Why do my friends burn bridges by themselves and call me conceited? What does this mean? Am I not sincere to him?

There are many selfish people in this society. Women may be more selfish than men. This is because women are more family-oriented. They only have family in their hearts and have less heartfelt care for outsiders. This is also an advantage. So first of all, don’t think that this sister is too much, because whether it is too much or not It's all relative. There are many similar people in today's society.

Secondly, you should be more generous and think more about her benefits. Because no matter whether she is true to you or fake, after all, she has accompanied you for a while and has indeed given you a lot of care and warmth. You should be grateful. At least this is better than being indifferent to you from the beginning, right?

Thirdly, from our own perspective, we are kind to someone without asking for anything in return. She is good to you, and you are good to her. It is enough for everyone, and I think this is enough. So keep this good relationship going.

Fourth, just because she is not sincere to you does not mean that you can not be sincere to her. If I were you, I would still be sunny and open to her. This is mainly to avoid hurting yourself. . If you are magnanimous, who can hurt you? Secondly, it is also a kind of implicit and well-intentioned contempt and hint towards her: I am more magnanimous than you, I am sincere to you, I stand with you, and you are a head shorter than me in this aspect.

I don’t know if you are married or not. Put yourself in the shoes of a married woman. Life is not easy for a woman, so as I just said, many women appear selfish and hypocritical to outsiders because they love their families too much. This is normal. I know that people's personalities are different, and some people (like you) may not be like this even if they get married and have a family, but we shouldn't ask others like this, right?

If your answer is "I understand all this, but I'm just unhappy", then I don't have much more to say. Baidu is here to answer questions, and it may not be suitable for talking. hehe.

Supplement: At least if you talk about it here, you will feel better. Just talk.