Reflections on divorce

After reading a masterpiece, you must have a lot to share. You might as well sit down and write down your feelings after reading it. How to write a review and avoid writing a "running account"? The following are my thoughts on divorce carefully arranged for reference only, hoping to help everyone.

Reflection on Divorce 1 I finally finished watching Divorce last night! What can I say? I still feel a little emotional in my heart! As these feelings slowly spread, I can't help thinking of many, many, perhaps because I saw my own shadow in it!

Lao Li inside is the source of my feelings! A learned man, who doesn't like secular life and disdains it, has to walk into the devil's yamen because of various obstacles! Responsibility? Moral constraints? Maybe that's it. Let him tolerate everything, show a man's seemingly resolute side, and bear everything-even extreme disappointment! But perhaps it was the "poetry" in the East Room that helped him bear all this! When Aunt Ma in the East Room appeared, he seemed to be freed instantly, and his body and mind bound by society were also free! All that's left is my heartbeat and my unrequited love for myself without courage! At this moment, he will feel that life may have a little meaning, a little "poetic"! But men are often behind the strong, but also seem so fragile! Everything is actually because of a little misty "poem"! Finally, Aunt Ma's husband came back, and the possibility that Lao Li continued to fantasize was shattered. That "poetry" suddenly vanished ... "Poetry" stopped, and Lao Li completely gave up Beiping and returned to that picturesque country!

After reading it, I can't help feeling that men are really sad sometimes, because their fate-once they fall into the whirlpool of feelings-is in the hands of a woman! Not sad? But I am convinced that the authorities will not think so! They are often willing to do so! Being so "stupid" for feelings once, let yourself get caught up in it, maybe just like a song-"Let me bear all the sins alone"! Yes, I believe that male compatriots will also have such lofty sentiments! Once they are willing to break free-yes, as long as they are willing, they can-they will gallop freely on the vast plains like a runaway wild horse! Otherwise, why did Zhang Dage say at the end of the article: "He will come back!" Of course, who knows how long this period will be? Men can be stubborn sometimes!

Of course, the above is purely a personal one-sided understanding of a certain part! Perhaps it is a misinterpretation of Mr. Lao She's original intention. I believe that Zhang Dage wrote that sentence: He will come back again! I certainly don't understand. It should be a deeper reason from society! But I am willing to understand! Understand it as an iron man who struggled out of the emotional whirlpool and continued his journey of expanding the territory! I hope he won't struggle for too long!

I read an article about divorce. I read an article "Don't marry a man who divorced you" the other day. After reading it, I felt very touched. I wrote down my own views and ideas and shared them with my friends.

Everything in the world has its own form, and everything has different forms. So is love and hate. There is no absolute right or wrong. What should you do when you meet a married man you fall in love with or he falls in love with? I think that none of the men and women in Zeng Qing's happy and romantic love will easily walk out of that sweet love threshold. However, in order to look so happy and romantic in China for the time being, haven't you quietly thought about spending the rest of your life with this man who loves you, hurts you, cares about you? Yes, I believe that most women will have this idea. But the fact has to stop a happy woman from moving forward. Even if a few bold women try to take a step forward occasionally and live with the man who loves you deeply, she realizes that it is not the happiest, and only she knows the bitterness.

First of all, if you marry the man who divorced you, you may have to face the situation that your lover and his ex-wife become positive. You can strictly ask your husband not to be intimate with his ex-wife, but you can't deny that his ex-wife is the mother of the child. They will always have a bond. What right do you have to interfere with him? No matter whether the child meets his ex-wife, you should be ready for this, so you have to put up with his acid when he meets his ex-wife.

Become a regular lover and in-laws-For the first daughter-in-law married by the legal media, the in-laws are naturally regarded as one of their own, and they are half daughters. Your involvement in their marriage hurts not only the woman, but also other family members who have feelings for her. What you can do is please, please again. Don't expect them to accept you so soon, but how much you have to pay to make them look at you.

