We were all born in the 1990s. I want to get married next year, but my boyfriend says it’s too early. Should we break up?

I remember someone told me that marriage is the tomb of love. It doesn’t matter if you don’t enter. But I added that without marriage, love will die without a burial place, so if you have been in love for a long time, get married when it’s time. Because the relationship will either continue to be maintained by marriage, or it will end in breakup.

For those of you who were born in the 1990s, you are not young anymore. According to your age, you can get married, even a little late. He said it was too early, maybe because his heart is not there yet. It’s settled that the colorful single life makes him not want to get married for the time being. Sometimes men are also afraid of marriage. He is not ready for financial pressure and future married life. If this is an issue, you can communicate well. Now, ask him when he is willing to end his single life for you. It is never too early. If he is willing to give you a clear answer and the time is not very long, I think you can wait appropriately and think about it yourself. Think about whether this man is the one who can accompany you. It's best not to get too excited when you get married. After all, you have to live a lifetime.

He said it was too early. Another possibility is that he is not very satisfied with you. His saying it is too early is just an excuse. It is not that he does not want to get married but that he does not want to get married with you, which is two different things. You have to make it clear to yourself that when two people are in love, normal communication can reveal a man's intentions. If you just force yourself and perfunctory, then this man is just enjoying the time of falling in love with you and has no plans to be with you. If you want to spend your whole life together, then I advise you not to waste your youth. Remember to tell you where your feelings belong at the beginning. Let it go when it’s time to let it go. Marriage requires the willingness of both parties, not the force of one party, so just look at it. Point, there is no grass anywhere in the world!