The difference between capable people and incompetent people.

Du once said: "The first category has the ability to lose temper, the second category has the ability to lose temper, and the last category has the ability to lose temper."

As a man who is the pillar of a family, the stronger the ability, the happier and more harmonious the family, because the stronger the ability, the better the education. They can work hard outside and take care of their families. In their hearts, home is a warm place, and no matter how unhappy he is outside, he will never bring his emotions home.

A truly capable man can shelter his family from the wind and rain. They understand the importance of responsibility and the philosophy of family and everything, while men without ability will only bring trouble to their families. They only use expressions to cover up their incompetence and laziness.

Zhu Zhu, a friend, has made a lot of noise recently. Although illness is not a good thing for her family, having a good husband is the envy of many friends. Everyone who sees her will praise: "Zhu Zhu, your husband is so kind, you are so happy."

Zhu Zhu's mother's family got sick some time ago. I'm not too sick, but I still spent a lot of money. The main thing is to raise more children and need someone to take care of them from time to time.

In the early stage of gastric cancer, it is not a very serious disease, but it can also kill people. The operation needs some money. Zhu Zhu's family is not rich, so there is still a little lack of money for such an operation.

Although Zhu Zhu has done a good job on her husband's side, after all, she can't unilaterally decide to give it to her family, otherwise it is not conducive to family harmony. Originally, Zhu Zhu thought that his younger brother would borrow it from her husband, and then lobbied for it himself, so it would be nice to borrow it and give it away.

But before Zhu Zhu spoke, when her husband knew that he was short of money for surgery, he immediately transferred money from Cary to his brother-in-law and told her that she didn't have to pay back. This touched Zhu Zhu a lot. She asked her husband how you treated me so well. Her husband took her by the hand and said:

Besides paying for the operation for her mother-in-law's family, Zhu Zhu's husband, knowing that her mother-in-law needed careful care after the operation, found a nanny to take care of her three meals a day and share the pressure for her wife, which not only made her recover well, but also avoided the pain of her wife running back and forth.

Therefore, Zhu Zhu got all kinds of envious eyes from his friends. If it is enviable, then Sister Li may be just the opposite. Speaking of her, everyone can only sigh: "sin!"

Sister Li has been married for decades. We lived around and watched all the way. We only think that Sister Li's life is hot. Unmarried girls may go to fear of marriage if they see it.

Sister Li has a well-known husband. His fame lies not in how capable and excellent he is, but in his incompetence, laziness and temper. Whoever educates his children must give a negative example.

Li Jie's husband Hu Fei, just like this name, runs amok. Hu Fei works in a gas station not far from home, and his salary is not high. He has little money left to take home, let alone support his family, except to ask his friends to eat, drink and have fun. His family relies on two houses left by their parents to collect rent and Li Jie to work to maintain their family.

If Hu Fei just returned home, he immediately changed his face, always telling Sister Li what to do, always scolding Sister Li, especially the children at home are in high school, and he has to go to a lot of cram schools, so Sister Li let him find a way.

Sister Li told us privately that it was because he became angry from embarrassment. He has no ability and can't show his ability, so he has to take it out. But how to take it out, outsiders have no reason to dare, then what to do is to come to his house, and he feels comfortable to criticize casually.

Hu Fei is a typical incompetent and big-tempered, hoping to show his position in the family to show that he is not useless.

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Capable men always spoil their wives and children, while incompetent men only spoil themselves. Men who have no ability are timid when they meet anyone outside, but the opposite is true when they get home. It is their usual style to be harsh and bossy to their families.

Because the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility and gratitude. They know that it is the wife's silent contribution to the family that makes them feel at ease.

Therefore, the more successful a man is, the more he knows how to respect his wife and cherish his family. They give all their time outside work to their families, and never quarrel with them at will, because they know that beating and cursing is just a sign of their incompetence.

Huang Xiaoming's love for Angelababy has always been obvious. Even though his wife Yang Ying had a lot of negative news about Heifen, Huang Xiaoming never lost this painful pet. Before getting married, she gave Yang Ying a luxury car and various small gifts, and the wedding ceremony was even more grand, satisfying the fairy tale wedding that girls yearned for. Not only that, but also can bring surprises to Angelababy from time to time in daily life.

In addition to Huang Xiaoming, Liu, Huo, the son of the gambling king, He Youjun and many other well-known successful people have a good impression on their wives. It can be seen that the greater their skills, the more they will hurt their wives and know how to make progress.

As the saying goes, people can't be poor. The more incompetent men are, the more they must make progress and earn enough skills. At that time, even if you have a big temper, it is understandable, but before that, you should cultivate your body and mind many times and be an open-minded and hard-working person.

The reason why capable people are gentle in temper and cherish their families is because they all have an optimistic and positive heart and maintain positive energy. They know that their family's talents need to be cherished and feel at ease at home.

Have the ability to work hard on your own and cultivate your temper on your own. The harder you work, the luckier you will be, so set a small goal and try to be a capable and cultured person.