Become a regular lover and child-maybe you think you are an experienced, knowledgeable, rich, elegant, beautiful and generous woman, so he loves you so much that he abandons his ex-wife with long hair and doesn't know how to dress up, and there are not many cultures that don't know how to be gentle and considerate. It is noble for you to be his stepmother. You have made great sacrifices and are willing to play the role of stepmother. However, in the eyes of your husband's children, you are a vicious woman who stole his mother. You never dare to look your child in the eye, because the child's eyes can be like a sword shining with cold light, which will make you shudder. Then you have only one hope in this life, and that is to try to get a friendly situation. Don't expect your children to love you as much as your own mother.

You are not only facing your family, but also your relatives and friends. What will they think of you? Have you ever thought about women?

If emotional things can be compared, then your current husband can give up his ex-wife for you, or he may give up you for a younger, more beautiful, nobler and more elegant woman than you. I think men always give up what they get, but you still think you are the only one for him. When you have experienced the dual identity of lover and wife, do you feel that being a lover is also so happy and sweet? When you are a lover, you must taste the food first, and the food must be given to you first and left to him to send away. So whatever you do, don't be greedy and don't force anything. Now you should learn to enjoy the happiness he gives you, and don't lose yourself for an eternal happiness.

Warning all lovers who want to become full-time workers, enjoy the happiness you have now, which is millions of times stronger than living in pain, cherish what you have now, don't force anything, don't expect anything, because you love a man with a family.

Reflection on Divorce 3 Only the perfect combination of sex and emotion is the greatest happiness in life.

Sending affection stops at reason. No one can predict the future. When you decide to leave, let the heartbreaking sound break the silence of the night, turn into a meteor and disappear in the starry sky. Maybe one day, the sealed past will write down memories.

You have your life, I have my space, and we can't be together, but I'm still looking forward to being friends and having tea and chatting together occasionally. ......

Shuang Ling Aoxue 1 Comments:

When love really becomes a thing of the past, people will doubt whether they really loved each other. There is no reason for the beginning of love, but there are thousands of reasons for the end. Often a love that has ended is the reason for breaking up, how ridiculous, how far-fetched and helpless. When love is a thing of the past, thoughts are old and memories are painful. Why? Why? Why? At the beginning of love and after love, there are two situations, one is extremely happy and the other is heartbreak. Why in the first place? Why go through this process? Say regret? It's too late to regret. Do you hate it? What's the use of hate? Promise? Where did it come from and where did it go? Complain The resentment disappeared ... it was a good beginning, but the ending was so unsatisfactory. ...

Shuang Ling Aoxue's comments 2:

Meeting is accidental, getting along is sincere, how can we see the rainbow without the baptism of wind and rain? How can we see the shallows without the scouring of the ocean? Sometimes you really need to calm down to remember the most beautiful things. In this age of material and money, sincerity seems so pale and powerless. In the world of money and self-interest, love has become so vulnerable. What is the essence? Then I'll tell you, from selfishness to self-interest, people are self-centered.

Shuang Ling Aoxue's comment 3:

A letter to my best friend "Wild Grass in the Deep Mountain"

Some things won't belong to you no matter how much you like them, and some things are doomed to give up if you miss them again. There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love be a kind of harm.

Some destinies are doomed to be lost, and some destinies will never have a good result. You don't have to be loved, but if you have someone, you must love him well.

If sincerity is a kind of harm, you choose lies; If a lie is a kind of harm, you choose silence; If silence is a kind of injury, you are right to choose to leave.

If the loss is bitter, are you afraid to pay? If confusion is bitter, do you choose to end it easily? If the pursuit is bitter, will you choose stubbornness?

This article is Cher's feelings after reading the netizen "Wild Grass in the Deep Mountains" ... It is published here to let people trapped in the besieged city learn to cherish it. If you don't love someone, please let go and let others have a chance to love him. If the person you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself so that you can have a chance to love others. Some things won't belong to you no matter how much you like them, and some things are doomed to give up if you miss them again. There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love be a kind of harm. The articles you read the most from friends' space are all sad and worried articles. Comments about love are always in my mind, some destinies are doomed to be lost, and some destinies will never have a good result. You don't have to love someone, but if you have someone, you must love her.

