Re-ask for extra points: family relations are annoying, help.

The following are some general principles:

1. Let them get rid of the idea of getting married and getting married. Remember that everyone is a family now, and they are all relatives. We should love and protect each other completely.

Don't argue about money. You have to make it clear to your wife that we are all family and there is nothing to argue about money.

Don't believe in feng shui, it's all fake. Your home is messy enough, and you have to consider feng shui. Isn't it a mess?

Children are the kindest and most naive, so take good care of them. Only children have no bad ideas.

The above are some general principles, and I will analyze them with you one by one:

1。 Every little thing should be made clear. There is no right or wrong thing, everyone should make it clear and understand each other. In addition, it is best for couples not to live with their parents after marriage, otherwise the wife will not want her mother-in-law to share her husband's love, and the mother-in-law will not like her daughter-in-law to share her son's love. There will always be contradictions.

2。 See general principle 1 2, especially principle 2. Isn't having a happy family relationship more important than money? Stop arguing! Let others argue about love.

3。 Mother-in-law doesn't take it, but grandma takes it ~ see principle 1, everyone is a family!

4。 My parents-in-law can't do this well, but according to the principle of 1, everyone should be considerate of each other. Nobody wants to live in a crowded house, so they should buy their own house as much as possible. Although they didn't buy a house with a small profit, it doesn't matter. After all, they will live in a house soon. No matter how much they promised before, they have at least supported it. For example, their wife's brother, they can't afford it for many reasons.

5。 Yes, that's why they can't get the money. If you can't marry your wife's brother for a small house, how can you be safe?

6。 Why does this husband always want to live in his parents-in-law's house? Don't men know when to stand on their own feet? I don't want to rent out my parents-in-law's house. Everyone lives under the overpass. If you have money, pay the mortgage quickly. Interest on loans is no joke. When one house is finished, we are talking about the second house. That husband wants to live in his parents-in-law's house. In order to rent a house to make money, he didn't expect to add much trouble to his parents-in-law's family, nor did he say that he would buy some fruit for his parents-in-law to eat with the money earned from renting a house. In the eyes of money, he is also a person! In addition, it is right for parents-in-law to ask their son for advice. This is a family, and family matters should be discussed together.

7。 Look at principle three, don't believe in Feng Shui.

8。 Specific analysis of specific things, learn from the above basic principles.

9。 Principle 1, 2, 4, no matter who the inheritance belongs to, don't argue. Inheritance is a one-time money, and the money you earn is endless. This is the reason why it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. In addition, children are kind, don't teach bad children and don't use them.

10。 Husband, don't criticize, be reasonable, and let your wife think from both sides, instead of criticizing education. Wife, talk through your head, don't say vicious and irresponsible words.

1 1。 In this way, the daughter-in-law often quarrels with the older generation. Husband, no matter what you think, you should comfort your wife when you go back, otherwise she will think that her husband just doesn't think for himself, and the relationship between husband and wife will not be good after a long time. In addition, no matter what happens, the husband should make it clear to his wife and give priority to reason. No matter who is right or wrong, everyone should understand each other and give priority to the elderly.

12。 This is the result, not the problem, and there is nothing to analyze. My husband found that he didn't do well enough, and his impression of a person was gradually accumulated by many things.

13。 If parents-in-law like children, it is better to ask them to look after them.

14。 It seems that my brother doesn't like my sister very much, but it is normal for children to be naughty. If the computer desk is not disassembled, it will not affect the use. So what? Children are normal as long as they don't do bad things on purpose. Teaching children is not to teach them to be dull, but to sit still and watch TV and read books, but to have the spirit of exploration.

15。 Rule three, don't trust Feng Shui.

16。 There is no right or wrong, losing is taking advantage, and letting relatives take advantage is essentially the same as helping relatives, depending on what you think. The most important thing is to understand, help and be polite to each other.