Brother wants to buy a car, should he help?

if my parents ask me to pay for a car for my brother, I will give him some money if my financial conditions permit, but I won't give him all. This will also give my brother a sense of pressure, let him know that it is not easy to make money, and will also encourage him to make efforts to make money.

although I am not particularly satisfied with my parents' practice, I will not refuse my parents. It's mainly because it's not easy for our parents to bring us up. Anyway, they brought us into this world, raised our children for college, and made us have the ability to make money. You should be grateful to your parents and repay their kindness to us.

So if I have the ability, I will give some money to support my parents and buy a car for my younger brother, but I also have to discuss with my family, because this is not my own money. After I get married, it belongs to two people. I can't make decisions by myself.

At the same time, I will work with my parents to make a career plan for my younger brother. That is to say, he can't rely on his parents for everything, his brothers and sisters for everything, and no one can count on himself. Only by constantly making money can he live a better life in the future. You can't rely on others all your life. You need to do more things by yourself.

But if my parents ask me to buy a car for my younger brother today and a house for my younger brother tomorrow, I will refuse decisively. I think this is not helping my brother, but harming him. We must let him establish the idea of self-reliance and self-reliance, which is the best help for him.