Reflection on divorce 4 Small clerk Lao Li is ambitious in the triviality of life and takes over the family? Offend colleagues? The feeling of pursuing freedom and poetry? I don't like my wife and myself at the same time. I hate the work of muddling along and working to make a living.

Watching colleagues and neighbors divorce one by one, they survived, survived, compromised, got stuck in life, got used to it, and finally chose not to leave. Lao Li finally resigned and returned to his hometown, which may be a kind of discounted resistance and an escape from life in Beiping. Brother Zhang, be a matchmaker. When he finds a pockmarked girl under the microscope, he will immediately find a man in the crowd, who is a little stuttering or nearsighted. In Libra, pockmarked and myopia just cancel each other out, which is a beautiful marriage. ) helpful, smooth and popular, there are too many matchmakers to teach children. After the child's accident, everything was mixed up, only one sincere Lao Li. It seems that it is a true proposition that the tree falls apart, and everyone else hangs high. There are many people who are secretly happy like Xiao Zhao, and they die when they feel the truth.

Women are born to be sacrificed. Old-fashioned, uneducated Mrs. Li takes care of her husband and children at home; Since Mrs. Qiu holds knowledge, it doesn't matter if she gets divorced; Pang dun divorced because of his husband's concubinage; Matthew and her husband, who are in free love, eloped with another woman and did not divorce. Maybe a woman's face will gradually become dull with age. It's always good to have a home!

Divorce is a typical and natural performance of characters' stories in our daily life. If you want to be happy in a dull and boring life, forget it. Just keep it simple. If you want to live an adventurous and poetic life, you must know how to give it up and get it, and take immediate action for it.

Reflections on divorce. Love deeply, not lightly.

Before and after Divorce is about love with Xia. They love each other deeply. When love has not yet arrived, we often have such a question, are we looking for someone we love or love ourselves? Many people's answer, of course, is love. But in love, there are always times when you think you love him more or he loves you more. If there is only a touch of love, it seems that you don't have to care so much, just stay together and simply separate. But if we love each other deeply, we must make sure that the people we love love also love ourselves. Light love always makes people feel that there is an empty place in their hearts, while deep love makes us feel full and satisfied.

Everyone has a different view of love, and no one is right or wrong. But I still don't like faint, I want to love deeply, and I want to hold hands for a lifetime. Till death do us part. Life is hard, just Yan's dream. Walking up and down the corridor, it's dark everywhere. Sometimes I feel that I have swallowed my teeth before I can continue my life. Some people say that love is the spice of life, while others regard love as a shelter from the wind. But these are not the reasons why we refuse to grow up. Two mature talents are more able to withstand the wind and rain. Love can't save us from the misery of life, but it makes us face the misfortune of life more bravely. Because love gives us a home and a support.

Love can make us accept some truths of life frankly. Su Yan's love made up for Xia Yeting's lack of affection and accepted the fact that his mother didn't love him. Whether it is love or affection, as long as you know that someone in this world loves you selflessly, you will have the courage to accept other misfortunes. Love is not only to love others, but also to love yourself and truly accept your imperfect self.

Reflections on divorce 6 First of all, this story should be about making life artistic. The so-called art comes from life and is higher than the annotation of life. The characters are vividly portrayed, each with its own characteristics and vivid language. The story is ups and downs, which is very interesting.

Xiao-LAM Raymond, in fact, I have this person around me. Her paranoia and hysteria are all due to her love for Song. And her love, occupied the majority. Besides, she forgot herself. Still my old saying, she made the mistake that a woman usually makes in love and marriage, and regarded the other person as her whole sky.

Actually, I can quite understand this character. (I once had some thoughts about her, and I once had the urge to kill LG. Xixi later discovered that many women have this idea. ) She just loves her too much. In fact, loving someone doesn't have to give each other space, but you need to keep growing.

