If the mother-in-law and uncle don't deal with it, they still look down on their in-laws. What should they do as daughters?

Calm down and stay happy, even for the baby.

Just married for a few months, seems to have a common language.

Women have no age for love, but men are different. When they fall in love for the first time, they will show their love. Once they get married, they will be in a good mood and considerate of you. Then you will be extremely happy and transparent. Actually, it's all the same So do 90% of the men around me. I don't think anyone spoke first.

Let's put it this way: because of the different growth environment, people have different attitudes. Moreover, the economic base is different, and the concept of money is also very different. Some people have a casual attitude towards some things, but some people attach great importance to this issue, which no one can convince or influence.

Don't compare yourself with others. As the saying goes, people are more popular than others. Why go to the angry man for yourself? Besides, what if he has a capable uncle? He's still inferior to you in many ways, right?

After all, you and your husband grew up in their own environment for more than 20 years before you met, because of different family education environment and external pressure, and so on. For example, personality, outlook on life and so on were gradually established at that time. Think about it, you have only been together for a few years, and you have to run in for more than 20 years in so many aspects. Comparing a few years, which one do you think will win?

My dad always said that some people do things by coaxing, while others do things by coaxing. If he can't do it, try it by coaxing. For example, if he does a very small thing, you can praise him, so that he will prefer to show his weakness and take him slowly.

The same is true for parents-in-law. People have lived most of their lives. They can live as they please. Just be happy. Just be a good daughter-in-law. Isn't it said in "Good Wife's Time" that if you are good to his parents, you are good to your husband?

It's better not to make trouble in this kind of thing. Good people and in-laws hate being caught in the middle, that is, getting along with the mud here and there. Actually, it's not a trivial matter. If you live with your parents, there will be more things, whether it is the man's house or the woman's house. Because children who are not raised by themselves will definitely have opinions and can't fight like their own children, so their hearts will become more and more blind. You are caught in the middle. Now that you live in your mother's house, your mother and your husband are getting more and more distant. If you live in your mother-in-law's house, you and your mother-in-law will become more and more alienated. It would be much better if we lived together. There will be no demands or anything. Just have a happy baby. At that time, you will care about the baby and not care about him.

Just find yourself something to do, don't dwell on it. Just play tea ceremony, embroider a cross stitch, learn to knit a scarf or something, and spend some time in your mood.