Life insights: The road will become longer and longer, and the heart will become calmer and quieter.

1. We all thought we could die for love. In fact, love cannot kill people. It will only stick a needle in the most painful place, and then we will cry without tears. We tossed and turned for a long time. The disease becomes the cure, and we become the steel.

2. Whenever we are unlucky, we have to tell ourselves: The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.

3. As a young person, you have enough reasons to believe that you will get the happiest love in the world. Therefore, I have enough reasons to advise you to wait patiently. Don't believe any sweet words too early. No matter whether those words are well-intentioned or malicious, they will not do you any good. Fruits only become sweet when they are ripe, and the same goes for happiness.

4. Cai Kangyong: One day, all this will pass. Thinking of this result makes me happy. No matter how tiring love is, no matter how tiring hate is, it will all pass away. Insomnia, being wronged, traffic jams, being too poor will all pass away. Being scorned, being forced to lie, being forced to admit that you can't change anything, or that you don't look good will pass.

5. I often feel that it takes a long, long time to shed a tear. The older people grow up, the more accustomed they are to suppressing their true inner feelings. They no longer cry loudly and laugh loudly, but just lighten up on everything. It seems that there are less and less things that can make us sad enough to cry immediately. Eventually, we become children who cannot cry.

6. Love is not a charity. You cannot give away your feelings just because you think someone is pitiful. You can give love once, but it is difficult to give love forever.

7. "The Road Less Traveled" by M Scott Pike: We must be vigilant. Blame, like anger and hatred, can bring people a pleasant feeling. Venting anger is satisfying, blaming others is satisfying, and hatred is satisfying. Like other pleasurable activities, they can easily become addictive and can lead to addiction and habit formation.

8. According to psychological tests, the longest time you can have a crush on someone is a month. If you are still obsessed with the same person after more than a month, then you have truly fallen in love with him/her.

9. When you have love, don’t touch ambiguity: In the face of precious love, we need to stick to it till the end. Withstand temptation and loneliness, only in this way can we give each other the greatest sense of security, and the road to love will be smooth and smooth.

10. As long as your heart is clear, there will be no rainy days in life.

11. "Sense and Emotion": If a woman is unfortunate enough to be smart enough to know everything, she must also know how to pretend to know nothing.

12. I can go crazy with you, and I can also be quiet with you, but only with you.

13. Don’t forget the past when you succeed; don’t forget there is a future when you fail.

14. Zhang Ailing's "Heart Sutra": You have broken someone's heart, and you want her to pick up the rags and patiently put them together piece by piece, like children playing a jigsaw puzzle. Even if we work hard for ten or eight years, we won’t be able to do it all.

15. Observe other people’s lives, see your own sadness in other people’s stories, and hear your own helplessness in other people’s laughter.

16. Love is like chewing gum, it will become boring after a long time, but no matter where we throw it, it will leave indelible traces.

17. When the sun rises over the East China Sea and sets over the Western Mountains, there will be a day of sorrow and a day of joy. If you don’t get into trouble, you will be comfortable and your heart will be at ease.

18. Yi Shu's "Bridge of Sighs": What you can't do is your own business. When you dream back at midnight, you can recall it as much as you like, but in front of others and behind others, I want you to pretend that nothing happened. Like it happened. You can do it, we can all do it, this is how people survive.

19. The most tiring thing is often not the distance of the road, but the depression in your heart; the most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of your self-confidence; the most painful thing The most despairing thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the shattering of your hopes; the most despairing thing is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of your soul.

20. Love is like fireworks, they cannot hang in the sky forever; as long as they were once gorgeous, the trip was worthwhile.

21. The depth of trust in a friend does not depend on whether you smile at him, but on whether you are willing to cry in front of him.

22. Paul Giordano's "The Loneliness of Prime Numbers": The choice is only a matter of a few seconds, and then use the remaining time to pay off the debt.

23. Roland Barthes' "Lover's Discourse": A certain romantic celebrity fell in love with a prostitute, but she said to him: As long as you sit in my garden under my window and wait for me for a hundred All night long, I'll be yours. On the ninety-ninth night, the Yake stood up, took the stool and walked away. Because he knew that when the time came, she would definitely be his. What he was waiting for was not inevitable, but accidental.

24. Anthony's "This is the Love You Give Me": Don't let the person who likes you cry for you heartbreakingly just once. Because you only have one chance to hurt him/her like that. After that time, you changed from an indispensable person to a dispensable person. Even if he/she still loves you, something has really changed.

25. Sometimes life will force you to hand over power, let go of opportunities, and even abandon love. You cannot get everything. You should learn to give up in life. Like cleaning up files on your computer. Life is about walking step by step and throwing away bit by bit. What you walk out is the road and what you throw away is the baggage. In this way, the road will become longer and longer, and the mind will become calmer and quieter.

26. Love is actually a habit. You are used to having him in your life, and he is used to having you in his life. When you have it, you don't feel anything. Once you lose it, you feel like you have lost everything.

27. Milan Kundera's "The Unbearable Lightness of Being": People can never know what they want, because people can only live once, and they can neither compare it with previous lives nor compare it with previous lives. It cannot be corrected in the next life. Living only once is like never living at all.