In this world, love between men and women is actually the most utilitarian emotion. The giver always hopes that the receiver can get something in return, but there is no word "fairness" in love. Therefore, there is a saying in Guangdong: "The salted fish you eat is thirsty." It means that if you choose everything yourself, you will be responsible for the consequences. Don't blame anyone, and don't blame anyone.

If something goes wrong, look for the reason from yourself. Otherwise, even if you divorce n times, you will get married n times. This problem still cannot be solved.

In my opinion, Jianping Song is actually a good man. If I were, I would be satisfied:) In fact, Xiaofeng's work, Song himself has to bear some responsibility. Xiaofeng is actually the kind of heartless person. Husband and wife should have healthy communication. Communication is one of the best ways to open your heart to each other.

Coulee: Actually, I admire her, although she is a little calculating. In fact, this society is like this. People will not sympathize with you because you are weak, but they will become strong. Although: "at night, sleeping in a big bed of 1.8 meters, she will still feel desolate."

But she can still bring glory to her only daughter's father and warmth to her mother. Not many women can do both. What moved me most was her singing "Only You". The scene of putting my daughter who was bullied by children to sleep really moved me. Gu Li should be the kind of woman who can understand the world after being injured.

I think China people pay attention to familiarity and informality. A common mistake made by both men and women after marriage is once and for all. After a few years, men will complain that women have gradually become nagging mothers, and women will blame men for not caring about her more and more. In fact, caring about yourself is the greatest concern for each other.

Moreover, being born in sorrow and dying in happiness actually applies to feelings and marriage. The most common mistake made by both men and women is to turn a blind eye to each other's efforts and take it for granted. In fact, everyone likes to listen to sweet words. Think about it. When we go out, we face customers, leaders, colleagues, bosses and subordinates, because our future, work and destiny are still polite.

But what about the other half of the family? Most men work hard to feed and dress the whole family, while most women have children and do housework. Do you deserve more praise and thanks?

Of course, family is a relaxing harbor, but I still feel that we should relax and persevere. Premier Zhou said, "It is never too old to learn." Marriage should also be like this. Learn how to love someone, so that you can love and be loved. For the sake of family happiness, stability and unity, I hope everyone will not suffer from "love incompetence."

Reflections on Divorce 7 Divorce is a novel by Lao She, and the protagonist of the novel is Lao Li. This work tells the story that Lao Li had to bring his wife and children from the countryside in order to look after the children. Because Lao Li never gets along with his wife, and because he hates the dark society, he finally went to the countryside with Mr. Ding.

This novel is an extremely ordinary novel, and the stories in it abound in that old society. It is precisely because it is ubiquitous and symbolizes the thoughts of people of an era that Lao She wrote this novel with great humor and irony.

There are three parts that attract me most in the article: the first part is that Zhang Dage's son was arrested; The second place is the plot of Mr. Ding killing Xiao Zhao; The third place is what Zhang Ge said at last.

After Zhang Dage's son was taken away by the producer, everyone who made good friends with Zhang Dage was alienated from him. Except Lao Li and Mr. Ding, no one sympathized with and helped Zhang Dage. When Zhang Dage was sad, there were still many people who came to Zhang Dage for family chores. During the time when his son was arrested, Zhang Ge stayed at home and didn't see anyone. From this, we can get some inside information: apart from satirizing him and denying him, there are a large number of people who only care about themselves and ignore others-asking Zhang Ge to pull the red line and deal with family chores. These people are more contemptible than those who satirize Zhang Dage. They can't see the pain of others, but they value their own interests more than anything else. Their conscience can be said to be feeding the dog! After Zhang Dage's son was released, his home was full of vitality. All kinds of people came to visit his house, the cynic disappeared, and the ugly face of human nature was once again exposed.

