Talk about being a happy pirate.

Life is your own, and living well or badly is your choice. If you accidentally get into the boat of life, be a happy pirate. As romain rolland said, there is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life after seeing the truth of life.

Each of us is a hero in our own life and has been working hard for everything we want. But life will not be smooth sailing, and it will always be unsatisfactory. At this time, our choice is crucial. Choose optimism, and life will become sweet; If you choose to face it negatively, life will always be unhappy.

Tagore said: The world kissed me and asked me to sing back.

That year, XXX's father was seriously ill. When she knew the news, she couldn't believe it, but she was afraid to face it. She asked herself, why my family, why this time? But no one answered her. All she can do is cry quietly, then put away her tears and move on.

Get up at 5 o'clock every morning, then go to the breakfast shop to help sell steamed buns, and go to class when the time is up. I help cook in the restaurant at noon and read in the library in my spare time. Occasionally, I will attend friends' activities. Many of our friends didn't see what was on her mind. Or we never thought that such a big thing would happen to people around us. But the truth is always unexpected.

On the day of diagnosis, she was calm. Compared with the fear, panic and loss when she heard that her father was seriously ill, her calm performance was not in line with her age, but it was expected. Then she took her time to deal with school affairs and took a long vacation to accompany her father who was hospitalized in a hospital in Modu.

In the hospital, she was sober. In addition to taking care of her father every day, she silently calculates the medical expenses, operation expenses, follow-up treatment expenses, nutrition expenses, etc., and how much money she still has. When she added up all the money in her bank card at home, she found that the deposit was less than 50,000, and all kinds of expenses together needed more than1000, her eyes were red, but she stopped the tears that were about to burst and her brain was spinning fast.

Soon, she thought of a way, hoping to ask for help to easily raise the remaining expenses. I thought of her and started to act at once. According to the prescribed procedures, she provided the platform with the real information of her father and herself, as well as sufficient disease proof materials: diagnosis certificate, charge bill, case report, admission certificate and so on. Soon the platform was approved, and many of our friends learned the news that her father was seriously ill in the circle of friends.

Soon, the target cost was collected and the operation was completed. She sent her father back to her hometown to recuperate and went back to school herself. When she went back to school again, she lost her innocence in the past and became a little more worldly helpless. But no one said anything because she had done well enough. If you change your position, who can be optimistic about life when your loved ones are seriously ill? In order not to see everyone's poor expressions, she even forced herself to act as if nothing had happened at the beginning of the incident. She must have been in pain at that time!

As soon as I heard the news, I wanted to say something to her, but I found nothing to say. I can only pray for her silently in my heart. But life is not an idol drama, there is not so much sugar, but more bitter and bitter growth.

She got married this year, and her mother took her by the hand and gave her to the groom. But so what? Her face is permeated with a happy smile. That's enough. She may have adapted to her life.

In fact, she regrets that her father didn't spend more time with him when he was healthy; Regret that I was a child who made my father proud earlier; Regret that I am twenty years old and still feel powerless about many things. If her father were still here, he would tell her not to regret it. There is only one life, no rehearsal, and every moment is live. Because we don't know in advance what will happen in the next moment, all we can do is try our best to live the present.

I hope we can all do it: we still love life after seeing through the essence of life. When you encounter something difficult to solve, don't run away, don't be negative, choose another way to be optimistic, and you may have unexpected joy.