Invite you to dinner another day

"Have you eaten?"

"Let's get together next time."

"Invite you to dinner another day."

……

Most people have a clear head. We meet with others, and others meet with us. It's just a polite remark, not very serious. Nobody cares whether you eat or not, what you eat; The opportunity to get together is still to be found, and it is estimated that it will not be found; Inviting you to dinner another day means that you will hardly be invited.

People who talk just talk, people who listen just listen, and the clouds are light and the wind is light.

However, if you meet a cautious and serious person, you don't have to talk about it. If you don't really care whether he (she) has eaten or not, you don't really want to get together and invite him (her) to eat.

Because, he (she) will really. For example, "invite you to dinner another day", he (she) will think: another day? Change the date Why do you want to reschedule? What day was it originally? When will you invite me? ……

If you don't put the plan of "another day" into practice as soon as possible, he or she will think you are insincere, vain and unworthy.

Of course, if you really invite him (her) to dinner, he (she) will feel indebted to you and will definitely find an opportunity to pay it back. He (she) will tell you seriously: "I'll treat you next time."

If he (she) says "next time", it must be once, otherwise, he (she) will feel uneasy. Make fun if you want to comfort each other:

"Never mind, I'll come to see you next time and invite me to dinner!"

The other party will take it seriously: "When will you come to see me? There seems to be nothing particularly famous and delicious near my home. I'm going to ask around. I heard that there is a ... "

"Oh, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what you eat. I'm just saying. "

How can you just say it?

Such people are generally grateful. You treat him (her) well, and he (she) always wants to return. For example, if you do each other a small favor, you think it's a piece of cake and you don't care. But the other party will regard it as a big event, will do everything possible to thank you, send you gifts again and again to express their gratitude, and finally you will owe someone a favor.

When you tell him (her): "People gave me delicious food, which was delicious. I'll bring it to you at night. "

The other person replies to you for the first time: "Sorry, I didn't bring you anything today."

I am ... dizzy.

Dealing with serious people can't be casual and can't be casual. You will be very entangled and don't know when to be casual and when not to be casual. It is difficult to be a man, which probably includes this situation.

(Take photos during lunch break)