Master Ding lied and told Xiao Zhao that Zhang Xiuzhen was waiting for him in Houhai. After Xiao Zhao went to the meeting, Ding took the opportunity to kill Xiao Zhao. I have some doubts in my heart: why did Master Ding kill it so easily? When Master Ding pinched Xiao Zhao, why didn't he resist? According to my guess, there are two meanings in the article: the first tells us that the power of the wicked is not as strong as it seems, and it is possible that the terror of the wicked will collapse when the wind blows. In real life, we see that when bullies bully others, we dare not lend a helping hand, because we are scared by the appearance of the wicked, and our hearts have already retreated before we take a step, and the dark image of the wicked is quietly lurking in our hearts. The second guess is that because Xiao Zhao didn't resist at all, a person immersed in the world of love suddenly found that the person he loved had been calculating himself, and the image of falling into hell and despair was quietly produced.

Third place is the most important one. Lao Li resigned and Mr. Ding went to the countryside. Finally, brother Zhang said this sentence: "Mr. Ding is a waste, but it's a pity that Lao Li. But Lao Li will be back soon. Just watch, can he forget Peiping? " From this sentence, I read out the dark side of human nature in the dark society, and also read out that kind and selfless people in the dark society always hide behind the darkness, and only through the darkness can they see the light. Brother Zhang's words are not sympathy for Lao Li, but pity for Lao Li's official position. Lao Li and Mr. Ding are both good-hearted people. No one knows what they did. When Lao Li does good deeds, others regard him as an alien with ulterior motives. Mr. Ding's good deeds are completely unknown. All he wants is that others can live well. Although he is just a useless person in society, his image has grown since he decided to fight Xiao Zhao.

This book focuses on the darkness of the old society. In fact, through the darkness, the light is just around the corner. There is no loss of humanity in dark society. What we see is only a superficial layer, not ordinary. Good people are unknown, dark people are bluffing, and naturally dark things will attract attention. We also believe that besides darkness, there is darkness in society.

I didn't react until I saw Lao She's Divorce. Although it was called divorce, no one left in the end. This is really an irony. It is with such humor, satire and critical realism that Lao She wrote this Divorce. "Divorce" is about a little guy's marriage farce, a little guy's life tragedy, a sleek and sophisticated Lao Zhang couple, a secretive and calculating Lao Zhao, an old-fashioned wife of Lao Li who doesn't understand family ties, an old grandson who likes to put on airs in Mandarin, Mr. Ding who is talented and unable to support others, a beautiful living widow next door, grandma Ma, Lao Li's dream lover and gossiping wives. The protagonist Lao Li is living a helpless life in such a crowd.

The story begins with Lao Li wanting a divorce. In order to support his family, Lao Li had to shoulder the responsibilities of husband and father. Every day, he goes in and out of the "big mouth that devours small bureaucrats"-yamen, participates in dinners and banquets with people who are intrigued, and is involved in various disputes between right and wrong. The clerks in the yamen do almost nothing. Every day, they come to talk about it. The days of gangsters have passed and they live like parasites, but Lao Li is the most respectful one. But even so, some people still don't let him go. Lao Zhao is such an extremely profitable person, and later he severely framed Lao Li. Lao Li hates this cannibal yamen, but he has to bite the bullet and go in every day. Finally, he couldn't stand it, and decided to go back to his hometown, showing his last struggle for a gray life. Emotionally, Lao Li pursues a poetic love, not a rigid and conservative person like his wife. When reading a poem to her, she can think about her trivia and completely don't understand her feelings. He yearned for free love, but sadly, he "dared not be romantic" but "wished to have a dream" ... and finally surrendered to "compromise". He felt aggrieved that his wife had no feelings but could not divorce, and found that his favorite "poetess" dared not pursue boldly, but was helpless against the unreasonable feudal system. Lao Li has intellectual thinking throughout the whole article, but he still gradually changed from an idealist to an ordinary citizen, which sadly expanded the ranks of ordinary citizens. Treating my friend Zhang Dage has gradually developed from disdain to friendship, which can be said to be gradually "assimilated" by Zhang Dage, resulting in "mutual appreciation". Zhang Dage is such a sophisticated and formalistic person. Even he has lost himself because of "assimilating" him, which makes him realize that he is a cowardly and perfunctory ghost of hell.

