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Jiang Yang said in his Centennial Speech: "In this materialistic world, it is really difficult to be a man."

? Please yourself first, then please others, is the best attitude towards life.

Jiang Yang said in his Centennial Speech: "In this materialistic world, it is really difficult to be a man."

? Please yourself first, then please others, is the best attitude towards life.

Jiang Yang said in his Centennial Speech: "In this materialistic world, it is really difficult to be a man."

It is true that no one's life is easy, and time has never spared anyone.

But the more difficult the situation, the more gorgeous the heart, please yourself and warm the world.

Taking care of your mood is more important than anything else; It is more difficult than anything not to forget to think of others.

A true wise man knows how to please himself and others and live a beautiful and broad life.

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Pleasing yourself is the highest level.

Lin Qingxuan said, "Make happiness a habit."

Many times, happiness is not only a habit, but also a choice. When you choose to please yourself, happiness will always accompany you no matter how difficult the situation is.

A truly powerful person can choose to please himself no matter how hard it is.

Su Dongpo is like this. He has reached the pinnacle in pleasing himself.

Throughout his life, he has always maintained an open-minded attitude, from a novice in the imperial court to a remote official, either in exile or on the way.

If the AG in the temple doesn't go, he will be happy to be far away. He has no right to have no money in his pocket, so he writes poems and lyrics and travels around the world.

In the era of self-denial, he lived naturally; He leads a free and easy life on the road of thorns.

Being demoted to Huangzhou, he said: "The Yangtze River knows the beauty of fish around the country, and the bamboo mountains feel the fragrance of bamboo shoots";

Being demoted to Huizhou, he said: "300 lychees a day, I don't hesitate to grow up to be a Lingnan person";

Being demoted to Hainan, he said, "I am a Boer and live in Xishu Prefecture. ".

Life can't go downstream, so Su Shi smiled and went upstream, never forgetting to please himself and lived an interesting life.

His philosophical attitude has been shining for thousands of years, and it has also illuminated us who also broke through in the dark.

I have heard a saying: "It is compassion to make others happy, and it is great wisdom to make yourself happy."

Life is a long journey, not all roads, valleys and setbacks.

However, when you are proud, you have the happiness of climbing to the top, and when you are frustrated, you have the happiness of floating clouds and wild cranes. Life is full of scenery.

The most important thing in life is to please yourself. It is better to let go if you are worried, and it is better to be happy if you are sad. If you don't wander in sadness, you can get a clear picture of life.

As Zen master Wu said, "There are flowers in spring, moons in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter."

The world is so beautiful, spring, summer, autumn and winter have their own attitudes. Even if you have 3,000 troubles, there are 1,000 antidotes.

So, meet friends who make you happy, people who love to make you smile, go where you want to go and realize your dreams.

Pleasing yourself and making yourself happy every day is the greatest significance of your efforts.

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Comfort is the top accomplishment.

"Caigen Tan" has a cloud: "The real taste is light, and people are as usual."

High-level people will not be pretentious and domineering, but push others everywhere, making people get along as comfortably as the spring breeze.

It makes people comfortable, not to please, but to treat everyone in life with kindness rooted in the heart and education engraved in the bones. There are gaps in the chest and tenderness and warmth in the heart.

I once read a story and was very moved.

There is a boy who always goes to school without his home key. Every time he comes home from school, he calls his father to open the door.

Suddenly one day, his father specially told him: "You should remember to bring your home key every day and open the door when you come back."

The boy was puzzled and asked, "Why?"

His father replied, "If you call your father loudly, the children next door will feel uncomfortable."

It turned out that the father of the child next door died in the line of duty the day before, and there was no father since then.

A truly cultured person knows how to make people feel comfortable. Although it is only a small move, it contains great warmth.

The book "The Weakness of Human Nature" says: "If you want to get happiness from life, you can't just think about yourself, but also think about others."

Considering others and making people comfortable, the road of life will be wider and wider, and there will be more and more happiness and blessings.

Each of us walks in the world, sometimes with scenery and sometimes with embarrassment.

But all the kindness of helping others, the thoughtfulness of others and the sincerity from the heart will flow to yourself.

Please remember, it makes people comfortable, and the beauty of this world will be associated with you.

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For the rest of your life, please yourself first, and then please others.

There is an old saying: "Those who flatter others ask others to please themselves;" : and those who are flattered by good people are happy to ask for more happiness, both of which are wrong. "

This means that you can't just please others and lose yourself, and you can't just be happy for yourself without considering the feelings of others.

Therefore, the best way to live in life is to please yourself first and then please others.

The famous writer Ma Jiahui once shared such a thing.

After marriage, the wife wants to be a full-time wife. At first, he was very opposed to it, thinking that it was burying his wife's talent.

But my wife was adamant that she enjoyed the life of a full-time wife and had to agree.

Unexpectedly, even if she is a full-time wife, her life is very rich. She will share good books and movies with him and help him solve his work problems.

He sighed: "I support my wife financially, and she nourishes me spiritually."

Ma Jiahui's wife chooses to satisfy herself first, and then bring others love and happiness with her happiness.

The real high EQ is not to make people comfortable first, but to make themselves happy and infect others with their inner satisfaction and joy.

Mencius has a saying: "If you are poor, you will be immune to it, and if you are rich, you will help the world."

Only when each of us first learns to please ourselves and live ourselves as a beam of light can we nourish others.

When you are beyond your power, please yourself first, live in the sun and make yourself happy. This is the highest state.

When you have spare time, please others, push yourself and others, and make others comfortable, which is the top achievement.

Write it at the end

"Xin Yu Xi Shi" wrote: "A person's short life, like Shi Huo's, is just too long."

Time flies, come and go in a hurry, open your eyes and close your eyes. Compared with the illusory fame and fortune, it is really rare to have a state of pleasing yourself when getting along with yourself and a comfortable sense of accomplishment when getting along with others.

Even if there are ups and downs in life, as long as you are always happy and don't lack kindness, you will be treated gently by years.

In the rest of my life, may you be the light that illuminates others, and your life will be illuminated by light.

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