My boyfriend is so poor that I can't carry it anymore.

After reading your post, my mood is surging, and many years of memories are aroused. Tell my story first. It may help you from a man's point of view:

When I was 25, I was almost as poor as you. I also had a girlfriend who loved me very much at that time. My income is very low, and hers is not high. We have to spend our monthly income. At that time, I often felt guilty because I couldn't satisfy her little wishes. At that time, I felt very guilty and inferior, and I could not find a way to make money. So I got a few credit cards, which were often overdrawn, and lied to her that it was a bonus issued by the unit. In the long run, the cards are owed. I couldn't hide it until it was impenetrable and the bank called every day to collect debts. I thought she would leave me, but she didn't say anything and began to pay off all her income every month to help me pay my debts. That's my guilty heart.

She is a kind and simple little woman just like you. In order to avoid causing me too much pressure, she also tries to save money. We all ride bicycles, play in free parks and go home for dinner every day. Although all her good sisters found better boyfriends than me and urged her to leave, she stayed with me. So she alienated her friends and never participated in group activities to avoid my embarrassment. She said that she depended on me as long as I made progress.

Not long after this life, I finally collapsed. I can't stand the pressure inside. I broke up. I didn't want her to suffer with me, so I found an absurd reason to force her to leave me. That night, she was in tears.

Later, I went to other places to work hard, and I often thought of her at night. I fantasize about how to go back to China and marry her, but the reality is cruel. When I got home that year, I received a letter from her, but she had already married and became a mother. ....

I have my own career and family now, but I still think of her often and recall that experience. I think, what would I be like now without her, and would she be happy? Will I be happy? Without her, would I face life as calmly as I do now? The occasional news from her tells me that she is happy now, and I think that's enough. ....

My experience is nothing. Such stories are staged every day. In this society, people, men and women, it is precisely because of feelings that life becomes bittersweet. When you get through this experience and think about it from time to time, you will have a feeling of life.

Having said that, I want you to understand that men need women to grow up. Women are sometimes more selfless and broad-minded than men, because women really don't have high requirements for love, and men always realize this after several years.

Women don't necessarily know men. Your boyfriend may be under more pressure than you. What man doesn't want his woman to live a better life and hold her head high in front of others. Maybe you don't understand the pain in his heart.

Now I'll give you two suggestions:

1, you are still young, you are still studying, and you have no job to experience the ups and downs of life. You can make this man a traveler in your life. As long as you are willing, this man will definitely leave you, because he loves you very much, and a person bears most of your pressure. You have no source of income. He is willing to support you with his meager income, and he will leave you for your happiness. But hating this thing will fade for men in a few years.

You spend the most difficult time with him, graduate from work, and then face the pressure of life and work together with him. You will have stronger feelings, which is the source and motivation for you to grow old together. Your support and encouragement will also make him grow. As long as he is self-motivated and not too stupid, and he finds someone to rely on, your life will get better and better, but to do this, you need to be great. If you can't do it, choose the first one.

I spent so long coding here because you remind me of her. What would happen if we were still together? ....

My experience and suggestions, I hope to help you out of the predicament.

I'm glad to hear that your boyfriend still has so many advantages. I support your decision.

If it's delivered by express, it's hard and you can't make money. Since he is studying interior decoration design, let him stick to it. This industry is still very promising. What choice to make is up to him. You just need to support him. Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business and choosing the wrong one. It may be a lifetime thing. We can consider it in the short term.