Hello, second child

Actually, I'm not an intern parent anymore. After all, raising a boss, but raising a second child still feels completely different.

When the boss was born, it was a deserted street. Big Brother's grandparents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, and second aunts are watched by 12 people in their own homes alone. It is even more precious after birth. Before the birth of the child, countless taboos were planned for the child, which changed countless things about the material and spiritual upbringing of the child. As for the pregnancy in October, it is protected as a national treasure. After the child was born, grandparents almost monopolized the right to raise the child. My mother and I have become regular family visits, holding the children and showing them around. Grandparents said that the children were cold and hot, hungry and sick, and so on. Other family members are particularly fond of this child, thinking of countless kinds of complementary foods, buying countless kinds of toys and playing countless naughty castles. As for clothes, everyone buys them, and flowers bloom and fall.

When the second child was born, everything was timely. I didn't plan to have a second child. After all, in public institutions, the family planning policy is not for fun. Who knows that suddenly letting go of the second child, as a school-age group, we have become a policy generation. The family almost hit it off, of course, we don't object, and we think it's a good thing for the child to have a younger brother and sister. When pregnant with a second child, all kinds of hospital examinations are unnecessary except necessary. I didn't spend any more energy and snacks, so I saved all the exams. This is not only an economic issue, but also a question of confidence in the fertility of children. I don't want to believe the messy tricks of giving birth to children in hospitals. At the time of birth, the child unexpectedly developed jaundice, but we were not worried at all and easily crossed this hurdle. There are not many baby products for children, because it is good to have enough. I really don't know why I did so many things when I was a boss. After birth, everything is very simple whether you eat, wear, drink, live and play. Even, we didn't give the second child a decent full moon. The rest of the clothes are worn by the boss, and if they are still in good condition, they are directly worn by the second child. In fact, this is quite representative. I have a particular aversion to dressing children in old clothes. I used to think that clothes would only be worn in reverse when the material was underdeveloped and poor, but now I find that this is not the case at all. The clothes were left there, bought and washed by myself, without any damage, and even quite new. Big brother's second child is his own sister, and the second child wears clothes made by big brother. There is no feeling of discrimination against the second child, as if it should be, and there is even a little affection in it. As a result, some clothes have been worn on the boss, and the second one has been worn. This feeling is particularly wonderful and fun, as if the boss has grown up again. If you look closely, it's the second one. Although their brows are similar, these two different stooges have different happiness.

Then, I suddenly understood what it meant to have a second child as a pig. In fact, many people have said this sentence, and I don't understand it. Now I have personal experience, only to find that the birth of the boss is role-playing and feeling-finding, and the birth of the second child is the normal upbringing of human beings. That's what children should do. As a person, birth and growth are normal.

I have been confused and trapped by logic, and now I have a conclusion. A person's love is limited. When giving birth to a child, love is all on her. After giving birth to two children, will love be halved? In fact, this is not a problem, but a trap set by myself. Boss and penis are both proud. In this case, love will double, square and increase exponentially, but it will not decrease. Moreover, there seems to be no upper limit to the capacity of one's love.

Of course, a person's material ability is limited. People of the same age have only one child. If the material is concentrated on him, in principle, the conditions are indeed better and there are more opportunities. However, nothing is absolute. Whether you have one or both has its inherent rationality. What if two children share the material base equally? A first-class material life can never be achieved, but a life with love is always lacking. Two babies have just given their parents an examination question, and they need to work hard to create better conditions. However, as long as they are carefully raised and their sisters are together, they always have the right to see the world, be free and live a dignified life.

That's all.