Find me 100 advantage

100 advantages? When I first saw this assignment, I also doubted who could have the advantage of 100! However, I also believe that everyone's potential is unlimited. Maybe you can really find out the advantages of me 100!

Take action, start to recall the positive comments of others in the past 30 years in your mind like a movie, and then make a good summary based on what you have seen, and get the following answer: 1 Positive 2. Active 3. Strong imitation ability 4. Like to learn new skills. Filial piety 6. Thrift. Obey 8. Low key 9. Love submission 10. Sensible 6500.

It seems that it is still far from 100! But I can't think of anything else The teacher also said that I can rely on the strength of others, so after some ideological struggle, my emotions overcame my reason and I sent a conversation in my circle of friends (synchronized to QQ space) with pictures:

Starting today, I will start looking for my 100 advantage. This is a huge project. Dear friend, I really need your help. Please leave a message and tell me: What advantages do you see in me [snickering] [snickering] [snickering]

(plus one) 13. Know how to ask for help.

After I sent it, I was really looking forward to it and uneasy. This is not my old style. I'm a little embarrassed to let others talk about my advantages. But I didn't expect someone to reply soon:

(Add 14. Dare to break through yourself)

College girl Shanshan's message: Goddess, inspirational [naughty] (15. Goddess, 16. Inspirational)

Li, a friend I met in Huoqiu, said: Very gentle and good-natured. (17. Good temper)

Li Yanan, a college classmate, said: Seriously positive (18. Serious)

Wang Si, a college classmate, said: 10 is almost the same, and 100 is too much. But in the evening, she reviewed the following contents: study hard, be positive and true! (19. Work hard. True)

College classmate Zhai Liping's message: self-discipline. (2 1. Self-discipline)

At the same time, there are also classmates' messages in QQ space: optimistic and positive attitude towards things; (22. optimistic? 23. Good attitude)

Seeing more and more replies, I became more confident and decided to take the initiative and send private messages to my family and friends. The template is as follows:

"So-and-so, tell me what advantages I have in your eyes, advantages. This is very important to me. Remember to give it back to me. "

Then I received the following reply, with pictures and truth.

Christine, a college roommate, said: studious, active and gentle.

Ha ha ha, I agree with the first two words, the latter one, gentle, I really forgot this recently. I just remember yelling at my husband and never thought I had a gentle side. Thank you for reminding me, yes, I am really gentle! (24) tenderness

The following is from: Yan Xin, a college roommate. 25. Take everything into consideration. 26. Have a strong sense of purpose. 27. Kao Ba. Perseverance 29. willpower

Although my brother's reply was a bit perfunctory, it reminded me of one of his advantages. humorous

The following is my sister-in-law's reply. I feel praised by her, hahaha. 3 1.32 plan. Take action 33. Know what you want. Express gratitude and love in time.

Then my cousin, who was also assigned this homework, was particularly willing to do it together, and we gave each other several benefits. 35. Kindness. Simple 37. Care about 38. simple

Xiangzi, a little nephew in junior high school, also gave an evaluation. 39. Patience 40. Understand. 4 1. Care for others. optimistic

I was shocked to see my sister's comments. There are too many of them, both inside and outside. In particular, she said that she wanted to give me an evaluation: even the pot was boiled, and I really smiled, but I also felt love flowing. I also see one of my advantages from my sister: 43. Intention.

44. Diligence. Sense of responsibility. Constantly improve yourself. Educate children with your heart. Do your best for the students. Ready to help others. Empathy 5 1. Know how to change your shortcomings.

The following is the evaluation of childhood sweetheart Lily: 52. Generosity 53. Elegant 54. Confident 55. Outstanding literary talent. Profound knowledge 57. Smart 58. Strict and meticulous. Strong principle 60. Approachable 6 1. Xianhui 62 tastes sweet.

I have always given a serious evaluation to my strict young lady. Deep down, I always wanted her approval, and today I got it. 63. Be considerate of your parents. Don't compare with others. Balance the family.

My father's reply was late, but after all, I waited, which made me feel that my father was very powerful and super cooperative every time. It seems that I also have this advantage. 66. Know how to cooperate

I didn't expect to be 66 so soon, so I searched again and found the following:

Take your time, take your time, relax, and be self-motivated (college roommates are quiet). Take your time. Take your time. Be content.

Active wisdom (Wen Xin) 70. wisdom

Beautiful, kind and smart, you are all good! It seems repetitive to learn from you [strong] [strong] (Xu Jing).

Some people didn't reply, and they made a new discovery:

7 1. Strong self-care ability 72. Big love 73. Strong solitude ability

Because shortcomings and advantages can be transformed into each other, I will transform myself:

74. Strong sensitivity (sensitivity)

75. Be independent (don't listen to other people's advice)

76. Love thinking (like thinking)

77. Handsome (don't like being tied down)

78 casual (don't like to dress up)

79. Pessimism (strong sense of hardship)

80. Make demands on yourself (pursuing perfection)

8 1. Good taste (high vision)

82. Relax (always seize the opportunity)

83. Know how to protect yourself (dare not take risks)

84. Have your own standards (picky)

85. Delicate mind (narrow-minded)

86. Pursuing a healthy life (picky eaters)

Hou Zhihao's children contributed a few points: 87. Happy. Atmosphere.

That's all for now. We need 12 items. We will add them tomorrow.

Supplement: 89. Full of curiosity. Major 90. Keen 9 1。 Love sharing 92. Know how to give up 93. Love to share 94. Love to laugh 95. Good at praise.

Cooperation. Distinguish right from wrong. Love yourself 99. Pet 100. Respect others.

Ha ha ha, it worked. I am really happy to find it, just like building a praise groups for myself. A suitable dopamine collection camp is also an opportunity to get to know yourself again. Especially how to turn your shortcomings into advantages, these feelings are very deep. I have changed three things recently:

1. Proactive

This is my favorite recently, just transformed from potential. Two years of initiative, let me harvest a lot of surprises and beauty. In the future, this advantage can continue to shine and lead me in all fields of life and work. Take the initiative to participate, strive for, care about family and friends, study, take the initiative ... in short, it is right to take the initiative to develop in a positive direction.

be obident

I have been an obedient child since I was a child, although for a while, I felt that being obedient was not an advantage, but my greatest weakness! I used to be dissatisfied with myself because I was too obedient. I am really wronged! Obedience has really brought me many benefits, and now I prefer to be an obedient person.

I want to be an obedient mother, listen to the children and try my best to meet her reasonable needs. The baby is now 16 months old and likes new things. I think I can let her do what she wants, dirty clothes, walk barefoot on the floor, play with water ... These are all things I am willing to satisfy her on the premise of ensuring safety.

Whenever my "depression" attacks again, I often tell myself: You were a good obedient child when you were a child, and you will continue to be a good obedient mother when you grow up! Listening to the child's voice and giving her enough freedom and practical opportunities is the best love for the child.

Besides, we should also listen to others. Most of the suggestions given by family, friends, colleagues and students are well-intentioned, but some of them are my blind spots. Listen to them and you can avoid detours.

Stay sensitive

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