Dear lover: How sweet are Han and Tong Nian? Can it be reflected by the amount of money spent?

"Dear Love" is a high-sweetness TV series that has swept all major platforms. Weibo searches for it every day, and the circle of friends punches in the current boyfriend every day. ......

This magical painting style is unfolding around us. Every day, fans who follow the drama are on the verge of collapse. Every day, they are eagerly waiting for the update of the plot and constantly brushing various trailers while waiting for the update.

While watching, he smiled like an aunt. Once the hero quarreled, he sighed and felt uncomfortable. Once the hero hugs and kisses, he immediately has star eyes.

It can be said that the whole heart is uncertain with the plot.

Yes, this drama shows us the ups and downs of love, but it also teaches us how to open love in the best way.

I don't know if you have found out that since Han and Tong Nian were together, guns are the most willing to spend money on Tong Nian.

When Tong Nian was drunk, he saw that his stepmother said that she liked the necklace. Even though the price of the necklace was not enough for his savings, he gave it to Tong Nian and borrowed money from his cousin Xiaobai to collect money to compensate her stepmother's necklace.

On Tong Nian's birthday, I pulled my face down without hesitation and borrowed money from Xiaobai for the second time to buy a birthday present for Tong Nian.

After breaking up with Tong Nian, he also gave Tong Nian the only 2,000 yuan left in his account as a "breakup fee".

Have you ever found that this kind of love, which doesn't care about the gains and losses of interests, is the most real, although it is not packaged to make people shine, and it is also what people often say, "How deep is love?" Try it with money and you'll know a rough idea immediately. "

This scene just confirms what Tu Lei said: Money is not the only criterion to test true love, but money can measure the depth of feelings.

Yes, money is not a measure of a man. Hope is not willing to spend money is a measure of a man's treatment of this feeling.

Guns love childlike innocence. He is willing to spend money on his childhood when he may even have difficulty eating. Even if Tong Nian said he had everything, he would still take Tong Nian to the mall to buy her a game machine as a birthday present.

Some people may say that "talking about money hurts feelings", but do you realize that the so-called thoughtfulness or sincerity, no matter what form it takes, will eventually be associated with the word "money".

This society is realistic, and there is really nothing in life that doesn't talk about money.

From a certain point of view, a man who is unwilling to spend money for you and talk about money in front of you is only willing to express his love with an oath of "willing to fight for you". What is the weight of this love?

02

Csillam and Anita Yuen were invited as guests in a reality show called "You Are Along the Way".

At the end of the program, a video was released, in which Chiram recorded his "last words" in advance: Suppose you only have 24 hours left in your life, what would you do and what would you say to Anita Yuen?

The first sentence that Csillam answered set off the tear spot and poked the lacrimal gland.

"Anita Yuen, do you have enough money? You have said enough, then I am at ease. "

As we all know, Anita Yuen is famous for buying bags. The bags of Hermes, LV and other big brands that she has carried can add up to travel around the world.

Although Csillam would shout "Wife, don't buy any more bags" and once complained that her wife bought bags as if she were robbing, she still took out her credit card to pay the bill every time she went shopping.

We can easily see that Csillam opposes Anita Yuen's love of buying bags without blinking.

Earlier, Anita Yuen was caught in a baby-raising storm, and everyone was eating melons and waiting to see a joke. However, Csillam only said one sentence: "It's a pity that I didn't know her earlier and protect her earlier."

In such a simple sentence, all the previous gossip was smashed to pieces.

You will find that the man named Csillam always spoiled Anita Yuen when he was a child.

You know, leaving the best food to important people is a truth that all kindergarten children understand; When you are young, some people will scrimp and save to buy things you like.

This kind of feeling is deep. Being willing to spend money for you is a natural instinct and the essence of true love.

Some people say that love after marriage will become boring after a long time. At this time, romantic surprise gifts will be very important, and couples in marriage need these little romances to decorate the plain life of simple food.

The marriage between Chile and Anita Yuen also shows us the importance of this sentence. They are carefully managed and cared for. Anita Yuen likes bags, and Csillam has no objection, but we also know that these bags are not blown by strong winds and need money to buy them.

It is true that material is an indispensable and important factor in love. What a woman wants is not superficial material things, but that a man is willing to care about the truth of her material life.

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I heard the love story of a couple born after 90. The two protagonists in the story sell seafood from scratch after graduation.

Out of the instinct of loving beauty, the girl quietly told her husband that she really liked Chanel bags. But knowing that they can't support financially at present, she told her husband that what she said was just to express her thoughts as a friend, not to force the other party to buy her a bag. After all, she knows that starting a business is not easy.

The boy said very readily, I'll buy you what you like, but you may have to wait for a while, and I'll buy it back after saving enough money next month.

I think this sentence from a boy can warm the hearts of many girls.

A simple sentence is worth a thousand words. "I'll buy it for you if I have money." It sounds like a promise, but a promise is actually like hooliganism. After all, the word promise is sometimes as light as a feather and sometimes like a bubble.

And this post-90 s boy, he understands that loving someone can't be delayed, even if he wants to keep the other person waiting, he has to give a deadline.

A person really loves you, you can see it from one look, one action and one subtle expression, but the most direct way is to be willing to spend money for you.

Deep feelings, eager to pay, willing to please each other's thoughts and wants, like a mountain stream, the water level rises with time, and eventually it will converge into a sea, which is out of control.

Therefore, in love, we must spend money, and the so-called spending money does not mean spending a lot of money, but spending money for each other sincerely.

In other words, how much you spend depends on the individual, and where you spend it depends on your heart.

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Zhang Ailing said: I spend his money and I feel happy. I didn't spend his money because of women's greed. Because women don't spend any men's money, which is also Qian Fan's careful choice, men use whether she is willing to spend his money to test her love. So a man wants the woman he loves to spend his money.

I read a story in Zhihu: A girl fell in love with a young man, and the young man was so considerate and gentle to the girl that people envied him. Girls can't extricate themselves from the warmth of the young man, but this young man makes girls feel uncomfortable, that is, they don't want to spend money for girls, and they will be deducted every time they buy something for them.

But girls will still defend him, saying that this is called "frugality" and a virtue.

Later, for various reasons, the two broke up. When we met again, I saw the girl next to the young man wearing a ring, which was the last one that the young man didn't buy when they were still together.

It turns out that the young man is not frugal, nor is he holding traditional virtues, but he just doesn't want to spend money on girls.

To put it bluntly, I just don't like or love enough.

To truly love someone is to give her the best things, satisfy what she wants and realize every little wish.

After all, the person who really loves you, how can you turn around and say no because of greed?

Because of true love, I want to see each other happy. Even if money is important to me, you are more important than money.

Perhaps for many people, this kind of love is very material and completely extravagant.

But I understand more and more, and believe more and more that love still lies in business. Being willing to spend money for you is one of the ways to develop business.

Today's topic: Do you think the man who really loves you is willing to spend money for you?