There is only one sister at home to take care of her elderly parents. What should the other brothers and sisters do?

In the past, there was a saying in the countryside that having more children and enjoying more was also called having a full house of children. But in real life, many rural children are not necessarily like this. Many children can't reach an agreement to solve their parents' pension problems, and even evade their responsibilities, kicking each other's balls and ignoring the life and death of the elderly. Some families even went to court and brothers and sisters broke up. This has to be said to be the decline of human nature and a major manifestation of the deterioration of social customs.

As the questioner said, although there are several sisters at home, there is only one who stays at home with the elderly for a long time. This kind of thing is very common in rural areas. Even friends who stay at home with the elderly for a long time may have no regrets, which is the embodiment of their obligations and responsibilities. This kind of behavior must be commendable. However, it is also very hard work to accompany the elderly. If the elderly are healthy, they can eat and dress themselves, or they can find state-owned enterprises. Especially the elderly in their 80 s, most of them are inconvenient to walk and cannot stand on their own feet. It's hard to deal with your own life problems without children around to take care of them. Therefore, it is particularly hard to accompany the children of the elderly.

As children who live or live outside, don't just ignore that the elderly at home have a big brother or sister to take care of them. It is natural to understand the hardships of caring for the elderly by brothers and sisters at home, and to give appropriate support to the brothers and sisters who take care of the elderly at home on the principle of rich and strong load rate. Although taking care of the elderly at home is out of filial piety and responsibility, all children in the family are treated equally, and no one is born to be taken care of by himself. The only child can't help it, even if the sky falls, he can only support himself. However, in a family with many children, the responsibility of caring for the elderly also requires everyone to bear the pressure and be filial together.

In a matter like yours, although there are many children at home, there is only one person who takes care of the elderly for a long time, so other brothers and sisters should also pay their brothers and sisters who take care of the elderly for a long time, so that the brothers and sisters who take care of the elderly at home will be more conscientious and fully embody the spirit of unity and friendship between brothers and sisters. Naturally, sometimes brothers and sisters who take care of the elderly at home for a long time may be afraid to talk about it, and they are not too embarrassed to explicitly ask other brothers and sisters for some money, but people need to live. If it is difficult to ensure their own life, they may not try their best to take care of the elderly. As other brothers and sisters, it is human nature for everyone to negotiate with each other and give appropriate subsidies to the brothers and sisters who take care of the elderly at home.

Generally speaking, our country has entered the old age society at present. With the increase of the elderly, the average life expectancy has increased. Whether in rural areas or big cities, people in their 60s are basically taking care of people in their 80s. Everyone is old, but it is a tradition of China people to take good care of the elderly at home. It is also the most basic conscience of other brothers and sisters not to let themselves go through all the hardships to accompany the brothers and sisters of the elderly at home to suffer big losses and feel sad. Having money and a strong load rate is also the most basic way for many families to provide for the aged.