What should I do if I find my husband's feelings derailed?

If I find that my other half who has been with me for many years is cheating, in this case, I will not forgive each other, and I will still choose to break up with each other.

First of all, one of the most important prerequisites for two people to be together is mutual respect and loyalty. And my other half is emotionally unfaithful to me, and obviously has no real respect and loyalty, which will make me feel very lost, especially sad and disappointed. After all, I have devoted a lot of time and energy to this relationship and placed great hopes on it. It can be said that the appearance of this kind of behavior completely broke my hope and caused great harm to my heart, so I can't forgive it in this case.

From another point of view, the reason why the other party chose to cheat may also be because being with me can't really make her feel happy and happy, so instead of maintaining such a marriage, it is better to choose to completely let go and fulfill the other party. Feelings can't be forced. It doesn't make any sense for me to keep her heart, and after this incident, I will be embarrassed to live and get along together. Although it's hard for me to give up this feeling, it's better to cut the gordian knot than to have a long-term pain. Maybe this is the best solution for both of us.