I am very upset and want to talk to someone. What happened?

Hello, dear, let me answer this question. I get bored after a long time. I used to have a strong desire to talk to others, and I wanted to talk to someone, but I was worried that the other person would feel bored, so it was really worrying.

However, since you have such concerns, it means that there is still this possibility, so when you chat with others, you need to find the right person according to what you want to talk about.

First of all, chatting is mutual. If you want to tell others about your experience, it is more likely to annoy you if the other person is not a particularly good person. If they have a good relationship with each other and know each other better, most of them should not have such concerns.

Secondly, if you chat with others, the content of the chat is mainly about your own affairs, and it may be difficult for others to feel the same way. If both sides can talk about their own affairs when chatting, instead of just listening to one person, then the sense of participation of the two people will be stronger and the chat will be easier, that is, in the process of chatting, don't just think about your own feelings and ignore the other's.

Furthermore, if you want the other person to chat with you actively, it really depends on the quality of the relationship. If the relationship is good, there will be no such problem at all. If the relationship is average, you should learn to be indifferent. After all, everyone has their own life and their own circle of friends. This kind of thing is really normal.

Finally, if you really want to find someone to say something, if you really can't find someone, you can choose other ways. For example, if you write down what you want to say, you may have a strong desire to talk at first. Maybe in the process of writing, your mood will gradually calm down, and then your desire to talk may decrease. In the process, you may think about something clearly. This writing can be handwritten or electronic, such as sending it to Weibo. If you don't want to be known by others, you can also choose the platform of some people you don't know. Wish you a happy life.