Psychological counseling of Zhang Quan's family in East Shi Cun, Chengguan Town

Venue: Zhang Quancheng, Group 1, East Shi Cun, Chengguan Town

Guest members: Zhao Guoben, Ma Yu, Li and Li Jie.

Basic situation: Zhang Quan, the head of the household, has suffered from cerebral infarction for more than two years, and he has problems with his lumbar spine and cannot do heavy work; His wife Zhang Jingzhi was severely depressed; My son Zhang Shichao is about 30 years old. More than ten years ago, he was hit in the brain by a bluestone brick in a drinking dispute, resulting in a first-degree disability of his limbs. He can't talk, he can't see, and he has been paralyzed in bed for more than ten years. He can't find the perpetrator, and he can't be held accountable. He spent hundreds of thousands of dollars himself. Daughter married to Xinzheng when she was an adult.

When I visited Zhang Shichao's room, I was shocked by the piles of medicine boxes on the table!

Consultation process: Zhang Quanchao said: a family of three needs a lot of drugs to maintain, but they have to take care of people who can't take care of themselves at all, so they don't have time to deal with chronic diseases to reduce the burden of drug expenditure. Yang Zhimin, a newly appointed political commissar for villagers, immediately expressed his willingness to help him apply for and handle this matter.

At this time, Zhang Quancheng's wife, Zhang Jingzhi, came back from the outside and said emotionally, "I went to Science Avenue and killed the car. I don't want to live. He ignored me and let * * take me away ... I want to die ... "Zhang Quancheng quickly stopped her:" Stop it, don't be afraid of jokes, shut up! " A nearby villager also stopped her: "Don't say this, what's the use of saying this?" Don't talk. "

Upon seeing this, Li Jie hurried forward to talk to Zhang Jingzhi, and Zhao Guoben took the opportunity to invite Zhang Quancheng to speak outside the yard.

Li Jie: Are you angry now?

Christine: Yes, I'm so angry!

Li Jie: When you watch my fingers move, will you say something that is very atmospheric in your mind? (eye movement desensitization therapy)

Christine: I'm unhappy all day. They all ignored me. I feel isolated. He ignored me. The villagers also ignored me. I don't even have a speaker! If a few people talk to me, I feel bored. I can be irritable and angry all day!

Li Jie: You are looking forward to someone to talk to you about home-cooked things. Will you feel better? When did your situation begin? How long did it last? Tell her how she feels and ask when and why the situation happened.

Christine: From 20 18, I thought it was menopause, but now the doctor says it's mental illness! I have been thinking all day, my son is like this, who will support the elderly in the future? It's no use raising a daughter to marry so far! She will take care of her family in the future and will not care about me! It hurts to think about it. I went to my daughter's house and saw that my son-in-law was kind to his mother, and I was distressed. I just hope my daughter's son-in-law will only be kind to me. One day, I was very angry and wanted to go out for a walk, so I suddenly wanted to run away from home and find a hotel to stay. My daughter called me, and I said I wouldn't go back, and I wouldn't let you pick me up without telling me where to go. ...

Li Jie: Since I have said so much, I have listened carefully. I know you're worried about your future. How are you feeling? Listen carefully and empathize with her, so that she can feel respect and care. )

Christine: I feel much more comfortable now.

Li Jie: May I have a word with you? First, in your family's situation, the country has not forgotten you, and the village has actively helped you apply for all kinds of help. In the future, when you are old and have no son's pension, the state will still take care of you, don't worry; Second, you have a son to take care of, and your son needs the care of his mother; Third, look on the bright side and try to control your emotions, so that your husband will change and your family will get better slowly. What did you say?/Sorry? Reduce her anxiety, enhance her sense of responsibility and give suggestions for improvement.

Christine: Well, I want to be fine, but sometimes I can't help myself.

Li Jie: There are still things behind. I have to go. I want you to hug me before I go. Ask her for a hug, make her pay, and enhance her sense of efficacy.

Christine generously put his arms around me. And send us all away with a smile.