only couples, whether they go to other people's homes, relatives or friends, or even married women in their own homes, such as married daughters and even married elders, men and women will sleep in separate rooms.

2. It is taboo to celebrate the New Year at parents' home on the first day of the first month.

It is forbidden to go back to parents' home for the New Year on the first day of the first month. On New Year's Day, a family should stay with her husband, otherwise it will lead to the situation that her husband can't get together.

3. Go back to your parents' home for the New Year, and avoid touching the pot and spoon.

You can't touch pots and spoons when you go back to your mother's house. People think that going back to her parents' home to touch pots and spoons may make her parents unlucky for a year. So when you go back to your mother's house, you should actively abide by these customs and don't touch these taboo things.