Husband and wife life after the wife resists cheating (what is the husband and wife life after cheating)

People's desires are endless. For some people, marriage is just a piece of wedding paper, and there is no need to bear the constraints it brings. In the range that morality does not allow, some people will keep exploring on the edge and make cross-border behaviors, such as cheating. The impact of infidelity on marriage can be described as a fatal blow. Therefore, the reason why people choose to get married is the constraint brought by that marriage document.

People who like to play are never bound. In our nature, even after marriage, we can't stop them from playing. The difference between people and animals is that they can restrain their desires and distinguish between good and bad, but there are always people who can't help themselves and cross the moral boundary.

The wedding vows say, "I am willing to marry you xxx as my husband. I know in my heart that you will be my lifelong friend, companion and the only true love. On this special day, before God, I tell you my promise. I promise to be your wife forever, by your side, whether in good times or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, happy or sad. I promise that I will love you unreservedly, be proud of you, respect you, try my best to meet your needs, protect you in difficulties, comfort you in sadness, and accompany you to grow up physically and mentally. I promise to be loyal to you forever and cherish you forever. " It is not difficult to keep only one person in your life, but it is difficult to have only one person in your heart.

Loyalty is the bottom line of love. If you cross this bottom line, love becomes disgusting.

Just as men always like eighteen-year-old girls, women always like eighteen-year-old teenagers

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A 40-year-old woman confessed her feelings about married life after cheating: she enjoyed it and was afraid.

40-year-old Xingyue: I enjoy it and I am afraid.

"To tell the truth, it is really difficult. I can't control my desire, but I really don't care. I enjoy the joy of cheating and feel guilty about my husband. I enjoyed it, but I was also scared. " Xingyue said.

In fact, in marriage, many men and women have crossed the line. Not only men like 18-year-old girls, but sometimes 18-year-old teenagers also fascinate women.

Xingyue is like this, because she has enough economic conditions. Therefore, on the premise of getting married, she also wants Elva Hsiao's happiness-to find a boy of 18 years old as the object of cheating.

In fact, eighteen or forty years old is nothing unusual. It's just that the moon and the stars violate the bottom line of morality and marriage.

With the growth of men's age, their physical function will also decline, and some couples will begin to feel overwhelmed in life. However, women's 40 years old just need it, which makes their lives very disharmonious.

"At first, I was very scared. At the first time, I hesitated, but after repeated hesitation, I crossed the line, so I went back to be doubly good to my husband. But over time, I got used to this relationship, and the frequency became more and more frequent. I am very afraid that my husband will find out. After all, husband and wife have been married for so many years, and their children have grown up. If it is found out, the consequences will be unimaginable. " Xingyue said.

People are always like this, enjoying the joy of cheating, but also afraid of the consequences of cheating.

Eighteen is the best age, and the body of a teenager is also at its peak.

Every time Xingyue comes back with an derailed object, it is inevitable to live a husband-and-wife life with her husband. At this time, compared with the two, the gap came out. So the moon and stars are even more unscrupulous. But during the process, I got scared and gave up this happiness.

Many people don't believe that in the process of derailment, the derailed person is also very tormented. On the one hand, I really can't refuse the enjoyment brought by cheating, on the other hand, I feel very guilty about my partner. Lovers have been dependent and warm on their own hobbies, but there is no way to continue after all. After the passion, the impact of reason is hard to prevent.

But even if there is any reason for cheating, it is unforgivable. Probably because of this, Xingyue was scared. She admits that she enjoys this pleasure, but she can't afford the consequences of cheating. I want to break up with my lover, but I am still attached to his arms. I am suffering and want to end it, but I can't bear to part with it.

"If this continues, it will definitely be discovered." Xingyue said.

Yes, paper can't wrap fire. Maybe when the moon and stars are really discovered, she can really give up. For her, this is a relief.

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People are contradictory. On the one hand, they enjoy the satisfaction of cheating, on the other hand, they don't want to bear the consequences of cheating. The temptation of the outside world can't be resisted, making women deeper and deeper and unable to turn back. The happiness brought by cheating has subtly changed women's three views. I told myself in my heart that I cheated because of other people's reasons, thus comforting myself. Therefore, most women will buckle the pot on the man's head after cheating, leaving him speechless. This is a woman's excuse, and it would be foolish for a man to believe it.

Nothing can be an excuse for cheating, and no matter what shortcomings your spouse has, it can't be a reason for cheating. If a marriage has made you feel painful, you can choose to separate instead of cheating as an excuse. It is morally bankrupt to cling to the warmth of family and not resist the temptation of the outside world. People are human because they have thoughts and know how to resolve their desires.

In the article, the moon and the stars are not derailed by the life of husband and wife. In fact, in this long time, no one's marriage life is perfect, and most people are enduring it. If you feel that husband and wife's life is not harmonious, you might as well add a little interest to your original life to make it less boring between husband and wife.

You can't have both, just like the peace of marriage and the temptation of the outside world, you can't have everything. Since you have chosen to enter marriage, you must endure the constraints brought by marriage and abide by the bottom line of marriage. If you do something wrong, you will pay the corresponding price. I believe that the stars and moons in the article will do the same. On the premise of resisting temptation, moral sanctions will come sooner or later.

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