Children's nature should not be suppressed.

The more obedient and sensible children are, the more psychological problems they have when they grow up. This is because they suppress their nature. Children want to satisfy their parents, so they have been studying hard. In order not to worry their parents, they hid their nature. When I grow up, these problems are exposed and I feel that this kind of life is not what I want at all.

Respect for children

For parents, they should respect their children and their nature.

Kill a child's hobby

Parents think it is good for their children to spend all their time at work. As long as their children have stable material conditions, their future life will be happier and happier. Many children love their parents dearly and don't want their parents to worry about themselves all the time. So I will listen to my parents' arrangement, and when I grow up, I will find that what my parents said is totally wrong.

Children don't live as they think.

Most children are struggling. On the one hand, they want to obey their nature, on the other hand, they are afraid that their parents will keep shaking their heads at themselves. This will make parents sad. In order to avoid this, they can only live in the shadow of their parents. Although I have another image I want in my heart, I can't develop in the direction I want. Finally, my child has become a person who is not happy at all.

The child's inner repression

Sometimes the smiling face on a child's face is just barely put on. In fact, their hearts are depressed and full of disappointment with their parents. But with love for parents, disappointment can only be buried in your own heart and never revealed to the public. This disappointment will be exposed when it accumulates to a certain extent one day.