Decryption: Why can't Pan Jinlian "be willing to be lonely" and abide by women's morality?

Pan Jinlian has always been synonymous with * * *. No matter how much sympathy and understanding people give her, her image will never get better. For example, you can say a lot of nice things about Pan Jinlian, but I want to say that you are Pan Jinlian, or that your woman is Pan Jinlian, and you are bound to be unhappy.

Pan Jinlian's tragedy originated from the legal system at that time. At that time, the legal system was not based on human rights, but on kingship, so Pan Jinlian had no human rights, let alone women's rights. The starting point of the legal system based on human rights is people, and its ultimate destination is also people. People's needs and interests are their primary concern and concern, so the concept of human rights first must run through all its principles, rules and concepts.

the legal system based on kingship, its starting point and foothold are not ordinary people, but the interests of the ruling group represented by the king or emperor. Under such a legal system, people can only be ruled by rulers as labor tools, and their legitimate rights and interests cannot be fully respected and protected. Under the legal system at that time, a woman didn't even have the right to decide her marriage and love. How could Pan Jinlian's life not be a tragic life?

As soon as Pan Jinlian appeared, he radiated a bright personality-he didn't obey Zhang Dajia against his will because he was a rich man. Aren't there a lot of beautiful women who are rich today? Zhang Dajia is a rich man, but Pan Jinlian just doesn't stay with him. She only stays with the man she likes. Compared with ancient and modern times, is Pan Jinlian very valuable? You're not with me, are you? Ok, I'll send you to Wu Dalang! Let you be with a short, ugly and timid man all your life. Pan Jinlian either obeys Zhang Dajia or marries Wu Dalang. Where to go? Mr. Wei Minglun's Sichuan opera Pan Jinlian expresses a woman's heart with lyrics:

Here is an ugly fool, and

there is a monkey dressed in clothes.

both sides are bitter wine,

once married, you will be worried for life.

are there three ways to go?

yes, throw yourself into the lotus pond.

Pan Jinlian thought of death. When he died, everything would be over, and all his troubles and pains would be gone. However-

the vegetation is affectionate, the moon is beautiful, and

the young age is like a flower, which is just the beginning.

Walk again on the road of life,

Bitter wine and tears swallow your throat!

how can you die? Between Zhang Dajia and Wu Dalang, she chose Wu Dalang.

Although Wu Da is ugly, he is not an animal.

The giants are as dark as graves.

it's better to marry a dwarf,

without a jackal pillow!

these aria make you cry. Is it beautifying Pan Jinlian? Not at all, I think. Isn't that how novels are written? Between wealth and character, she chose character-Wu Dalang is a good man after all.

If Wu Dalang does not have a brother like Wu Song, or if Wu Song does not appear in front of Pan Jinlian, what kind of woman would Pan Jinlian be? Will she have an affair later? Hard to say. At that time, most women were married with chickens and married with dogs. Starving to death was a trivial matter, and love was not a necessity for women, but a luxury. How can a woman be extravagant? Just live like this. People, whether men or women, if they take living as the highest goal and live with an attitude of just living, what pain can't be endured?

That's how countless people in China have lived through the ages. Think about it, terrible! Unfortunately, Wu Song appeared. This tiger hero on Jingyanggang is in sharp contrast with Pan Jinlian's husband Wu Dalang: one is a handsome man, and the other is a short figure that describes lewdness; One is that heroes are unstoppable, and the other is that it is difficult to bind chickens with timid hands. Any woman, any woman with normal body and mind, who marries Wu Da first and then meets Wu Er, can't help but feel ups and downs. In Wei Minglun's Sichuan opera Pan Jinlian, Pan Jinlian has a few lyrics, which tell her feelings about Wu Song: < P > Why does the heat wave roll with him?

why is it so lifeless without him?

why didn't you know Hao Jun in the first place?

why do you have uncle and sister-in-law when you meet?

At this point, Pan Jinlian has two choices: one is to abide by women's morality and be willing to be lonely; The second is to break away from bondage and pursue happiness. Women in China at that time, in the case of Pan Jinlian, mostly chose the former. But the problem is, choosing the former, not to mention that it is really a great pain for a woman like Pan Jinlian, even for a woman who is abstinent.