Zhang Dage is a sleek, sophisticated and helpful old-school citizen. His life creed is matchmaking and opposing divorce, because divorce means destroying the existing order. His tactfulness in dealing with people enables him to deal with many people, but these people are not his real friends, just the existence of interests, and no one will help him when he really encounters difficulties. At the same time, it also encourages the evil spirits of Lao Zhao and makes the society darker. But he is a good father, and he has lost his vitality because he is worried about his son.

Lao Zhao is a treacherous villain, who murders others by despicable means by virtue of his special relationship with the director's wife. He not only gained benefits by flirting with women, but also occupied Zhang Dage's house and daughter, and was finally killed by Chivalrous Fourth Master Ding. Fourth Master Ding's chivalrous behavior of getting rid of violence and being calm has entrusted the author's ideal. However, bullies also meet love. Facing the innocent Xiuzhen, he felt tempted and could not treat Xiuzhen as a commodity, which made me see his humanity.

The formation of Lao She's unique humorous tone in Divorce marks the maturity of Lao She's artistic personality, which is a kind of humor with tears in laughter, and at the same time, the book also embodies a strong Beijing flavor.

After reading Divorce, the novel Divorce marks the maturity of Lao She's humorous style. When I read it, I almost finished it in one breath. In Divorce, I can strongly feel the maturity and delicacy of Lao She's words. The novel begins with a detailed description of the character Zhang Dage. I don't like this role very much. Zhang Dage, male, just likes to be the matchmaker of others, loves to treat guests, and especially cares about other people's affairs. This "meddlesome" does not reflect how excellent and brave he is. When others really have difficulties and want something from him, but they also have troubles, his meanness and hypocrisy are undoubtedly displayed in front of us. Lao She's thoughts after reading Divorce.

Brother Zhang, who is a matchmaker, just wants to show his "grace". What a successful matchmaker he thinks he is. Unmarried people will ask him. People who get married through his matchmaker should thank him, especially with a sense of accomplishment. Zhang Dage pursues a balanced life, whether it is matchmaking or communication, and all this must be based on feudal ethics. He matched a nearsighted man with a pockmarked woman, which was perfect. Anyway, nearsighted people can't see clearly. He loves others not because of his generosity. Just to perfunctory interpersonal relationships. When he really wanted friends in these scenes, he found that none of them could be relied on. He likes to do superficial kung fu in front of others, and they will certainly not treat him sincerely.

Lao Li is the central figure in this novel. The development of the novel is based on Lao Li's desire for divorce. Lao Li doesn't want to be imprisoned by a marriage arranged by his family. He wants a divorce, but he doesn't have the courage to achieve it. People like Zhang Dage can't tolerate other people's divorce. Lao Li's wife is really a good person and may not be willing to marry Lao Li. But now that she is married to Lao Li, if Lao Li divorces her, she can only be dead, and Lao Li and his wife can't talk about who is right or wrong. The reason why I want to divorce but I can't is this cannibalism system. In the novel, we can see that the conflict between Lao Li and the people in the yamen is completely out of place. Although Lao Li has many shortcomings, compared with the people in the yamen, he is a completely positive figure. People think that Lao Li is decent as a clerk in yamen, but he doesn't like his colleagues. He and they are completely from two different worlds. Lao Li is from the countryside. He has never been in this environment before, so his anti-corrosion ability has become very strong. His colleagues are lazy, accomplished and morally bankrupt, but anyone with this quality can be a clerk in the yamen. If the yamen are all such officials, is there any hope for China? Lao She obviously holds a negative view. Lao Li doesn't want to be corroded and assimilated by these people, so he can only leave a place like Yamen.

Zhao Youliang is the representative of the slave stage. Slaves in China pretend to be loyal to their masters, as if they are willing to be slaves, but they are extremely sinister behind their backs. He used the arrest of Zhang Dage's son to blackmail Zhang Dage and Lao Li, hoping to bring Lao Li down, and he also liked to tease others and watch their jokes. Wearing a suit makes you feel more decent and human. Wearing a vest can cover up the nature of vicious "slaves"

Lao She deeply analyzed a series of problems existing in society and yamen in Divorce, which is a very good literary work.