My ex-wife, who didn't talk back that month, endured the child's full moon and divorced me. What should I do?

What shall we do? If you have any conscience, please leave her alone. Now that you are divorced, don't bother her anymore. It is enough to charge the living expenses to her card every month. If you really don't want to pay the living expenses, then promise not to bother her again. This is the basic bottom line.

(1) I'm glad your ex-wife finally got out of her misery. First of all, you can abuse her in every way during her confinement, which shows that you are not a thing. Your behavior is no different from cheating during pregnancy, just as bad and disgusting.

She's carrying your baby. As a man, you can't understand the pain of pregnancy and childbirth in October, but you can still curse, which shows that you are not only a thing, but also don't love her.

Since I don't love her, let her go, give her a free world and let her find her true happiness.

She married you and gave birth to your children, which shows that she still has certain expectations for you; Now that all her expectations have been consumed by you, there is no choice but to divorce.

As a man, you have no responsibility as a man; As a husband, you are also disqualified from being taken care of by your wife.

She gave birth to your child and gave you enough. Don't think about asking her for anything.

Do as you would be done by. Just as you are dissatisfied with her, she is dissatisfied with you. She may scold you back because she loves you too much, or she has made up her mind to divorce, but in either case, she is the victim and you are the beneficiary.

Her youth and energy have been given to you. People should learn to be content.

Being pregnant and having children is a stressful and physically and mentally tortured thing. In the meantime, the wife should be loved and cared for by her husband.

Not only did you fail to do this, but you also added heavy pressure and humiliation to her, so I can only say that it is extremely wise for her to divorce you, and I am also glad that she is out of the misery.

Thinking that you can still scold her the next month, you can imagine that you usually beat and scold her endlessly. She put up with it for so long, probably for the sake of the children. Now that the baby has been born safely, it's time to let her out of this dark cage.

So, let go, let her go, and don't drag her back to her misery.

(2) I am glad that your ex-wife still knows how to resist and does not continue to bear the burden of humiliation. The marriage you gave her suffocated her. She persisted for so long under such harsh conditions, which shows how tenacious she is. I am also glad that her tenacity and consciousness have not been completely consumed by this marriage. At least, she knows how to resist.

Divorced, she is like a bird escaping from a cage, bravely pursuing her own sky.

Such a divorced woman and a divorced man will surely find their true happiness again. After all, she is brave, courageous and patient. She is just a mother.

How many women like her are still struggling in the grave of marriage, holding a famous brand of "wife" who can't see the road ahead and the light, guarding the trivial life and being ground down bit by bit in the years and the secular world.

So your ex-wife is a brave and great woman, who dares to work hard, is not afraid of difficulties and has not lost herself.

You should be proud, proud that you once had the youth of such a beautiful woman; At the same time, you should also repent for your disgusting behavior after marriage.

Of course, the most important thing for you is to let go and give her the rest of your life.

As for the child, if she wants it, you must give it to her unconditionally, then divide the property equally and give the mother and daughter living expenses every month; If she doesn't want it, you'd better try your best to raise the child and let him grow up well, so that you can make up for it.

Of course, you will probably find a new wife again. I just hope you don't hurt another woman.

(3) Never go back to find her again. Unless you have been certified as a normal person by a famous doctor and marriage expert, and you still can't forget her within seven years after divorce, and you pay enough living expenses on time and in quantity every month, you must never go back to find her and force her to turn back.

In the second month, she has had enough of your abuse and torture. Don't pester her after the divorce. If you really can't stand living without her to help you with the housework, you'd better pay for a nanny.

If the child is hers, you'd better ask her permission before you want to see the child. If you think your child is not close to you, that's normal. Don't blame her for being heartless, because you were heartless first.

If the child is yours, you must pay attention to his health, especially his mental health, and don't transfer her mother's pain to the child. After all, the child is innocent.

Also, don't satisfy your own selfish desires in the name of children, and don't use children as an excuse to bind her. She loves children and may still love you, but she is also a living person. There is no reason to be bound by you for life because of a child.

In short, let go, let her go, let yourself go.

There is no need to live a bitter life without feelings, and there is no need to whitewash peace because of children. As the saying goes, if you love, you will be together, and if you don't love, you will be separated. Don't make marriage full of hatred.

(4) Marriage is not only an immediate struggle, but also a marriage between poetry and distance. There are various forms. Some people get married for love, some people get married for profit, some people get married for a partner, and some people get married for a secular marriage ... No matter what kind of phenomenon, it will eventually be calm or even tasteless.

However, why can some people love each other forever in the secular daily necessities and keep their marriage hot?

Because they have responsibility, responsibility, understanding and trust, and their hearts are at home.

Deng Chao and Sun Li, famous model couples in the entertainment circle, have been married for many years, and their marriage has been stable and happy, which is really rare in the floating entertainment circle.

But in fact, there are many rumors about their apparent husband and wife. Sun Li and Deng Chao never cared about these rumors.

What kind of woman is Sun Li-tenacious, far-sighted, persistent and powerful; And Deng Chao, seemingly meaningless, is actually very reliable internally.

Obviously, two people can maintain this marriage well, and their commitment and understanding are enormous.

Marriage may make people tired, but responsibility, understanding and care can also create a poem and distance for marriage.

People are social animals, and a good marriage can give people the best comfort in life.

It is also confinement. If you ask her more questions, help her take care of the baby and care about her postpartum situation, then she will willingly continue to be your nanny for the rest of her life.

That's what women do. Her love is selfless. You give her three points of love, and she will willingly give you seven points back.

Being able to abuse his wife at will during confinement shows that men have no sense of responsibility, are not sensible and are not at home.

Is such a man worth his wife's continued efforts? Of course not.

So it is normal for your ex-wife to divorce you. If she doesn't divorce you, something will happen sooner or later.

That's what you should do. Look.