Only when you are old will you realize: your wife is still better than your original wife

Recently, I saw a very funny video: "It doesn't matter if I don't have money. At least I have a wife. Even though I look like a bear, it's better than being single." The catchy melody is exaggerated. The expression, coupled with the resentful expression of the wife next to me, made me unable to help but repeat the cycle several times.

However, one time after I had an argument with my wife, I watched this video again. Something seemed to be touched in my heart, and I suddenly felt that it was great to have a wife. Although she often nags me, I think about what she has done for this. Family contribution: giving birth to children, doing housework, cooking, and making more money than me. One person can do so much without complaining. What else am I not satisfied with? I still make my wife angry, and I feel like I am not a man. , I didn’t pamper my wife well.

When you have a wife, you should pamper her and treat her well, just like what was said at the wedding: no matter poor or rich, no matter good or bad, good or bad, sick or healthy, love her and cherish her , until death.

Treat your first wife well. In this world, the only one who can stay with you forever is your first wife.

1. Accompany you till old age, sharing the joys and sorrows

A married man fell in love with a widow. After an affair, he saw that his socks were torn. Wanting the widow to replenish it, the widow threw it away and said disgustingly: It stinks so bad, I won’t replenish it. The man couldn’t help but said a few more words, and the two of them started to quarrel. At this time, the man suddenly remembered My wife, no matter how smelly she is, will wash and replenish herself without any complaints.

So, after the man experienced this incident, he changed his ways and lived wholeheartedly with his wife until he grew old.

One of the purposes of our marriage is to find someone who will support us until we grow old. We will struggle together when we are young and experience the ups and downs of life. When we are old, we will work together to recall the past and take care of each other.

Lover, can the mistress do it? They can only share joys and sorrows with you, and will not tolerate hardships. Once they encounter difficulties, they will abandon you first.

There was a couple who were very poor at first. However, the man was smart and started doing small business, and gradually became bigger and bigger. The woman had a good character and worked hard without complaining. Within a few years, the family situation improved. Get better, have a car, a house, have savings, a rich man has an affair, and is focused on his lover. Before the divorce, the property is transferred to the lover, the children are given to the woman, and no living expenses are paid. The original wife can be said to have left the house.

Retribution may be late, but it is never absent. The man was diagnosed with cancer, which was still in the advanced stage. After his lover took care of him for a period of time, he defrauded all the money and there was no news. The man finally died alone and helpless. Yizhong died.

Everyone in the world is interested in profit. If a lover can fall in love with you, he must have a purpose. If you have no money, will he fall in love with you? If you have money, he will be with you. If you have no money, he will be with you. , I will definitely find someone rich again.

However, the original spouse is different. Even if you have no money or even owe money, the original spouse will accompany you through the difficulties.

Only your first wife will be of the same mind as you. On the road of life, please cherish the people you see the scenery with. Maybe you will wave goodbye at the next corner. Cherish your first wife, love her wholeheartedly, cherish her, protect her, and protect her from wind and rain.

2. Guarantee of family prosperity

As the saying goes: if the family is harmonious, everything will be prosperous, if the family is harmonious and the husband and wife work together, the family will become more and more prosperous.

There was a couple who had a good family. The husband was in business and the wife was looking after the children at home. Once, the husband was defrauded of a sum of money by a friend who was a business partner. Not only was the family’s entire savings, Part of the repayment was borrowed, and the couple had a big quarrel because of it. The next day, they gave the child to their parents, and the wife went out to work with her husband. They paid off the foreign debt in less than two years, and then the two of them started to live together again. I am still living my old career, and now I am living a turbulent life.

When a wife encounters difficulties with her husband, she does not abandon him, but faces the difficulties with him, and good days will eventually come.

A successful man must have a woman silently supporting him behind him. Once this support is missing, good luck will be further and further away from him.

A boss in the village divorced his wife because the original wife was very honest and didn't like to talk. Although she was hardworking and hardworking, the boss didn't like her, so he deceived his wife into fake divorce and found a widow who could speak well. The widow had a son, so she often secretly gave her son money. Once, when she needed funds urgently, her boss found out that there was not enough money in the card. It turned out that the widow secretly gave the money to her son to buy a house. From then on, the two people often quarreled, and the boss's business also deteriorated. It got worse and worse. Within a few years, the widow ran away. Finally, the boss gave up on himself and lived in drunkenness all day long.

Only the first wife can grow up with us. Lovers and mistresses will only bring short-term passion and excitement. This passion will not last long and will eventually cause your wife to be separated and your career to decline.

3. The best patron saint of children's growth

In a lifetime, the happiest thing should be to have your own children, because children are the continuation of our lives and the source of our feelings. Sustenance, let us learn to love and be loved.

We can give everything for our children.

In ancient times, there was a story about Meng’s mother moving three times. Nowadays, there are people who have gone bankrupt to buy a house in a school district, just so that their children can have a good education and grow up better.

In fact, a good family atmosphere is the best guarantee for the growth of children.

A good family atmosphere is inseparable from the company of parents, who accompany their children to grow together. When a child lacks companionship, he is prone to psychological problems. Common symptoms of lack of love are: sensitivity, suspicion, and bad temper.

Every year after the college entrance examination, there will be a wave of divorces. The reason is that early divorce will have a negative impact on the growth of children.

My investigation found that: in the class, many children who do not study well have divorced parents. Although some children have divorced parents and study well, they are very fragile and cannot be criticized. Even boys, once Crying when criticized is caused by a lack of family affection. Therefore, for the growth of the child, the couple must get along well. If this is not possible, at least maintain a close relationship in front of the child.

Some people may say: This is not good for the original wife, that is not good, but the two of you being together is a kind of fate, a marriage arranged by God. If the other party behaves in some way or Words make me very uncomfortable. Two people must communicate well. There is nothing that cannot be solved through communication.

Every love will go from passion to dullness. At the beginning, the excitement and infatuation were like electric shock, but gradually became gentle and calm, less impulsive, and began to realize the shortcomings of the people in the heart, and would also be irritated by the loss of freshness. As time goes by, love will turn into family affection. When you get older, you will find that you can't live without anyone.

It takes a hundred years to cross the same boat, and a thousand years to sleep on the same pillow. Please cherish this hard-won fate!