Talk about the key.

Many people can't tell the difference between colleagues and friends in the workplace Therefore, many people lack proper restrictions when getting along with colleagues.

Whether it is national affairs, family affairs, or large and small family matters, tell colleagues one by one.

Honest people without scheming will always make their interpersonal relationships very tense because of their unintentional remarks.

We should distinguish between friends and colleagues.

When colleagues get along, everyone works for the same boss and has the same goal and mission. You can't form an alliance.

At this time, you are allies.

Allies will disintegrate because of the collapse of employment organizations, but friends will not.

Many people call a spade a spade and say, this is my good buddy and that is my good girlfriend.

Let others think that this person is doing well outside.

In fact, these labels will make you embarrassed when asking for help.

No one treats such people as friends and good girlfriends.

Introverts always envy people who seem to have sex and skills outside.

It's really not necessary. Such people are just paper tigers in interpersonal relationships.

So, how should we get along with our colleagues?

Limited exposure when speaking

When you talk to your colleagues, you can talk about your views on career and your values on certain things.

The only thing you can't say is who you met and who helped you in your life.

These things often make each other jealous and unpredictable. Smart people don't expose their privacy to their allies.

Speak innocently.

Three rules, don't gossip about former colleagues, don't say who you are related to, especially if the other person has an interest relationship with your relatives.

Some words, the worse they are in the stomach, the better.

There is an old saying: "I don't know if I should say it properly."

As long as you have such an idea in your heart, I advise you to give up and stop talking.

There's definitely nothing to say.

There is a small case in the senior high school English textbook.

When going to England, what can I talk to the locals anytime and anywhere?

Answer: "Weather". The weather in Britain is changeable, and there are always many jokes and stories about the weather.

So, for us China people, especially unfamiliar strangers, what do you think you are talking about when the other person listens?

Common topics in big cities: housing prices and transportation.

Common topics in northern cities: smog and cooling.

Southern cities: high temperature and rainy season.

Middle-aged unisex topics: making money, raising children, sending children to school, buying a house, paying wages and retiring.

Young men and women: dreams, career choices, movies, Huawei, Tencent and so on.

These words are harmless, but it is easy to lead the other person into your "trap", and they will think that you really understand people's hearts and hit the softest place in their hearts.

This method is easy to learn.

Too many people are impulsive and want to refute what others say as soon as they hear it. This is wrong, and that is wrong.

Whether young people who have just entered the workplace or elderly people who have been working for ten or twenty years.

No matter what our colleague says, we should follow him.

This is the performance of high emotional intelligence in the workplace.

Whether you can speak depends mainly on the environment, and has nothing to do with a person's introversion or good or bad personality.

The key depends on how we operate.

Above, the rules and methods of talking with colleagues are shared with you, hoping to inspire you.