I am so tired of loving, should I continue to hold on or let go?

01 It’s not that you don’t love anymore, it’s just that you are too tired? Is there such a person that you mention but don’t know how to speak about? Is there such a relationship that makes you feel that you will never love like this in your life? Alone.

No one can be more tired than a tired heart, and nothing can hurt the heart more than hurt feelings. When a person is tired, he can take a nap. Love is hurt, but it is a lifetime of hurt.

In relationships, if you give for too long and still get no response, you don’t want to give anymore, because all your enthusiasm will be exhausted; if you take the initiative for too long and you are still passive, you don’t want to be active anymore. Because my heart is completely exhausted. When my heart is tired, I don’t want to take the initiative; when my feelings are hurt, I don’t want to love anymore.

You can love someone without asking for anything in return, but feelings require a response from the other person. Otherwise, a person's one-man show can only become a meaningless monologue, and sooner or later it will end.

In the world of infatuation, many people who leave voluntarily do so not because they no longer love, but because they are too tired of loving. Time cannot keep yesterday, and fate will not wait in place. Don't let those who are waiting for you wait until despair; don't let those who miss you be completely disappointed.

I’m too tired, just forget it! Having truly loved each other is the best farewell.

02

I have taken ninety-nine steps toward you. If you are still unwilling to take the last step, I will leave it to your dignity.

There is a saying in love: Ninety-nine steps are all love, and the last step is dignity. If you have reached ninety-nine steps and still can't get back even a gentle look or a little tenderness from the other person, then with your heart full of scars and tears, please look back and leave a step for yourself to turn around.

Some feelings will have results if you don’t take the initiative. Some people are not worthy of your constant initiative. People who have you in their hearts will always take the initiative to come to you; if they don’t have you in their hearts, they will come to you. , even if you take the initiative to stand in front of him, you will be ignored. Some feelings must be given up, some memories must be buried deep in the heart, and some longings need not be spoken.

One day you will understand that maybe your self-righteous affection and initiative are just a lonely pastime when he is bored. If you can’t bear to leave, it’s not that you don’t love anymore, but that you are too tired of loving and your heart is cold; The hurt is too deep, it’s not that I can’t bear it, but that it’s not worth it.

You don’t need a reason to love someone. If you don’t love anything, you can use it as an excuse. If you love someone, love it well. If you don’t love someone, let it go. You don’t have to compromise for him anymore. Lower yourself and stop trying to break through. Entering his world, you no longer need to be so persistent, affectionate and reluctant to be gentle.

Awakening is a moment of relief, and it also makes you finally understand that he is not in your life. Leave some dignity to yourself, be more free and easy, and let this once beautiful pursuit time flow slowly and slowly. As time goes by, with a little regret, start a new life.

03

Some feelings cannot be forgotten; some people cannot let go. It’s not that they don’t love you anymore, but that they are too tired? Feeling so tired, so tired? Choosing to let go does not mean that you are too tired. Love, but it’s too difficult.

In life, there are destined to be some encounters that we will remember for a lifetime, and there will also be some pains that we will never forget. It is destined that too many promises we have made will not be fulfilled, and many emotions will be consumed in the end. , it’s not that I don’t love you anymore, but that I am too tired, because I have taken the initiative for too long and expected too much, but I am always ignored, humbled, and debased.

No matter how nice you are to him, he will not notice, because you seem so insignificant in his life. There are some things that we know are wrong but we still do them. Like some people, you know clearly that they will not love you, but you still move forward without hesitation.

One person’s forced dedication makes people heart-wrenching and exhausted, making them feel suffocated and painful. Letting go after helplessness is always full of regrets and despair. Perhaps, good love , don't force it, let alone use too much force, otherwise it will hurt your heart, lungs, liver, and mood.

Many relationships change over time. The love is too tiring and the hurt is too deep. In the end, we have no choice but to leave. The relationships that end without a problem are all at the end of fate. Keep watching. It’s not until the future, but I still miss you after I leave. In the world of love, it’s really hard to live up to your love.

04

I’m really tired. I hope you will have a good life in the future and don’t let me down by not disturbing you in my life.

Leaves don't turn yellow in a day, and people's hearts don't turn cold in a day. Giving up on a relationship is never a whim, but a accumulation of various disappointments and helplessness. Disappointment again and again, helplessness again and again. , which makes you physically and mentally exhausted, without the confidence to persist anymore, and finally breaks out in silence, without any sound or noise, and just gives up quietly.

Obviously I love you deeply, but I don’t say it anymore; I obviously miss you, but I don’t say it anymore; I obviously care about you, but I don’t say it anymore. It hurts to let go, but if you hold on, it will hurt even more.

Your deep affection cannot exchange for a little bit of her tenderness; you forgive again and again, but he cannot give you the confidence to love; you care about her and feel sorry for her, but she is indifferent and responds to you with indifference. It's good; you try your best to get close to him, but he repels your pursuit with a bored look.

Many times, without him to comfort you when you are sad, without him to accompany you when you are lonely, and without him to share your burdens when you are in trouble, you can only swallow all your grievances and sorrows silently, because he does not care about your happiness at all. Anger and joy, sorrow and warmth, you care so much, but all you get in exchange is his indifference. In the end, you just hurt yourself, make yourself very tired, hurt, but reluctant to let go.