My friend is not particularly beautiful. Every time she sends her hair bands, she talks about me in private. She sent a circle to make me like it. How can I refuse?

Your friend likes to praise because on the one hand, it is a matter of personal cultivation or habit. I think many people may be mobile phone parties and may habitually click without thinking.

May also be a compliment is a response, is a response to others, out of courtesy, we always pay attention to reciprocity in China. When others praise us, we will respond to each other's praise. Maybe others give us a compliment, and we respond to others with more compliments. It doesn't mean anything, it doesn't mean that others care about you, but it doesn't mean that your relationship is very close.

From a psychological point of view, many people like praise because it is blind conformity and impetuous psychology.

Whether speaking, publishing articles or writing comments, people nowadays like their relatives and friends. Because it is very common now, the more you like, the better you write. Moreover, many people have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses, which will make others feel how good a person's popularity is.

Of course, praise is also the product of a social group and a praiseworthy act. Recently, I have two kinds of praise behaviors, one is the praise of my friends, and the other is the praise when I watch Tik Tok. The general circle of friends likes it, indicating that they have seen this news. If there is nothing related to them, they will not reply or just say that they have seen it. This is an act of friendship. Many people travel around the circle of friends, but they seldom like it. I think this kind of thing varies from person to person. Another compliment of Tik Tok, I think, is entirely out of love or encouragement. Because you watch for ten or twenty seconds, the photographer may have to shoot in front of the camera for a day and a half. I think it is important to praise and express encouragement. There are some things you really like, so it's understandable to praise them. I think from a psychological point of view, praise is also a manifestation of friendly social behavior. It also has a negative example, that is, a very small number of likes are also behaviors that brush the sense of existence.

Praise is an interactive way to make friends, which is why you bring a gift and people bring it back. Why do people give you lucky money when you give it to other people's children is because people can't accumulate that kind of affection without going through this process. Without this process, two people will not easily become friends. And in order to socialize more often in the future, they will do this.

So your friends like to praise, whether it is good or bad, as long as it is not excessive, it is not a big problem.