We can imagine that one is Wu Song and the other is Wu Da, and two people are dangling in front of your eyes. Think about it, your husband is not Wu Song, but Wu Da. How would you feel? Pan Jinlian didn't choose to be lonely, which doomed her tragic life. Her love for Wu Song not only broke the rule that men and women should not have extramarital affairs, but also broke the ethical rules between uncles and sisters-in-law, which was a double crime. But she just made love to Wu Song on double charges. In the society at that time, this was an amazing act.

this behavior can be analyzed from two levels. From a rational perspective, Pan Jinlian may not think that she is justified in doing so, or she simply doesn't dare to think about how to make moral judgments on her actions. Because once she thinks about it, she will plunge herself into deeper contradictions and pains. From the perceptual level, Pan Jinlian's desire for Wu Song has reached a very strong level, which is overwhelming. Otherwise, she wouldn't have designed the specific steps to seduce Wu Song so carefully, and she wouldn't have so naked emotional expression for Wu Song.

After reading the text carefully, we find that the whole process of Pan Jinlian's seduction on Wu Song is very interesting, lively and beautiful. Pan Jinlian first thinks that marrying Wu Da is so timid, but he feels strange. Why does Wu Da have such a brother as Wu Song? They are all born to a mother. Why is there such a big gap in life? Think again, this is my love bird flying, "I don't want this karma but here."

After thinking a lot, I began to talk to Wu Song. Brother, move back and live, and don't eat in the canteen in the yamen. Sister-in-law, the food I cooked is so clean and delicious! Don't come back, you have a woman outside? No, that's good! How old are you, brother? Oh, three years older than me. Sister-in-law I married your brother, and I got a lot of anger. If only I had you at home, I would hate a timid man, at such a time.

In addition to these languages, there are also some intimate gestures, such as, when eating at home, picking up food for Wu Song, and "handing over the picked food". Finally, in front of Wu Da, directly ask Wu Song to move back to live. Brother, if you don't move back to live, isn't that a joke for your brother and sister-in-law? Pan Jinlian's words are reasonable, and Wu Dalang also asked his brother to move back. Wu Song also agreed.

If we don't look at Water Margin from the perspective of Shi Naian, but from our own perspective, and if we don't regard Pan Jinlian as a * * * *, then we can read a lot of poetic and picturesque stories about Pan Jinlian's formal love for Wu Song at home.

On that day, it was snowing heavily. Wu Song went to the yamen to sign in, had breakfast with his colleagues, and came back through the snow. Wu Da went to sell cooking cakes, and naturally there were only Pan Jinlian and Wu Song at home. Pan Jinlian "warmed a note of wine" and drank with Wu Song. There is also a charcoal fire for heating in the room. Imagine the cold wind and snow outside the window and the hot wine brazier indoors; A * * * burning mood tide is difficult to suppress the young beauty, a cold and melancholy hero handsome boy, is it necessary to be poetic and picturesque? The rhyme of "Hairpin Phoenix" written by Lu You can be described as follows:

Red crisp hands, rattan wine, broken jade and lingering willow. The cold wind is evil, and the furnace flame is burning. Although pine and cypress depend on each other, uncle and sister-in-law are separated, Mo, Mo, Mo. Winter is as old as before, and people are not thin, so I dare to show my mind to you. Flowers are wrong, snow has no song. With a passion, how much blood and fire, wrong, wrong, wrong.

When Pan Jinlian and Wu Song have a drink, it is natural to tease Wu Song with words. Three of those words are the most interesting: First, "I heard an idle person say that my uncle keeps a singer in the East Street in front of the county. Do you dare to say that?" Brother, I heard that you have a little honey outside. Is that true? Second, "Uncle, you can't light a fire. I'll stir the fire with you, as long as it's as hot as a brazier." Wu Song went to poke the brazier, but Pan Jinlian said that he wouldn't, and he wanted to "stir the fire" with him before saying these words. The third is, "if you have the heart, eat my half-cup of wine." This is Pan Jinlian's most candid confession with Wu Song since he took a sip. Note that this "half a cup of wine" seems to have a profound meaning, as if to say to Wu Song, don't abandon sister-in-law as a married person.